i am 13 and a female andi am very talll and i am a cheerleader and i love to play softball and i love to hang/chill with my friends and hang with my boo Danny
Gender: Female Location: da lou(stl) Occupation: school Age: 13 Yahoo: ageorger01@yahoo.com Member Since: December 9, 2007 Answers: 28 Last Update: January 24, 2010 Visitors: 3790
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16/f
So, just recently I found out that my boyfriend of a month is a compulsively lying player, horrible, I know. One of my best guy friends, "David" gave me insight. I know you're not supposed to listen to he say she say but, I always suspected that something was off about him. Everything that David told me seemed to add up about him. Apparently before we became an item, he was messing around with a lot of girls at one time (including me). And David told me that it was all because of our physical attributes. When I asked my boyfriend about it, it seemed like he was leaving stuff out. So, I decided that I want to leave him. Do you think it's wrong for me to want to dump him? Also,I wouldn't know how to go about "dumping" someone...I could use some advice on that please and thank you. (link)
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if you have any doubt of him cheating then loose the bastard. he aint worth it. your probally really pretty and could prolle get any guy you want. jus settle down a bit, dump him, & then move on. that simple. && i mean any doubt then you get outta there quick before you get even more hurt. once a cheater always a cheater. & once a liar deffinetly always a liar.
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you know when you really like someone ?
but they dont feel the same way;
but then again you dont really know;
how do you find out.
i know it isnt love;
so dont think i am naive
but i want to grab this feeling and take the chances it is giving.
So to be honest; i could do with some advice to find out how he feels about me...
he is flirtatious with me and he doesnt know i like him so that may help drive your answer ?
Thankyouu. :)
xx (link)
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juss flirt bacc with him alot.
then maybe sumthin may happen.
have one of your mutual friends ask him
if he likes you. thats how i usually gotten
all of my boyfriends.
i have felt this way like a million times in the past year. juss trust me on this. ask someone to ask himm. it really workss.
hope i helpedd
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how common is it for guys to shave "down there" ? (link)
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almost every guy does it!?!?
its very common.
my boyfriend shaves all the time.
i told him he has ta be freshh.
hope i helpedd.
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13/f
im going to a boy/girl birthday party where we're playing this game where someone picks two people to kiss, like spin the bottle but without the bottle i guess. i kind of want to play, but i dont want to be humiliated like two girls were last time. nobody let them play cuz they are kind of unatractive. i am not pretty at all and guys dont like me, just like them. i didnt play that time because i left before the game started. i dont want to go to the party and be humiliated, but i dont want to skip the party either. what should i do? (link)
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you should go. whatever happens happens. i used to feel the same way. but then one day i actually looked at myself and i told myself that i was beautiful in my own way. you should never down on yourself like taht. i bet you are a very pretty girl.
so if i were you id go and have funn.
and id play the gamee. it sounds like alot of funn.
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okay so theres this reallyyyyy hot kid whos ive been obsessed about for like ever and now im finally friends with him. one problem, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. btw im in 10th and theyre in 11th. umm and i really llike my bf but idk now im kinda feeling like restrained and i cant do anything if you know what i mean, cause this really hot kid thats im now friends with i think likes me. would you rather be with the one you love or the one who loves you? so idk what to dooooo! someone please help me (link)
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WHAT YOU SHOULD DO iiS ASK THE HOTT UY FiiRST iiF HE LiiKES YOU BECAUSE YOU THiiNK YOU ARE HAViiNG MiiXED SiiGNALS .... BUTT iiF HE SAYS YES THEN YOU SHOULD GO WiiTH HiiM BECAUSE HE LiiKES YOU BACK THEN THATS LiiKE REALLY HARD TO FiiND iiN A GUY USUALLY GUYS JUST WANT TO GET iiN YOUR PANTS...SOO iiDK...BUT iiF YOU REALLLY SERiiOUSLY WANT TO BE WiiTH YOUR BF THEN STAY WiiTH HiiM
AND iiF THAT GUY REALLY DOES LiiKE YOU THEN HE WOULD WAiiT FOR YOU...! HOPE ii HELPED
*~*♥ ASHLEY ♥*~*
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does anyone know where i can get a neon volleyball (colored neon)like not blow up material ones or anything, like the real gym volleyball. thanks!!!! (link)
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you can go to all volleyball out there by the scm
(south count mall)
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okay so i am gay but my mum and no-one else knows how should i come out to my mum as i am worried if i tell her she may hate me (link)
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heres my brilliant answer umm be like ummmmmj..... i truly dont know but just tell her because shes going to figure it out eventually
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basically, theres a guy at my school that i kind of use to like, and i dont know if i still might.
