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what do i doo...
Ok guys i need help ! im really confused. First ill just let you know that i have a problem with staying in a relationship...i always get bored! I always end up finishing with the boy because im just bored :\ My longest relationship has been around 7 week! Then i just move on..
Rite well i have this bf, i'll call him tyler. He is really sweet and great and evrything but i really dont know wether i want to be with him. sometimes i feel as though i am bored with him .. and other times i will want to stay with him :S we argue a few times but apart from that he's great.
Also.. i met this lad one night whilst i was out called jamie. He is hot ! and i would really like to get to know him better ;) but i cant because of my bf :S We always text each other and he's really sweet. soo again i cannot choose!
and finally.. the other dat my ex bf asked me to get back with him ! that was all i needed! i enjoy going out with him and everything but i really dont know what i want anymore!
I just need some tips on what to doo :\ Thank Yuu <3 x
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Sounds to me like You don't want to be in a relationship right now. Don't force yourself to be with someone.
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ok..so if you got bored with your last boyfriend then you don't want to go back out with him..or else you are going to feel the same and create the same problem...so that cancels that one out. Now this jamie kid, i say that you should get to knwo him better but just as friends. You shouldn't rush into things. Just tell jamie that you have a boyfriend and you just wnat to be friends with him. And as for your boyfriend, even though sometimes you get bored, i say, stay together. You never knwo what is going ot happen. If sometimes you still have fun and aren't bored then keep it going. Don't ruin somthing like that over stupid things. Your boyfriend, if you get bored, try and do somthing different that you usually don't do. Just try new hings with him and try to keep your mind off of boredom and just pay attension to him. Hopefully this helps, Good Luck
~Sealgirl~
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ok i know exactly what your going through !
i use to get tired of boys with in like a damn week or month . my longest relationship was a month . you just have to find the right one . Now me and my boyfriend have been going out almost a year & im still not bored (: But you just gotta go with what your heart desires
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woah this must be pretty tough for you. i also had a similar problem like this but i started to talk and hang out and even kiss my bf more and more and i think my "connection" with him grew more and more. if you seem to get bored with him but still feel something just give it sometime. if you know for a fact you wont ever start liking him moree then break if off and go for the other guy. to get to no someone you cann always just talk and see wehere it goes from there.
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