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friends being different
[im 13/f if this helps?]
Alright so i have this best freind and lately like mabey even this whole school year she has been a brat to me and many other friends of hers She will insult anyone to make herself look better. I really dont want to be her friend anymore. So how do I give her that hint and tell her?
Please give me adive you would do.
Thanks in advance
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You should just stop hanging out with her. I used to have a friend like that and she used to insult her "friends" but deep down I and other friends believed that it was probably low self-esteem problems and by insulting everyone else it made her feel better about herself. It is probably better if you get out of the friendship because I didn't and until later and everything just turned really ugly.
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i would just stop hanging out with her and don't say anything too her.Let her be like that i use to have friends like that so i stopped hanging out with those people and trust me i didn't feel ignored anymore.
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Don't even say anything to her. I think you should give her the cold shoulder- I bet she's just craving attention from everyone so she'll hate being ignored, and maybe that'll teach her something! Hope I helped (:
-avalon
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If you say that you honestly don't want to be her friend anymore, then you should just stop talking to her. It will give her the clue, just ignore her completely. But if you want to make it work, you should tell her what's bothering you and you guys could work on that. But if not, then just act as if you guys had never met. Maybe she'll come to her senses and apologize and you guys could be friends again!
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Well I say just stop hanging out with her its as simple as that if you stop hanging out with her than she will find another friend to critasize it will take a little bit of time but its worth it good luck and i hope i helped a bit
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First, maybe there is something going on in her home life that has her on the defense. She may need someone to talk to but is too embarassed to speak out. What if you took her aside, asked her if everything is okay, tell her you noticed she's not herself lately. Then, if she spills her guts, things could get better. If not, then maybe she just needs time. Let her know that you are there for her if she needs you, but until she either talks to you or loses her attitude, you don't care to hang around her because she is making you uncomfortable. I hope this helps. Good Luck!!
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