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Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 9:38 pm

19/f
Ok I've hung out with my older brother's friends for awhile now (he is 25 and his friends range from 21 - 28 i think). Well, I've liked one of them for a couple years now, and they had a new years eve party last night. I ended up staying there, and me and this guy that I've liked slept on the couch together (nothing happened though, just cuddling). After we all left, he sent me a message on facebook and said he had a good time chillin with me and gave me his number. So I gave him mine, and we're texting now. He wants to take me to a movie sometime, and I'm really excited. But the problems are 1) he's 24 and 2) my brother doesn't really like him anymore (some girl issue they had like a year ago). I really want to see where things...

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Bad kisser?


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 8:43 pm

Hi there. =)

Okay, my ex had told his friends that I was a bad kisser, and one of is friends relayed that back to me. He was my first boyfriend, so I'm convinced I could have been bad at it...so any help, advice, or experiences would be very much appreciated!

Thanks a bunch!



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what do i do? maybe a guys point of view.


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 8:35 pm

so theres this guy and his name is jesse. he works for my parents at the business they own. i hung out with him the other day while he was working and he was flirting with me ALOT. he thinks im older than i really am because i told him i was 3 years older than i really am just so i would be around his age. there is a 3 or 4 year differencce between us. i like him more than i have liked anybody in the world. i can be myself around him and im afraid that if i tell him my real age ..he will get weird with me. which doesnt seem like a thing jesse would do but i dont know im not so sure. he flirted with me a bit before he knew my real age and things but not alot only because i really got to know him last night. i know this kinda sounds slutty of...

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what do i doo...


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 7:41 pm

Ok guys i need help ! im really confused. First ill just let you know that i have a problem with staying in a relationship...i always get bored! I always end up finishing with the boy because im just bored :\ My longest relationship has been around 7 week! Then i just move on..
Rite well i have this bf, i'll call him tyler. He is really sweet and great and evrything but i really dont know wether i want to be with him. sometimes i feel as though i am bored with him .. and other times i will want to stay with him :S we argue a few times but apart from that he's great.
Also.. i met this lad one night whilst i was out called jamie. He is hot ! and i would really like to get to know him better ;) but i cant because of my bf :S We...

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Making out?


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 7:32 pm

i'm going on sort of a double date thing on friday. Its going to be me and my boyfriend and my friend and her boyfriend going to the movies.My boyfriend and i haven't kissed yet and he said he was gunna kiss me in the movie. This will be my first kiss. Wat should i do?????
Thanx in advance


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HOw can i walk away?


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 6:32 pm

So im 15. and i have this friend named well lets call him alex. Me and alex are best friends we talk everygiht on the phone for three hours. and we used to date for two months. i still like him kinda. and i am the type of person who is very dependant i need somone. And i cant loose them. When i break up or loose someone it takes me a while to get over them. So back to this friend he treats me like shit. I have to bribe him to talk to me by sending him pictures but i need him. I really want to get away from him because hes just makiing me more sad but i cant. How am i suppos to let go of him and walk away before he hurts me even more? any advice would be great thanks so much.

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brake up confussion


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 5:19 pm

so my boyfriend and i broke up (the reason why is WAY to long to explain) and i broke up with him, then we got back together, and the next day he broke up with me. anyway i was so mad at him for so many reasons, and i still get mad when i think about it, but at the same time i want him back. he broke my heart and i still want him back. whats wrong with me? how do i get over him?

thanks SO much for ur help

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Problem with guy in college


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 5:07 pm

Alright so I was at a party roughly a week ago and I hooked up (as in made-out) with a college freshman named Brian. Then he went and hooked up with one of my (not super close) friends Jen and I didn't care at all, I don't get attatched to people, especially boys, that quickly. He apologized alot and told me that I was the one he wanted to hook up with, yeah cheesy I know, and even funnier, supposedly he told Jen the same thing. He messaged me on Facebook the next day to say he was sorry again, and I said it was ok. I didn't think he was that into me at the time. SO, yesterday he texted my friend who was having all my friends over and said he wanted to come to see ME. So he came and I was completely DRUNK and I think I kissed him 3 times bu...

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withdrawl<3


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 4:48 pm

im really sad. ive gone the whole break without seeing my boyfriend. ive talked to him, but its not the same. weve been going out for a long time, and this is the 1st time i havent seen him for a while. i miss him very badly. any ideas on how to get (atleast temporarily) my sadness gone and how to make my day a lil happier? any advice welcome. xoxo

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making out


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 4:07 pm

13/f
i have made out with two guys. And the first one,my ex boyfriend, was an absolute terrible kisser. The second one, my current boyfriend, was a pretty good kisser... way better than the first one. But my problem is I didn't really like it. It just isn't what I thought kissing would be. And I feel like it might be me that's a bad kisser, but I don't see how because I have taken a ton of advice on making out, and I use all of the tips. I have been thinking about it a lot lately, and what if my boyfriend doesn't like it, or think im a bad kisser. What tricks can I use to make things more fun for him and me?? HAND PLACEMENTS?? anything else that might help... or make me feel better.

