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AH WHO SHOULD I PICK?
okay so theres this reallyyyyy hot kid whos ive been obsessed about for like ever and now im finally friends with him. one problem, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. btw im in 10th and theyre in 11th. umm and i really llike my bf but idk now im kinda feeling like restrained and i cant do anything if you know what i mean, cause this really hot kid thats im now friends with i think likes me. would you rather be with the one you love or the one who loves you? so idk what to dooooo! someone please help me<333
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You really have to go with your heart. If you aren't happy where you are then get out, it will be better for your boyfriend if you don't really like him to let him go. It will be less painful in the long run for him and probably less of a hassle, but if you think that you may want to keep trying with him then do. It all comes down to what you want to do really, though I think I would rather be with someone that I love, and hopefully they would love me too.
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If you absolutely don't like your boyfriend, then leave him. Even though you'll probably never have another chance with him again. And even though you're not even sure if this other guy likes you. And even though you don't know why he likes you, he probably just wants in your pants.
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something that you should NEVER do is dump your boyfriend for someone who you think is better. i mean, if you and your current boyfriend are having problems and are fighting a lot, theres really not much you can do if you no longer feel the need to solve the problems that you may be having.
im assuming you still have feelings for your boyfriend, right? are those feelings not strong enough to stay with him?
my opinion is if this other guy who you have liked for a long time never gave you the time of day before, is he really worth giving up someone who has been in your life longer just because he just now realized that he likes you?
i know what i say will only go so far when it comes to if you want to listen to it or not, but ill give my input anyway and you can take it how youd like to.
if i were you, i wouldnt give up my guy that i love for anyone. love is such a strong emotion and you need to treat it the right way. i would do what my heart tells me to, and in this case i hope your heart tells you not to leave your boyfriend.
there will always be guys who are tempting and will make you think if they are the better boy for you, but in the long run i think you already have it good.
continue staying friends with that other guy though. because you never know, you could get a very good frendship out of him.
good luck with what you decide to do girl.
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WHAT YOU SHOULD DO iiS ASK THE HOTT UY FiiRST iiF HE LiiKES YOU BECAUSE YOU THiiNK YOU ARE HAViiNG MiiXED SiiGNALS .... BUTT iiF HE SAYS YES THEN YOU SHOULD GO WiiTH HiiM BECAUSE HE LiiKES YOU BACK THEN THATS LiiKE REALLY HARD TO FiiND iiN A GUY USUALLY GUYS JUST WANT TO GET iiN YOUR PANTS...SOO iiDK...BUT iiF YOU REALLLY SERiiOUSLY WANT TO BE WiiTH YOUR BF THEN STAY WiiTH HiiM
AND iiF THAT GUY REALLY DOES LiiKE YOU THEN HE WOULD WAiiT FOR YOU...! HOPE ii HELPED
*~*♥ ASHLEY ♥*~*
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It sounds like instead of picking one of these guys you need to be single for a bit. Give yourself time to figure out what you want. It's unfair to you and your boyfriend that you are staying with him when you have feelings for someone else. However, you don't want to break up with him and then jump right back into another relationship. I think you should take a break from relationships and enjoy the single life. Enjoy that freedom that you seem to long for. Talk to who you want, when you want. This will give you the opportunity to find out who it is you want to be with. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you drop me a line sometime to let me know how it went.
<3 Leslie
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