hey lately i've been fooling aroud with my boyfriend sexually and iam only 17 we havn't really been having sex,but we've been toughing each other sexually is there anyway to dothat without my mom and stepdaddy ccatching us?
Sit somewhere in your room and put a blanket over both of you, say you got cold or something if they happen to go in at the time. or sit outside somewhere,[maybe in a car so you can see people coming] or just don't do it while they're at home!
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What is that mushy brown stuff that comes out of you before it's even close to your period. It just feels really weird and it's not even time for your period. Thank you !
That stuff is discharge.. it's normal. It's just your body's way of getting ready for your period. You may have it afterwards too. That's why they made pantyliners!
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i've never had sex... so i don't know why i'm freaking out. but i'm fifteen and terrified that some random sperm may have seeped into me or something, though that's not very likely, i'm just PARANOID. plus, i had a cold, and now my body aches and im freezing, but i think i just have a virus. i'm just scared because i didn't get my period this month. and as nasty as it sounds, i'm sure my brother is having sex with his girlfriend, and i masturbate with my hands, so. terrified. i've been having my period for a little over two years, and it's not really regular. i miss a month sometimes, or for instance it will come on the 22nd of june, skip a month, come on the 5th of july, come the 19th of august. who knows. but i'm totally freaking out. sorry, sorry, sorry for seeming so immature. but mostly i need reassurance that this isn't possible... i haven't been throwing up or anything. just. ugh. help?
If you haven't had sex, you aren't pregnant. There's no possible way.
Stress can make your period irregular too. So if it's already irregular, you're probably adding on to it.
Logically if the penis does nottt enter the vagina you can NOT get pregnant! So stop worrying about it, you're fine!
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i didnt know whether to put this in injuries or sex, but since it has to do with a certain part of my body, i guess sex?
anyway, i have a vaginal tearing.... it's not really my fault, but it's so embaressing, and i cant bare to tell anyone. i feel dirty and gross, and i dont want anyone to be near that part of my body. (and my gf keeps wanting to have sex, and i keep having to make shit up!)
also, it hurts, and everytime i touch my self down there i get little to no pleasure, i pretty much just feel irritated all over down there. please tell me what i can possibly do?? it's obviously not just going to magically go away, and i'm so sick of feeling this way. what in the heck should i do?
Go to a gynocologist. He/she can more than likely help you in some way. Pain is a sign of warning and you don't wanna ignore it.
Not everyone is perfect down there. Whenever it doesn't hurt anymore or your gf wants to have sex, just simply tell her. If she cares about you it won't matter to her at all. And if it does, find someone else!
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I'm almost 19 and about to lose my virginity to my boyfriend. The thing is, I'm someone who always thinks of the worst that can happen in every situation I am. In this case, my hugest fear is getting pregnant. I've been on birth control for a year and plan to use that AND a condom for protection. But for some reason, I'm still worried. It's not that I'm not ready. Unlike most people, I'm educated, cautious, and responsible. But how can I quit worrying about the things that don't need to be? (This goes along with other situations besides this one.) Thank you.
The safest way to stop worrying is to not do it. You seem nervous, and if you're nervous you def aren't ready. If you question it or have any doubts, wait.
There's always a chance you can get pregnant. Even if its 1 out of 493058390458903485, or even 0.1 There's still that chance.
If you use both I doubt you'd rarely have a chance of it happening. I've NEVER heard/seem that happen before, but you never know. However, if you still want to and you're worried, I think if you use both everytime, you should be safe.
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16/f
ok so everytime im with a guy and he fingers me it doesnt feel good at all and sometimes it hurts...that cant be good lol and its not like the first few times i mean ive gotten fingered alot so idk whats going on with that and also when i had sex for the first and only time i was like dying cause it hurt so bad haha im hoping it was just the first time but what if its not...i saw no pleasure in it and im in no hurry to go do it all over again you know? so i need some advice
Are the guys you are with experienced? If not that could be a start. If they don't know what they're doing or do it too rough, it's bound to hurt at least a little. If it hurts you just tell them. Show them how to do it like you like, they can't read minds.
As far as sex, it's normal for the first time to be painful and for some girls it could be the 3rd or 4th time, etc. before they feel pleasure over pain.
