i have been going out with this guy for like 3 weeks now. and everytime he trys to french kiss me i freeze up. and go mmm noo. nott now. or something stupid like that. and i want to kiss him i really do. but i dont know why i freeze up like that. its like a reflex or something.
any idea whyy?
thankss in advance
avalonavalon answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 1:56 pm: I think the feeling of french kissing is new to you, and it probably feels weird and maybe even wrong? But really there isn't anything wrong and I don't agree with the people who said it's because you're not ready. There's no age for this- it's just what you personally prefer. I promise that if you go for it one day, when you personally choose to, and french kiss him, it'll feel way more natural from then on and you won't ever freeze up again. (: hope I helped
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orphans answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 11:53 am: it means your probably not ready. just stick with pecking, and when your ready youll know it.
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orphans answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 11:47 am: i think its great that you say no because it could lead to bigger things and you guys have only been going out for 3 weeks once you get more confertable with him you guys can start kissing and stuff but i hope you dont turn to sex please good luck [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
LOL_x0x answered Tuesday January 1 2008, 11:21 am: Maybe you really aren't ready. It's totally ok. I mean, 3 weeks really isn't that long. You might not be completely comfortable with your boyfriend yet. It's alright though.
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