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Question Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 9:08 pm

16/f
ok so everytime im with a guy and he fingers me it doesnt feel good at all and sometimes it hurts...that cant be good lol and its not like the first few times i mean ive gotten fingered alot so idk whats going on with that and also when i had sex for the first and only time i was like dying cause it hurt so bad haha im hoping it was just the first time but what if its not...i saw no pleasure in it and im in no hurry to go do it all over again you know? so i need some advice

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xEVYx answered Sunday September 3 2006, 12:03 am:
Are the guys you are with experienced? If not that could be a start. If they don't know what they're doing or do it too rough, it's bound to hurt at least a little. If it hurts you just tell them. Show them how to do it like you like, they can't read minds.

As far as sex, it's normal for the first time to be painful and for some girls it could be the 3rd or 4th time, etc. before they feel pleasure over pain.

=] Evy

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