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college boyfriend
my boyfriend goes away to college but he comes home every weekend to see me, his family and his friends.
but lately things just seem so different.
we rarely talk because he says he's really busy with work..all of a sudden.
and we fight a lot.
i trust him completely, but there's still that
little thought that he could be or might cheat.
or that he's using me for sex every weekend.
but i don't understand why i would think that because there are plenty of girls at his college that would happily have sex with him.
he tells me that none of them are better than me though (looks&personality).
i feel SO horrible for thinking those things.
and i've just been so depressed about it.
how can i tell if i'm wrong?
what can i do?
we used to be like the perfect couple. seriously.
i love him so much and it would kill me if i lost him.
please, please help. :[
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It seems that every girl is born with this personality trait that makes then almost clinically insane. It's 100% possible that he's just stressed from work and school, so the carefree high school life you both lived wont apply anymore. Just stick to it, he obviously cares if he comes to see you still.
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wat you should do is ask him and ask some of hiz girly friends at college or go 2 a party there and see wat happens. if it ends up that he's not then you can apologize to him and talk to him or if you dont lik that advice then heres somemore.......try and miss a couple of weekendz wit him or jus stop giving him sexx 4 a while and see how he feels after that.. hop i helped
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I humbly suggest he might be 'all of a sudden' busy because it's the end of term. Most colleges have exams and final projects right now. Does his?
If his does, this is actually a very stresful time for him. He's never been through this before, he might not be handling it well.
It comes down to this: When your partner says everything is fine, you have to trust them. If you can't trust them and think they are lying to you, then you shouldn't be with them.
Ask him if things are okay between you and share your fears. If he says it's nothing, believe him.
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