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Does he still like me?
My best friend is my ex boyfriend and vica versa. we werent too close when we first started dating so our friendship has defanately sprung from our relationship. We had lasted for 8 months almost exactly. We broke up about 7 months ago and we're closer than ever. He dumped me because he couldn't handle a girlfriend because he's having wicked badfamily problems (his dad has drug issues) and apparently he claimed that he liked me as a really really godo friend. anyways, I had asked him if he wanted to get back together twice since breaking up (4 mths ago or so) he said no, and that it's just a dumb LABLE. I asked him if we'd ever get back together, he said "probably not" That crushed me.
Anyways, so we're super close, everyone srsly thinks we're dating. He's always there for me, like when i left my headlights on, he came and rescued me with a jump cable. He is THE BEST. Today, i forced him into watchinga romantic film (Casablanca) and i was kiddingly playing with his hair and he got Fake mad. Then he grabbed my hand and wouldn't let go, even in front of his grandma. He has cute nicnames for me too... and like- idk all fingers point towards "He still loves me" but idk.. .what do you think?
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I agree, he definitely still likes you. This is his way of having a relationship with you, without calling you his GF. If you two still have a "relationship" going on, don't worry. At least, he's not going around with other girls and leaving you alone completely. Of course, that could be the other problem, he may want to keep you but have his fun too, and by not being BF and GF, he isn't technically cheating. I would look for signs of this possibility. If this is the case, honey, I'm sorry, but you need to cut him loose. If not, then just go with it. You are with him and that's all that matters. Right?
Good Luck!!
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I personally think that he does like you, but he doesn't feel that he's ready for a relationship. Unless you're really desperate for him to be your boyfriend again you seem to be in a pretty comfortable place where you can just wait until he feels ready to ask you out again. If you really want a relationship with him, you can try to move things faster, but that could backfire and put unwanted distance between you. Good luck!
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