Member Since: January 1, 2008
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Last Update: January 1, 2008
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So, say if you were going out with someone for 10 months. Then they started talking to this person, and looking at porn online together and they talked about her masturbation, and she asked how big he was and they'd constantly make sexual jokes to each other.. would you get jealous? Would you be extremely mad? Well that's what happened to me and my boyfriend. I had trust issues for a while and then they stopped talking for about a month and so i thought it would get better. Then, after a month, he and she started talking again. I got jealous, again, obv.. and i broke up with him. He said he was still in love with me (he's had really strong feelings for me for a few years now) and so when i was contemplating on going back out with him he told he didnt want to talk to her anymore because he feared it'd get like before. So, now she's going around and telling people that im too jealous and that im a control freak when i mean, it was well deserved because i cared/ care about him so much. Do you think im in the right, or is she? Do you think i should confront her about this (oh, and by the way, me and the girl had been best friends for a few years before that.) (link)
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Even if their conversations were in jest, the topics were totally over the line and as his girlfriend, you were justified in being jealous. However, if he really wants to be friends with her, and he's stopping himself because of you. You might want to see if just talking to him about the conversation topics would help. But if it doesn't help, then one of the girls in his life is going to have to go because a guy should not be watching porn with a girl who isn't his girlfriend. That's really wierd...
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My best friend is my ex boyfriend and vica versa. we werent too close when we first started dating so our friendship has defanately sprung from our relationship. We had lasted for 8 months almost exactly. We broke up about 7 months ago and we're closer than ever. He dumped me because he couldn't handle a girlfriend because he's having wicked badfamily problems (his dad has drug issues) and apparently he claimed that he liked me as a really really godo friend. anyways, I had asked him if he wanted to get back together twice since breaking up (4 mths ago or so) he said no, and that it's just a dumb LABLE. I asked him if we'd ever get back together, he said "probably not" That crushed me.
Anyways, so we're super close, everyone srsly thinks we're dating. He's always there for me, like when i left my headlights on, he came and rescued me with a jump cable. He is THE BEST. Today, i forced him into watchinga romantic film (Casablanca) and i was kiddingly playing with his hair and he got Fake mad. Then he grabbed my hand and wouldn't let go, even in front of his grandma. He has cute nicnames for me too... and like- idk all fingers point towards "He still loves me" but idk.. .what do you think? (link)
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I personally think that he does like you, but he doesn't feel that he's ready for a relationship. Unless you're really desperate for him to be your boyfriend again you seem to be in a pretty comfortable place where you can just wait until he feels ready to ask you out again. If you really want a relationship with him, you can try to move things faster, but that could backfire and put unwanted distance between you. Good luck!
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