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Problem with guy in college


Question Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 5:07 pm

Alright so I was at a party roughly a week ago and I hooked up (as in made-out) with a college freshman named Brian. Then he went and hooked up with one of my (not super close) friends Jen and I didn't care at all, I don't get attatched to people, especially boys, that quickly. He apologized alot and told me that I was the one he wanted to hook up with, yeah cheesy I know, and even funnier, supposedly he told Jen the same thing. He messaged me on Facebook the next day to say he was sorry again, and I said it was ok. I didn't think he was that into me at the time. SO, yesterday he texted my friend who was having all my friends over and said he wanted to come to see ME. So he came and I was completely DRUNK and I think I kissed him 3 times but I'm not even sure if I really like him! So now he wants me to call him and I'm not sure what to do. He SEEMS sweet and nice but its sooo sketchy how he hooked up with my friend. heeeelp. haha.

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for3v3r_his answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 1:10 am:
Not only did he hook up with you and your friend, he told both of you the same story. You kissed him a few more times while drunk, so i understand the confusion there. You say you don't get attached to guys easily but do you want to wind up getting attached to someone who will play you and lie to you? He has already done both and you guys are not even together. Don't even waste your time. You deserve better.

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orphans answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 6:49 pm:
Obviously you ment to say "Problem with a guy who is in college" instead of "problem with guy in college".

Well, if that is the case (you are younger) and he probably sounds like a player to me.

Make the best of it, just dont get hurt.

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DefinedEyes answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 6:47 pm:
I don't think you do. If you only kissed him when you were drunk.. or at a party. I dont know, it DOES sound sketchy, especially if he said the same thing to your friend. You know? I would use your best judgment, you'll find someone better, and you won't have to guess if you have feelings for him. ;)

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