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what to do with a broken heart </3 <3
ok so im having this problem where my ex boyfriend who i went out with i dont know 8...9 moths idont know one or the other still that a longg time rite and well its been like a couple months when we broke up b.c we had weird feelings for eachother when we started 9th grade it just was no chemistry at all. it was awkward we had excuses to not hang out ne more but any way i was so heart broken then i thought hanging with other guys with out a realation ship would help but it didnt i ended up messed up you know so i stoped that. well now we are friends again we have been for like 3 years now. and he calls me i call him and we talk for an hour a couple hours i told him i still really liked him he says he doesnt but ik that i could never go out with him again idk why i just cant. but he says he doesnt like me and we are supposed to go to the movies this weekend and uk what on saturda or firday this week is supposed to be the one year annaversery that we started dating its like breaking my heart i didnt realize it after we said we would go now idk for sure ne more rite! i need serious help here does he like me? is he just a friend? should i say that no i cant go to the movies with you ? stop calling him? i mean i dont have really strong feelings ne more but there is a feeling there uk what i mean and im sure if i go to the movies with him this weekend ill just break down in tears its a sad story but i so need help here like rite away!!!!
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Just don't put yourself in this situation. I was in this situation with one of my exes and I decided to go out with my girlfriend. Just tell him you don't want to go. He'll get the hint. Don't set yourself up for failure. Hope I helped!
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I think it would be best if you didn't go to the movies with him. I was in a similar situation and I ended up hanging out with him and thinkng "Ohhh, maybe he wants to go out with me again" and it got my hopes up. We never dated again and I was crushed. You should just try and forget about him and move on to someone else, get out there and meet new people.
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WELL this is typical ex-boyfriend behaviour. Obviously you guys are good friends, but he doesn't realize that it's painful for you to just hang out with him after the break up, especially since you like him and he doesn't like you. It could plainly be physical, he could want to be friends with benefits, but I just think that he's completely unaware of the fact that you need space. I suggest you take a break, maybe you don't have to completely cut him out of your life, but definetly lay off the hour long phone calls and movie dates.
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