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ok ive been going out off and on with this guy for 2 years, at the beginning he was the best boyfriend he was like whipped i guess well not completely but i knew he cared, and since august hes been COMPLETELY different he never calls me texts me or anything im in highschool and i see him everyday and sometimes he acts like im not even his girlfriend.. ik ur going to say breakup with him but honestly i think that will make matters worse bc this new girl came to our school shes latina and shes georgous and to make it worse, hes the captain of the football team.. and he has all of the guys wrapped around his finger in our grade and SHE LIKES HIM. they stare at eachother all the time. whenever i ask him about her hes always like no i dont like her kelly stop asking me. I believe him bc he never lies to me but still it doesnt change the fact that he treats me completely different now. In the summer i brokeup with him and liked 3 different guys but i never hooked up or anything with them. like 3 weeks ago tim told me that he was still upset ad he wanted a break and then we got back together like 2 days later. idk whats going on but i need advice how to not focus or like play hard to get with him more bc i think he knows now that he can get me whenever he wants please help me im open to any advice. and ive already tried talking to him about it a million times and hes just like, ill change babe ughh
THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE this has been going on for to long.
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flirt a little bit with other guys in front of him. not like obviously flirt but just enough to scare him a little and show him that theres a possibility that next time he does something you dont like you wont go crawling back to him. you should also talk to him and tell him that he needs to start acting more like a boyfriend. if he doesnt do that then yes i would break up with him. i know you probably dont want to do that because you think he will go out with the new girl. but honestly you shouldnt waste your time on this guy.
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you shouldnt have to do anything for your bf to like you better if the love is there then thats all you need to do but seriously you need a real talk with him like this is what you have to say "i think you have changed and its breaking my heart i have no idea what i have to do for you to just have you the same again if this doesnt stop soon i dont think we can be together anymore so if there is anything thats bothering you plz tell me and we can figure this out together!" thats all you really can do im telling you dont do anything differnt for him to notice you more or w.e!
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Okay, well he needs to get his priorities straight, you say you've tried talking to him and he's says he'll change, but does he actually ever make an effort to change? You say you two have been going out for two years, it's possible he's just going through a phase in which he doesn't know what to do anymore, guys get that way after a long period of time. I say that if he hasn't actually made an effort to change his bad habits of ignoring you and not treating you like his girlfriend, than maybe it's time you just lay it flat on him, don't ask him to change, tell him that if he doesn't start to improve and make you feel more like you exist you're no longer going to stick around. You can't take any of his "I'll change for you" crap, cause if he's not actually gonna change, there's no reason for you to stick around. You don't deserve that.
I really hope everything works out for you, if you need anymore help all you have to do is message me:)
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