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ended up with a player
16/f
So, just recently I found out that my boyfriend of a month is a compulsively lying player, horrible, I know. One of my best guy friends, "David" gave me insight. I know you're not supposed to listen to he say she say but, I always suspected that something was off about him. Everything that David told me seemed to add up about him. Apparently before we became an item, he was messing around with a lot of girls at one time (including me). And David told me that it was all because of our physical attributes. When I asked my boyfriend about it, it seemed like he was leaving stuff out. So, I decided that I want to leave him. Do you think it's wrong for me to want to dump him? Also,I wouldn't know how to go about "dumping" someone...I could use some advice on that please and thank you.
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if your friends are telling you that he is a player don't ignore it. in the long run ignoring your friends instincts could hurt you and may end up losing your closest friends. dating a player is not cool because he has feelings for other woman and he isn't going to who you the affection you truly deserve. and if you noticed that what your friend was saying added up to this guy then you know its time for a change. do it before its too late..before he hurts you in some way. guys like that dont stick around long. it's not wrong to want to dump him if you feel that its the right thing to do. when i said that they don't stick around long i mean if he happens to get your pregnant i am not saying that you two are having sex i am just putting in a fact. i am sure you are a beautiful girl and can find a guy that will accept you for you and not fool around. (ya know sometimes its better to listen to the guy friend then the gal friend! they notice the littlest things..after all they are guys right?) good luck i hope i helped..even a little bit
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I was just in a 9 month relationship with this kind of crap, because of what I heard. I could not tell if people were saying it because they didn't like him all along, or if it was really true. I myself tried to confront him and the whole bit, and it always seemed like pieces were missing. In the end I got hurt because I wanted to believe that it wasn't true, and he chose the girl who thinks he going to change. Though he played us both for 9 months... so my advice is.. get out now while you can, because it's going to hurt. I don't want you to regret doing something afterwards. If you need anything I'm here to listen.
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Am I understanding this right? You want to dump him because of something he did BEFORE you started dating?
I hate to tell you this but most guys are attracted to a girls "physical attributes". Unless you are leaving something out, I don't see that as a reason for ending a relationship.
Now, if you just want out because you don't have strong feelings for the guy, break up. You don't need an excuse other than you just don't want to be attached to him anymore.
Does David like you and want to date you? If so, beware of the possibility he is trying to break you and your current boyfriend up.
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I don't think that your'e wrong for wanting to break up with him. I dont think you should settle for any less than your standards and surely a guy you cant trust most likely isn't the one for you. I personally have never had a boyfriend,even though I'm sixteen just like you but I would just be honest with him, when breaking up. I would tell him the truth, that you can't really trust him because you don't feel like he's telling you the whole truth about his past relationships, etc.
Hope I helped!
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if you have any doubt of him cheating then loose the bastard. he aint worth it. your probally really pretty and could prolle get any guy you want. jus settle down a bit, dump him, & then move on. that simple. && i mean any doubt then you get outta there quick before you get even more hurt. once a cheater always a cheater. & once a liar deffinetly always a liar.
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