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I'm bisexual and I think I might have feelings for my best friend. I don't want to destroy our friendship by telling her how I feel and then having her reject me, but I don't know how much longer I can take her not knowing how I feel since I'm really terrible at lying to her. Please advise me!
P.S. - I just read the note that said to include my age and gender. 15, female, respectively.
If you are best friends with this girl then you should just let her know how you feel. And just say how you feel and if she says no then say that you would still want to be friends, just don't make it seem awkward for her and don't make it seem like you're forcing her to do anything. Try to choose a happy time where both of you guys are alone, and compliment her and tell her, but if she says no, say something like, "Ok, but I just wanted you to know since we're best friends and I didn't want to keep anything from you."
ok so a friend of my sister and i came over for the holidays from college. and at the beginning she use to ask if she could enter or use the phone and stuff like that. my sis and i were raised to always be nice to guests and be very hospitable. and we have... thing is she stopped asking for stuff and she knows perfectly well that we won't say no. for example she calls about 7 times a day (i am not exaggerating) to her family internationally and long distance just to "chat"... i mean fine it was the holidays and she called her parents and sibs but HELLO just because my parents look like they pick money from a tree that they should pay this high expensive bills...
so.... what should i do? mt mom will kill me if i say something outright (it's not "hospitable") i need a way to hint to her that she is taking advantage and that it's not "yeah sure go on a head!" anymore....... what do i do the next time she pics the phone and calls people overseas?
You could point out the phone calls in the bill and show your mom how expensive AND excessive they are. You could also talk with the person, tell them that if she doesn't mind to limit the phone calls to 2 or 3 times a day? Make a compromise, something that both sides can benefit from.
what do guys like in a girl and what do you think is hot in a girl?
I think what's hot in a girl is their body but it's not a HUGE factor. I like a small cute girl that's outgoing and loves to laugh! And if you have a cute laugh, I will melt in your arms. But if you want to impress a guy with a laugh you should not go over board with it, make it as natural as possible. Also, I like a girl that has a good sense of humor and that smells and looks pretty even on a bad hair day.
[im 13/f if this helps?]
Alright so i have this best freind and lately like mabey even this whole school year she has been a brat to me and many other friends of hers She will insult anyone to make herself look better. I really dont want to be her friend anymore. So how do I give her that hint and tell her?
Please give me adive you would do.
Thanks in advance
If you say that you honestly don't want to be her friend anymore, then you should just stop talking to her. It will give her the clue, just ignore her completely. But if you want to make it work, you should tell her what's bothering you and you guys could work on that. But if not, then just act as if you guys had never met. Maybe she'll come to her senses and apologize and you guys could be friends again!