well yesterday in class, one of my guy friends told me "hey you should go out with K.L."
i was kind of shocked because i use to like K.L., and i only told my best friend that. and the weird thing is, ive been told that 2 or 3 times by different people.
the thing is, we dont have any classes together so the only times that i get to see him are at lunch(only sometimes) and if we are at the same party(which i do talk to him). and at a recent party, he tried to hug me like 2 times by saying something kinda stupid, and then he kind of backed away, and i didnt really hug him back cause i was kinda confused why he was doing that. and now i think that he doesnt think i like him(im not sure if he ever did)
so to wrap this whole thing up, how do i find out if he likes me??(because i will feel stupid if he doesnt), how do i make it so i see him more often?, and why do people keep telling me that i should go out with him?
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you know what you nver know he might actually like you..so yea wat you can do if you have any of the same teachers as he has so then when he goes in that class go ask your teacher if you can go talk to his teacher. and then you can c him... or skipp your class and ask to go in that class he is in...so yea if you have any questions you can write me at ageorger01@yahoo.com ...so yea i hope every thing workss out 4 you...write me back soon and tell me what happens..k thnx and you are welcome
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like really heavy that i had to miss school, what can i do to make it stop flowing out so much.. (link)
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did u try taking alotof showers and just keep on whipping and cleaning yourself......
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my boyfriend goes away to college but he comes home every weekend to see me, his family and his friends.
but lately things just seem so different.
we rarely talk because he says he's really busy with work..all of a sudden.
and we fight a lot.
i trust him completely, but there's still that
little thought that he could be or might cheat.
or that he's using me for sex every weekend.
but i don't understand why i would think that because there are plenty of girls at his college that would happily have sex with him.
he tells me that none of them are better than me though (looks&personality).
i feel SO horrible for thinking those things.
and i've just been so depressed about it.
how can i tell if i'm wrong?
what can i do?
we used to be like the perfect couple. seriously.
i love him so much and it would kill me if i lost him.
please, please help. :[ (link)
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wat you should do is ask him and ask some of hiz girly friends at college or go 2 a party there and see wat happens. if it ends up that he's not then you can apologize to him and talk to him or if you dont lik that advice then heres somemore.......try and miss a couple of weekendz wit him or jus stop giving him sexx 4 a while and see how he feels after that.. hop i helped
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i just got my braces off and a lot of people said that i look really pretty without them, and i get a lot of compliments now. does getting your bracees off really change that much about you or how you look? guys have started to notice me a lot more too. i even have a boyfriend now (link)
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i think thats good youre getting compliments now but when you have braces or sumthing new added to you sometimes it chages you...sometimes you proly look even better...but you cant get worried about those things....see i just got glasses and some people think i look different....others think i look better and i like it
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Ok..soo im 17/F and all my friends have had sex or have done sexual things. And of course im the one that hasnt at all. I just dont want to do that right now..im not focused on that. Im focused on other things and i dotn even think about it. But my friends are making me feel like that i should be doing that stuff..that like im a freak if i dont. And now i think..am i really a freak? What do you think about this and what should i do? (link)
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seriously you shouldn't do it until you r ready because if you rush into it with the wrong person because of peer pressure then you have a risk of getting a std or worse so just calm down and be your self and not being like everybody else okay.
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I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I care about him alot. With the Christmas season here he has been having to work about 60 hours a week with no days off(since about the begining of November). Now all we do is fight. I know it is because he is stressed and exhausted and I never feel like I get to see him; I also know that it will get back to normal after holiday season calms down in about a month. I just don't know what to do to make him not hate me for fighting with him all of the time. I don't want us to break up but I don't know how to calm my mood swings and fighting so he won't get tired of me. Please help... I have been so depressed because of this. (link)
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wat you could do is try to help him or sumthing when he gets home or maybe just dont say nothing....but i would be mad if my boyfriend had to work all the time and never had tyme for me or anything......how old are u.....i thihk yall should chill out for a while and maybe see other people.....and then just talk cause maybeits not meant to be for you guys right now.....you can come back later and start all over again and hopefully he has time for you
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hey,
how long does it take to reach an orgasm by stimulating your clit with the massage setting on the showerhead ?
