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New relationship
Posted Sunday March 2 2014, 10:52 pm
13/m
So last Friday was a dance at my school and I went with a girl i like. She and all of her freinds know i like her and her freinds told me if i was to ask her out, shed say yes. So i took the chance and asked her out and she said yes. So now we are dating and this has been my first relationship in well over a year so im a little rusty. This being said im a little reluctantbto saying that i love her or calling her "babe" because i dont want to rush things if you know what i mean. So I was wondering when it would be a good time to start with this and ill take any other relationship tips that you can give me. Thank you for your help and have a nice day.
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Fertility pills
Posted Sunday March 2 2014, 10:40 pm
Everyone wants to be on birth control but I want to be pregnant! Are there pills you can take to make you more fertile so you get pregnant easier?
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Infidelity and second chances does he deserve another one?
Posted Sunday March 2 2014, 8:47 pm
Hi I'm in pieces and don't know what to do. I've been with my husband 20 years we have a 10 year old daughter and 7 year old son we also foster a 6 year old girl. We seem to have everything you could dream of enough money, perfect jobs, joy and happiness, nice cars, perfect kids but where do you go from there when you've reached all your goals. I know my husband is displaying every sign of a midlife crisis and is struggling maybe even depressed. He's 38 & I'm 37. I found out 2 weeks ago he's been having an affair for 4 months with a girl 24 year old who has a toddler. When I found out he said he'd hoped I would because he was trying to break it off with her for a while. He says he feels sorry for her as she was physically abused by he...
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Did I choose the right guy?
Posted Sunday March 2 2014, 8:44 pm
So, within the past couple of months, I joined a little musical band and I met two guys in the band. One of the guys I was friends with before joining, and the other I met whilst in the band. The guy I first met, I had the biggest crush on him ever. We finally started a little relationship with each other but things became complicated and rocky. The other guy, well he saw how down I was feeling about the first guy and reached out to me and really helped me out through my tough time. Eventually, we both really opened up to each other and I realized that he is such a nice guy and he fell for me even more. Granted, I was never attracted to him in the beginning, his personality became heart warming over time. The thing is, I never fully left th...
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I want an on-line guy from another country, is it possible?
Posted Sunday March 2 2014, 7:39 pm
Ok I hv realised that I dont want to date anyone in my country.I want an online guy..is it possible or imi crazy..I'm pretty and kind. I hv been told so..I'm 15
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How to break my friend and her boyfriend up?
Posted Sunday March 2 2014, 12:42 am
Hey there. So I'm 14 and my best friend has been dating this guy for almost three months. Before him, her and I were really close and talked about music and choir things. Now all she ever blabs to me about is her boyfriend and it gets annoying. Now she doesn't barley hang with me anymore because his cousin moved to our school over a month ago and ever since, has been all over her. This boy though, is 17 and my friend is 15. This boy wasn't a virgin and she was. Then they had sex three times with "protection" and she lost her virginity to him. And 15 is too young! She even posts pics of him on Instagram and Facebook nonstop and all she ever posts about is him! I just don't think this guy truly loves her. She even says they're gonna...
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Confusion of Both Worlds
Posted Saturday March 1 2014, 4:40 pm
I'm not new to relationships, I've been through six; They were ALL deeply serious but ALL collapsed because it was deeply LIMITED as well. By "Limited" I mean it had limits like she's not allowed to talk much to boys, or have many boy contacts or or or...endless limits and jealousy of mine I know I had them living like she's in a PRISON cell..which is probably why they ended up.
Now, I'm in my seventh relationship. It is the TOTAL OPPOSITE of what I'm used to! It's VERY difficult for me, you simply can't imagine how hard is my consciousness torturing me! She's allowed to go out with all of her friends no exceptions, she's allowed to do whatever...because I'm convincing myself for once that "since she loves and wants me...
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Dreams about a guy I've never met before...?
Posted Saturday March 1 2014, 3:49 pm
Now please do not come up with that "You must have seen him before" shit, because I know I have NOT seen him in my life.
Anyway, I'm in this religion where my God helps me with all my problems. And I told Him that I've been very lonely, and then I wrote down everything I want in a boy. The first time I did this, I met the first boy. He was everything I asked for.
That night I had a dream about that exact boy. He had long, straight jet black hair. Snakebite piercings. Taller than me. Black clothing and black converse. the whole setting was white. And he was looking at something. I had a feeling we were at Walmart, and he was looking at the CD's. But I'm not completely sure.
The next dr...
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Boyfriend miserable...struggling to be supportive
Posted Saturday March 1 2014, 2:52 pm
18/f
So my boyfriend is being very miserable lately. Some of his pets died in separate incidents which got him down.
Then he found out his dad could be closer to death than he thought (he has cancer and has had for a while-the dad)
I keep offering to go out, and to take his mind of things. I've taken him to the cinema, for meals and days out and been available to chat to all the time.
However, selfish though it may sound, his miserableness is rubbing off on my own wellbeing. Its just one thing after another. Like anything I say or text to try and provide reassurance its like "ok thanks. I'm also worried about something else :( "
Everyday there's a new problem. I wa...
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I love my "Aunt" in that way
Posted Friday February 28 2014, 10:31 pm
So I love this girl. When I say love I mean love. I constantly think about her (almost everyday) and think about how perfect she is. But, she's my "aunt". Known her my whole life as an aunt but she is my moms best friend since 1980. But anyway, when I went to visit her up in Colorado with my family she flirted with me the entire time. Hugging me constantly, rubbing, holding hands for a bit, winking, and more. And at the time she was married to her husband of about 10 years. But she would never show these signs in front of her hubby. Anyway, every time we talked her eyes would sparkle with her smiling and intently listening, and if we were in a group of people she would always look at me and smile at me throughout the conversation....
