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Dreams about a guy I've never met before...?
Now please do not come up with that "You must have seen him before" shit, because I know I have NOT seen him in my life.
Anyway, I'm in this religion where my God helps me with all my problems. And I told Him that I've been very lonely, and then I wrote down everything I want in a boy. The first time I did this, I met the first boy. He was everything I asked for.
That night I had a dream about that exact boy. He had long, straight jet black hair. Snakebite piercings. Taller than me. Black clothing and black converse. the whole setting was white. And he was looking at something. I had a feeling we were at Walmart, and he was looking at the CD's. But I'm not completely sure.
The next dream, my dad was abusing me. And my mom was crying and begging him to stop. Then the exact same boy looked around the corner and began glaring and mumbling angrily at my dad.
The third dream, I was hanging out with this boy that I go to school with. And the boy kept glaring at him and following me everywhere I went. And I had asked for a boy who would feel the need to be with me all the time or would freak out.
Now that boy I dreamed about who goes to my school asked me to be his again. And I agreed. And after that I hadn't had dreams about the boy again. Last night, that boy was being really disrespectful to his mom, so I began having doubts on if I should be with him. And last night I had a dream where he was crying on the picnic table, and I noticed that boy I asked for sitting on the other picnic table, and could feel him staring at me. I was walking away with my English teacher as I talked about Nicholas Sparks with her. That dream was really random as you can tell.
I had dreams about the first guy before. Had asked my God for him and the dreams came. And I met him. So what do these dreams mean? Is it possible I can meet this boy since I met the first one before?
I'm NOT trolling. I'm being serious. NO hate, just help with understanding these dreams.
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I had a girlfriend at church in the past who told me she asked God for a guy and instead of in a dream, she was given details in messages from God while awake, the job he would have and what his name is too. And thats who she met. So who knows what is possible. I was told by God to make a list of what I was looking for (after a divorce) in a husband. I put needs, like having same beliefs, and wants like him wearing his hair long which is frosting on the cake but not totally necessary. Except for a couple of the 'wants', I got everything on my list. Both myself and the other gal did not have a visual before hand of what the guy would look like.
You had a request in prayer too. While at it, make it even more specific.
What's more important to you now, that you get a guy with the characteristics you asked for, or one that looks like what you have been repeatedly seeing in your dreams.
I ask because we can get pulled off track by what we see. A pretty package on the outside does not necessarily mean that what is inside is also very nice.
For dreaming sake, there has to be a face to characters in your dream. While asleep, your subconscious mind is in control.
The subconscious mind is where all our emotions and feelings are stored so these come to the surface in dreamland. So there must be at least some vague ideas you have in mind of what type of guy you'd visually find attractive and that often can represent itself in your dreams. It does not necessarily mean you will meet someone who looks exactly like that. However, there's always a slight chance that you could meet someone who does look like that but his character is bad and he is one who mistreats females. Don't just assume. Ask God questions along the way. Things you get in life and experience aren't just to make you happy. As souls we are going to face good but also plenty tough things in life that help to shape our souls into more like Gods image. A perfect life won't do that. And when we are younger and inexperienced yet, we tend to often make mistakes. So just be patient and wait to see what happens. I can't say exactly what your dreams mean.
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