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Do I have crush on her?
Hey, I'll get right into it. I met this girl called Kelsey about year ago in my science class and some people joked about being married and i never thought much of it but over the last few months we've been talking more and more and the marriage joke had gone really far. Anyway we talk about everything, including our love lives. We talk most nights now and i really don't know if i've found a good friend or something more.
And if i do a crush on her what do i do about it(i know she still has feelings for an old boyfriend)
Thanks for reading!
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LOLs... I didn't "want" it but... it does give your scenario perspective..
Wow and you're on your way to graduation too!!
It's such a terrible time to find someone before h.s. ends...
If ya'll are going away to college, let alone separate colleges, it's even worst.
If yall live in the same town, then there may be something to have for at least the next 5-6 months.
You did mention that yall talk nights... that's a very good indicator.
She likes you... but how to determine if your her "Edward" or her "Jacob", without all the drama and intensity???
Hmmm...
The story sounds more like a "Jacob" (Twilight) scenario, with bits of Edward, with the night thing....
Are you a "highlight(cool/popular)" guy at your school, because if so, then yeah she's probably into you, in that... "She wishes to be more than your friend"... however if you're not, you might be her "comfort buddy"...
It's sticky if you're NOT a jerk and want to get with her..
Sooner or later.. you just may have to ask...
*shrugs* GL
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You are not going to be able to explore whether there is a spark or something more to what you have until she is over emotionally healing from loss of old boyfriend. Maybe just your being a great friend will help her to process through it. If you begin to develop feelings for her besides the friendship kind, then keep it to yourself until she shows signs that she's emotionally over the other guy and now available for a new relationship. If not sure, then after a month or so ask her how she's doing regarding the old boyfriend, if she's over the hurt and loss. What you can do also is trying flirting by touch to see how she responds to it. If she doesn't the first time you try does not mean she isnt interested at all that way, it might still be too early for her. Give her more time and then try for more definite flirting by touch and if she responds then she is equally interested that way.
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The best long term relationships start out as friendships. Take it slow & see what develops.
If she is just getting over a boyfriend you don't want to rush into a rebound relationship.
Keep up the talk & get closer. Ignore the jokers, they are just jealous. After a while, when she stops lamenting about the old boyfriend, ask her to the movies or a school dance & just see how it goes.
Good luck!
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