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I think my crush likes me… but I'm not sure…
Posted Friday February 28 2014, 6:53 pm
Today at the 5th grade pizza party he stared at me dancing,I mean, I'm a good dancer because people were clapping for me and taking videos… but when I looked at him he looked away. He does a awful lot of staring and flashing smiles at me… but never actually interacts with me… every now and then we have a short conversation… I'm not the type to babble like an idiot when talking with a crush, and he seems a little shy about it… I'm not sure how to approach him, how? And do you think he likes me?
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9 year relationship with high school sweetheart going bad, please help.
Posted Thursday February 27 2014, 4:24 am
relationship question. I am desperate for advice. I am 22, my boyfriend is almost 23. we have been dating on and off since we were in 8th grade, so for over 8 years now. we do not live together, we each still live at home with parents. i am 8 weeks away from graduating from college with a 4 yr degree, i also work part time. he has not had a single job in his life, and also dropped out of high school senior year. does not have his GED. our relationship is extremely strained because of this. we cannot go out to movies or out to eat because he is literally broke. his parents are enablers and give him money once or twice a week. he spends the money (usually 10 bucks is given) on beer and lottery tickets.
he is on medication for a...
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Unintended break up, lying ex
Posted Wednesday February 26 2014, 10:55 pm
Weird scenario where I disn't actually intend to send break up text. He got it though. I saw his profile on free dating site we had met on. I panicked and texted him. I explained I didn't really wanna break up and why had he jumped back to dating so fast? He said was just looking around and had no pics so noone knew who he was. Talked about taking some time and meet again later. Two hours later his profile was full of pics, including ones I had asked him to take for me and send me. Ugh. Why lie? Should I call him on it? I am hurt he lied.
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I dont feel comfortable around my boyfriends family..?
Posted Wednesday February 26 2014, 12:24 pm
So first of all im a shy 17 year old girl and it takes me some time to become comfortable around strangers enough to talk to them. Well my boyfriends mom and dad are divorced so he has 2 familys kinda. I feel uncomfortable around them both. They are complete opposites of my family and what im used to being around. My family is a christian family who are strict and will do anything they can to help someone in need. They make anyone feel accepted and comforatble. But his family is the opposite. His dads house is where he lives mostly and he hates it. He has that evil step mom. i mean shes evil. She would be rude to me and talk crap about me when i wasnt there and my mom and dad found out and im not allowed back in that house. His dad has talk...
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A Guy I Work With
Posted Tuesday February 25 2014, 8:33 pm
There's this guy I work with that I started talking to. Well, he admitted that he likes me a lot the other day and I couldn't tell him that I like him back because I'm not sure if I do or not. I know if you like someone, the feeling should just come natural and all that jazz. I had him over the other night and we watched a movie on the couch and without even realizing it, I laid my head on his shoulder. Then when he went to leave, he leaned in to kiss me and I turned away. He makes me feel special, he really really does. I've never been in a real relationship, though, so maybe this actually happening and maybe turing into more is scaring me but I just don't really feel that spark and I didn't have the desire to lean in halfway and kiss him ...
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My crush and my friends
Posted Tuesday February 25 2014, 7:31 pm
I have a crush on a boy but it turns out 2 of my friends have the same crush. They keep saying that they told him. I really want to talk to him but I do not know when I should. What should I do?
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In love with 2: Cheating on my fiance of 3 years
Posted Monday February 24 2014, 9:05 pm
20/female:
So I had an affair last summer on my fiancé of 3 years..
I fell in love with this man... We stopped speaking but I can't bare living without him... I love him but I also love my fiancé, I wish I could have both and live happily ever after, like beautiful savages... She's got it all...
I need sneaky ideas to keep my rekindled affair from my fiancé...
Help?!
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42 year old and an 18 year old dating advice
Posted Monday February 24 2014, 7:48 pm
So do you think it could work between an 18 year old female and a 42 year old woman. I know it's 24 year difference. Heres some background on this exact situation. I'm the 18 year old I met this woman when I was 14 and I didn't have feelings for her until 17 almost 18 and I want to ask her on a date but before I do, do you think it could work?
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Do I have crush on her?
Posted Monday February 24 2014, 4:44 pm
Hey, I'll get right into it. I met this girl called Kelsey about year ago in my science class and some people joked about being married and i never thought much of it but over the last few months we've been talking more and more and the marriage joke had gone really far. Anyway we talk about everything, including our love lives. We talk most nights now and i really don't know if i've found a good friend or something more.
And if i do a crush on her what do i do about it(i know she still has feelings for an old boyfriend)
Thanks for reading!
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my crush likes my best friend...I need HELP.
Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 9:53 pm
My name is Courtney,and i'm 17 years old. So, I can't seem to get over my crush that i've had for a while. I got this crush when I met him in my schools drama program. I have completely fallen for him, and I know for a fact that he likes my best friend (basically my sister). He gave her a chocolate rose on Valentines Day, and wants to go to prom with her. It totally breaks my heart.
I am so frustrated because we are actually friends, and even worse, WE PLAY A COUPLE IN THE PLAY. every time I try to shake off the crush, we do something adorable in the play and I fall right back into it again. I don't know what to do about this whole situation and I have no one to talk to.
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