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my boyfriend nd I had sex with a condom on june 22nd while I had my period (it was my first time having sex) then I got my period again when I was visiting brazil around july 25. we tried to have sex again last week with a condom but I asked him to stop because it hurt.. last night we had sex again with a condom and we went all the way. this morning I noticed that my period is a few days late. is there any way that I could be pregnant? or what's wrong? oo yea.. nd I am 16 nd imy period has been pretty regular for about 2 years now.
There's always a chance that you could be, but sometimes being sexually active makes it irregular for a while or until your body is used to it. So I'd say most likely you aren't, very little chance if any.
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im taking a medication for my yeast infection, and it seems that i have been urinating a little bit more. is that normal?
It depends what medicine you're taking, but yeah it could be a side effect, or your bodys way of getting rid of the infection. As long as it doesn't burn when you urinate, or you aren't physically able to, you should be fine.
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how do u have sex?
Well it would help alot to know if you're m/f butttt if you don't know, you don't need to do it!
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i have a vaginal yeast infection, and i was just wondering if it was ok that my boyfriend fingered me even though im on a presciption to get rid of it
I looked it up, and it said that you should try avoiding all sexual activites while you have an infection. It's really up to you and your partner, as long as he washes his hands afterwards it should be fine. Although it might be painful for you. And also it's NOT okay to have sex during this time, you could give it to him as well.
"Doctors recommend you to not have sexual encounters during the period of having a yeast infection."
This website is mainly just for sex but it includes a few other things too..
http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/Can_you_have_sex_while_having_a_yeast_infection
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Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help.
I personally think you should wait till you can ATLEAST drive. But it's up to you. different people have different morals and what may be right to one person is wrong to another. If you question whether or not you're ready, you aren't. If you don't think you're ready then wait a while, if your boyfriend doesn't respect that find a new one.
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i herd somewhere that if a guy does you from the back you cant get pregnet.is that true? and if it is does that meen your still a virgin. alot of people on adviceators say having sex is inserting the penis into the vagina so is it not considered sex if he inserts it in the back? thanx to all that answer!
I guess it depends how you look at it, to some people they might consider themselves a virgin and others wouldn't. You can't get pregnant from anal sex.
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everytime i masturbate [which isn't often], I feel so much shame.
I'm 14 and I just feel like masturbation is wrong - yet I can't help it when I have hormones. What should I do? Should I keep masturbating and keep it a secret from my mom, or just stop because I feel ashamed?
Masturbation is normal, don't feel guilty. Alot of people do it and it's healthy, as long as it doesn't interfere with your daily life. Don't worry about it and do it if you want to.
=] Evy
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i am usually depressed & never happy ! im always crying & NEVER in a good mood . i think about suicide WAY to much . sometimes i think its my only option . help me please
It sounds kinda weird to say but I think this is almost pretty normal for everyone at somepoint in their life. Whenever you're down, just think about the good times and think about how what you're going through won't last forever. Keeping your mind off of it might be difficult, but you could try doing more things and stay around people alot. The more you're around people the less you'll probably feel like you should cry. If you can't handle it on your own, then go see a counselor or a therapist. They could help you more than anyone here..
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If a gurl is 17 in her boyfriend is in his 30s is it still rape! Dont answer if you are not sure!!
States vary between ages, some are 17 and some are 18. I know TX is 17, so you should type in where you live and look it up to find out for your state!
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I am very scared about having sex and i feel very scared becasue my boyfriend always wants me to "give him head" all the time. and i always tell him i want to wait but all guys wanna have sex with me because i have HUGE tits.
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Sex??
If you're scared, you're not ready. Don't do it if you don't want to, no one says you have to. Just keep telling him you want to wait until you're ready. If he doesn't respect that, find a different boyfriend.
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ok i have a question. i was suppose to start on the 17th or 18th. well on the 16th i had sex with my boyfriend and he cumed in me. i haven't started my period yet. could the reason why i haven't started be bC of the fact i might be pregnant or is there another reason that i haven't started yet?
There's a possibilty you could be but most likely you aren't. Having sex before your period can sometimes cause it to be irregular and push it back a little. And as said before it may just be off a couple days.
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Umm are you there? please tell me lol
haha yeah i am
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me and my boyfriend had sex last sunday. we used a spermacidical condom and he pulled out right when he started to cum. 3 days later i started having a lot of dicharge. it smells and looks the same as it normally does there is just a lot more. i also am experiencing headaches and cramps. what does this mean?
I wouldn't worry about it, it probably just means you're about to start your period.
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Labia Minora i read a question and someone said theres was light brown what on earth is it?
http://myvag.net/labia/
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