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what do i do? maybe a guys point of view.
so theres this guy and his name is jesse. he works for my parents at the business they own. i hung out with him the other day while he was working and he was flirting with me ALOT. he thinks im older than i really am because i told him i was 3 years older than i really am just so i would be around his age. there is a 3 or 4 year differencce between us. i like him more than i have liked anybody in the world. i can be myself around him and im afraid that if i tell him my real age ..he will get weird with me. which doesnt seem like a thing jesse would do but i dont know im not so sure. he flirted with me a bit before he knew my real age and things but not alot only because i really got to know him last night. i know this kinda sounds slutty of me and seriously i am NOT a slutty person im really not i just didnt know what to do because i like him so much. but then the thing is i dont know if i like him more than a friend or just as a friend. im so confused. what do i do?
if ur a guy what would you do if you were jesse and you found out?
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I'm pretty sure guy or girl, wouldn't like being lied too. I know I wouldn't like being lied too. And basically, being lead on. I'm a little confused though. how old are you? I mean are you like 14 or something, and hes 18? or are you like 18 and hes 22? if your like 14 or something and hes 18, then I don't think you should continue to like him. Hes much more experienced then you, and knows alot more thne you do. Even though you insist he doesn't. He does, thats a big age difference. And i'd just stop liking him.
However, if your like 18 or 17 or something, then i'd continue to like him, because obviously as you get older, age difference isn't really that big of a deal.
either way, however old you are, you need to tell him you're real age. thats not fair to him, or you. if he doesn't end up liking you for your age, then oh well, maybe you guys can still be friends?
And think about it also if he doesn't end up liking you, would you like someone 3 or 4 years younger then you, honeslty?
this was hard to respond too, since you didn't give your age.
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I don't quite understand why you think you can be yourself around him, seeing as you can't trust yourself or him to tell him your real age. I'm not a guy, but if I was, I'd totally want to know ASAP before I got introuble with your parents. (AKA, my bosses).
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I'm not a guy, but if I were in your position right now, I'd definitely find a way to tell him the truth about your real age. Why? Because it takes alot of courage to admit to something and apologize and it'll lessen the blow if you told him yourself.. because he will most probably find out if you don't tell him anyway. That'd surely make him lose alot of respect for you.
So no matter what way you look at this, coming clean is the right, mature thing to do.
You don't have to tell him the real reason why you lied. Make it sound like it didn't seem much of a deal to you but now you realize how stupid lying about your age is. Or pretend you wanted to know if he would fall for it - which he clearly did!
As for the part about you being confused whether you like him as a friend or more, keep it to a friendly level for now. Who knows.. maybe when you come clean and get to know each other better, things may blossom from there - assuming he's okay with your age etc.
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