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brake up confussion
so my boyfriend and i broke up (the reason why is WAY to long to explain) and i broke up with him, then we got back together, and the next day he broke up with me. anyway i was so mad at him for so many reasons, and i still get mad when i think about it, but at the same time i want him back. he broke my heart and i still want him back. whats wrong with me? how do i get over him?
thanks SO much for ur help
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he either broke up with you again as revenge or because he just knew it wouldn't work. Thebes nothing wrong with you because you want him back. it might take time to get over him but it will happen . Good luckk !
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to start this there is nothing wrong with you
he just dont know what he is losing
secondly that means you love him
thirdly this happened to me
but the advice form me to you is move on and and be who you are
you will find someone better
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oh i have/had the same problem. Your heart is different then mine so its gonna take time to heal. of course you cared so you want to be with him because you have feelings. The only thing you can do is take one day at a time, hang out with your friends, take your mind off him. Its okay if you think about him and its okay if you cry over him but its just going to take time. there is no brilliant advice to do it, it just takes a while but you will get there.
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Well, "how do I get over him" is way way WAY WAY better for you instead of asking "how do I earn him back".
I believe you got it right.You are in a good road.
(Reminder, just cause some random person from the web sais so, it does not necessarily mean it is so, just my opinion).
Now, what helps.
Keep yourself occupied.Discipline yourself and learn to do stuff you dont wanna do.For instance, go out even if you dont feel like going out.
Be around many people all the time.
They might seem like nobodys, you wont care about them but by time they ll turn to somebodys you actually care for.Even knew people.Dont think you are replacing anybody.Just meet knew people.
Make sure to close your cell phone.The worst thing that can happen to you, is be sitting right next to your cell waiting for it to ring or some SMS.
Dont get high hopes. Just cause he called crying late night does not mean he will love you truly, deeply, madly, bath with you in a fountain at all (I bet he will).
Dont be thinking what you lost. Be thinking what he lost.When and in case people ask
"why?"
reply
"well, he should be more carefull, his bad."
Especially if he is the evil part of the relatioship.He ll have to think that he left a wonderfull woman behind and will always think of her as something good while...
...you ll have to think of someone who did you wrong.
In case you did him wrong...fuck it, dont think about it.
Its really late now, so take care, buckle up, and drive safe.
Oh, yeah...and...
You go girl!!!You go!!!
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People have problems letting things go. We don't like change, even if things suck now, sometimes its even scarier to change it to try and make it better. I'm sorry your relationship ended on a sour note between you two. As you said you were angry at him, I suggest writing down the reasons why, and then look at them, and see if they are all justified. A relationship takes two people in order for it to work, and if you can see what you both were or were not doing in each problem.. maybe it will show you why things didn't work out. Relationships take A LOT of work, but its something you want to do. Anyways... take time hanging out with your friends, read a good book (or more), get him off your mind, and focus on family, and other things before you had him. There is more to life than that, and sooner than you know you'll find another boyfriend, who will treat you like you should be treated. :)
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