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proving myself.
okay so in elementary school. everyone was like a teachers pet, but no one cared. includig me, i have anxiety and at the time, since i couldnt be with my mom in school they were the next best thing. my friend and i enjoyed helping our teacher in the class, and during recess. so i kinda got the teachers pet rep. 6th grade came nd i was totally weird. but i still sort of kept up my habits, except my teachers didnt like me like my old ones did. mostof the teachers liked my best friend who was like a perfect kid her parents were really strict and she had people over like every weekend. 7th grade i got better, not so weird and by 8th grade i was normal (normal isnt the right word but i cant think of anything elses.) i hadnt had a boyfriend either at all. so now im a freshman, and my friends and i are slways hearing about people having sex, getting drunk blah blah highschool stuff. one day in lunch somehow we were talking about whos gonna have sex 1st and everything and i ended up at the very end, im sure my friends didnt know but i was kinda hurt by it. i mean i dont wanna have sex now but im not gonna be the 40 year old virgin either. then at a small aprty for new years last night a girl brought a water bottle of alcohol and we all had some. not enough to be smashed but just a little bit. so i have a boyfriend now and also with my rep is that im really tight and i dont talk to guys and stuff
i just wanna know what i can do to turn my rep around. i dont wanna be known as a slut, but i dont wanna be known as a boring girl.
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You know what's the number one thing (usually) a guy really is attracted to? Confidence. I can tell by your tone that you don't have an abundance of it because you've portrayed this type of image to people that you aren't the most fun girl. And honestly, I would be a little bit mad too about the whole sex conversation with your friends, but really one comment doesn't mean the truth! I guess it really depends on your morals as preachy as that sounds. I personally know having sex early in high school leads to tons of hurt feelings and complicated issues, so I would lay off of it until you really think you and your boyfriend are ready, which you might never be, and that's perfectly fine. And about the alcohol, if your comfortable with drinking it, I wouldn't go crazy at the next party just to prove yourself because it's too obvious. Just be chill with it, and pace yourself. Good luck!
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you need to tell them straight up, "im not a slut + never will be, + im not a boring girl, + never will be." prove to them that you are tight + that you do talk to guys because if you didnt, you wouldnt have a boyfriend, right? so just show them girl[: i hope this is what you were looking for, i know you'll change your rep. around[:
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