Thanks soo much. =]

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helpp


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 3:26 pm

okay so i have this guy friend...
who ive known for 5 years. he's always liked me but has not admitted it.
so we met back in 7th grade. and we were reallyy good friends
i transferred schools for 8th grade from public to private.
we still kept in touch by email and such.
last summer(of '07), he came through my line at work and i hadnt seen him in years. he soon started working there too.
so supposidly he's good friends with my ex, who i dated last summer up until late october when we broke up for various reasons. but he says he doesnt like my ex cz hes just an as$hole.
so ever since that breakup, we've been tlaking alot. he has a girlfriend who hes been with since april or may of last year(...

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hes different now


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 3:20 pm

ok ive been going out off and on with this guy for 2 years, at the beginning he was the best boyfriend he was like whipped i guess well not completely but i knew he cared, and since august hes been COMPLETELY different he never calls me texts me or anything im in highschool and i see him everyday and sometimes he acts like im not even his girlfriend.. ik ur going to say breakup with him but honestly i think that will make matters worse bc this new girl came to our school shes latina and shes georgous and to make it worse, hes the captain of the football team.. and he has all of the guys wrapped around his finger in our grade and SHE LIKES HIM. they stare at eachother all the time. whenever i ask him about her hes always like no i dont like ...

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taking advantage of me


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 2:28 pm

My boyfriend is taking advantage of me and threatens to hurt me if i don't make-out with him or have sex with him and i'm still a virgin but i don't know how long i can hold out for!

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what to do with a broken heart </3 <3


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 1:42 pm

ok so im having this problem where my ex boyfriend who i went out with i dont know 8...9 moths idont know one or the other still that a longg time rite and well its been like a couple months when we broke up b.c we had weird feelings for eachother when we started 9th grade it just was no chemistry at all. it was awkward we had excuses to not hang out ne more but any way i was so heart broken then i thought hanging with other guys with out a realation ship would help but it didnt i ended up messed up you know so i stoped that. well now we are friends again we have been for like 3 years now. and he calls me i call him and we talk for an hour a couple hours i told him i still really liked him he says he doesnt but ik that i could never go out ...

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teenage guys read!


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 10:07 am

what do guys like in a girl and what do you think is hot in a girl?

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guys please read!!! (sepsifically teenage guys)


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 10:03 am

i have them and i want to know:do guys really like back dimples/ dimples of venus on girls?

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I freeze


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 1:35 am

i have been going out with this guy for like 3 weeks now. and everytime he trys to french kiss me i freeze up. and go mmm noo. nott now. or something stupid like that. and i want to kiss him i really do. but i dont know why i freeze up like that. its like a reflex or something.
any idea whyy?
thankss in advance

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its long.. but i need the help, so please


Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 12:55 am

So, say if you were going out with someone for 10 months. Then they started talking to this person, and looking at porn online together and they talked about her masturbation, and she asked how big he was and they'd constantly make sexual jokes to each other.. would you get jealous? Would you be extremely mad? Well that's what happened to me and my boyfriend. I had trust issues for a while and then they stopped talking for about a month and so i thought it would get better. Then, after a month, he and she started talking again. I got jealous, again, obv.. and i broke up with him. He said he was still in love with me (he's had really strong feelings for me for a few years now) and so when i was contemplating on going back out with him he tol...

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Does he still like me?


Posted Monday December 31 2007, 11:21 pm

My best friend is my ex boyfriend and vica versa. we werent too close when we first started dating so our friendship has defanately sprung from our relationship. We had lasted for 8 months almost exactly. We broke up about 7 months ago and we're closer than ever. He dumped me because he couldn't handle a girlfriend because he's having wicked badfamily problems (his dad has drug issues) and apparently he claimed that he liked me as a really really godo friend. anyways, I had asked him if he wanted to get back together twice since breaking up (4 mths ago or so) he said no, and that it's just a dumb LABLE. I asked him if we'd ever get back together, he said "probably not" That crushed me.
Anyways, so we're super close, everyo...

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drugs.exbf/bff


Posted Monday December 31 2007, 11:12 pm

My ex boyfriend and my best friend , lets name him Tim so i don't somehow get him in trouble. Tim and I are best friends and he dumped me because there was all this ____ going on with his dad and there still is. His life is so screwed up and i feel like venting about it.

Alright. Tim's mom left when he was four. Timwon't tell me what happened other than "it was complicated" and that she lives in california. He lives in a two family home across town. His (single) dad [his name is Paul ] lives in the bottom appartment and his grandparents and aunt and him live in the top appartment. I've been close with Tim and his family for a year and a half or so, we dated for eight months.
Tim 's dad had been in a coma whe...

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