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I think I love my best friend
I'm bisexual and I think I might have feelings for my best friend. I don't want to destroy our friendship by telling her how I feel and then having her reject me, but I don't know how much longer I can take her not knowing how I feel since I'm really terrible at lying to her. Please advise me!
P.S. - I just read the note that said to include my age and gender. 15, female, respectively.
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If you are best friends with this girl then you should just let her know how you feel. And just say how you feel and if she says no then say that you would still want to be friends, just don't make it seem awkward for her and don't make it seem like you're forcing her to do anything. Try to choose a happy time where both of you guys are alone, and compliment her and tell her, but if she says no, say something like, "Ok, but I just wanted you to know since we're best friends and I didn't want to keep anything from you."
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I know rejection is very hard, trust me, I have gone through a lot of it. But, that doesn't mean that your friend wouldn't say no. I have gone out with my best friends, does the friend relationship get weird at some points, hell yeah, but the fact that you two would still be friends if she did say no would be great. But sometimes it doesn't go so great and you two would might have to go your separate ways. Life just sucks that way and trust me, it would not be very fun. It's just a large roller-coaster that goes up and down and up and down. A ride you can never get off of. Love sucks, might as well get that fact down early.
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