also, how do i know when im about to orgasm ? (link)
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look you should kno when you get one because you'd feel like your heart is beating in your clitoris and it takes about 25minutes average
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Sometimes I just really feel like having sex...15f, what do i do to satisfy my cravings?!!! Help please! (link)
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well i dont kno wat to tell u but find someone else that likes to have sex alot and become sex partners or something since you mad it sound lyke that....sometimes think about other things
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I don't think I'm good at basketball. When I get the ball I just freeze and never pass it. When I do dribble it gets stolen again. I'm never aggresive too. What should I do? (link)
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Well maybe basketball isn't your hobby. Figure out what else you like doing and make that what you do instead of basketball.
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My guy friend kept joking around with me, saying "So when are we gonna make out?" Then actually lip-kissed me!
I always thought he was only joking. That guy has a gf he's not serious about. They've only kissed a bit so far and danced, and have been together for like 2 months. He was completely honest with me when he said things like "Dance with me then" and "I love you cuz you're crazy awesome" and "i like your smile too, when you actually do smile". he always smiled at me alot, stared whenever i talked and never looked away, he hugged me every time we parted for class at school, put his head on my head when i put it on his shoulder, complimented sometimes, etc. I want to go out with him for a while, and i wanted to call him to explain things about this one event that caused me breaking up with my bf (but im giving him time to cool off, i don't really regret it, he was too into me), but im scared, so im giving him a note just before winter break. he's a senior, 17, and im a sophomore, 15. my ex bf is 18, but held back as a senior. What should i do? Im not going to let go of both of them. (link)
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wat you should do is set your friend st8 and let your ex know what happened and apologize
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Sophmore/f
I know this sounds really dumb, but when you guys ask people to hang out for the first time, what do you say? How friendly do you prefer to be with someone before you ask them, please give examples (e.g. friendly enough to talk about personal stuff, friendly enough to have inside jokes, only talk in class sometimes, etc.) What kinds of things would you ask them to do? Would you want to go in a group or just you and that person?
Thanx (link)
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this is a good question because this is happening to me now..i like a boi named danny and i liked him 4 about 3 months and i finally asked him one day if he wanted to go to the moviez with me and my homegurlz and he saiid yea so he gave me his number and then he said i cant go to the moviez i have to go cosmic bowling with my friends and i said oh and he saiid do you and your homie want to go with us and i said sure and now we are talkin bout DOIN IT. l0l so yea..and its only been about 3 dayz ive talked to him..then after that he asked me to come see him 4 now onn by myself because he feels comftorable around me. So im going to tell you to do kind of the same thing i did. Ok and now we go out after 3 dayz. We are inlove almost.
your welcome
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Hey,
I've been in a girls school all my life and am now in Uni and I find myself very 'left out' even when I'm in a big group of friends (boys and girls) hanging out. I noticed that this happens because I mostly have nothing much to say and that scares the hell out of me. It makes me feel so stupid at times. With girls, especially, those I know and can relate to, I dont have trouble, am usually the clown of the group but I've got nothing to say to guys at all.
And best of all, I've this long crush that has become more than a crush now and when he comes around I go completely speechless. And he's a quirt type too, so that doesn't help at all, as I've to be the one who initiates the conversation. So, basically when we meet by chance, we say hi...say a few sentences and then it's a 'who runs off first challenge'. Please help.
What can I talk about? I know I'm already in Uni and this sounds very childish but that's the sad truth. =) HELP! (link)
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what you should do is like ask a friend by being serious or just let him know the truth..if you tell the truth it will take alot of stress off you so do the right thing and make it better..Good Luck!! :D
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How can you end a [french] kiss?
I've made out many many times before, but either he's always been the one to end the kiss or like we had a reason for it to end (like cell phone rang... etc.) Normally, when I kiss its like for an hour, and so I don't like to pull away, but the guys that I kiss with do...
Also, my friend was saying how it's a bad sign if they pull away :/
Is it? (link)
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maybe wat you should do is try and pull away in like 5 mins if he doesnt pull away first. if you cant do that then set an alarm on your cell to make it seem like your phone is ringing
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