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WEll ok my best friend is a girl and we have been through alot together and i really love her and dont want anything to happen to her and ill make sure that nothing does however, theres a problem she likes to get around and have fun with guys and it hurts/ pisses me off...by the way i dont like her more than a friends...she gives them head,let them finger her, and fucks them and im afraid one time somethings going to go wrong and she going to get pregnant...i want to convice her she dont need it but she just laughs at me and goes and does it anyway such as right now shes fucking a friend of mine in my basement...i dont no what to do...i want to tell her how i feel and also get her to stop!! Anythign in helpful! Thanks (link)
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Wow, i feel for you! Ok I've been in the same situation and it might help if you put it in words. Just let all your feelings out on paper..including how you're worried she might get pregnant or even worse an STD. Dont be nice, in situations like this you have to be brutal and your friend will thank you later. Good luck!
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My school just changed its boundres. I am the only one of all my freinds thats going to a different school. this has been the best year of my life cuse my bffs were there and now im never going to see them again. when ever my freinds have moved or something we both said that we would keep in touch. well that never happened. i dont want that to happen to my bffs again. so what should i do? these are my BEST FREINDS IN THE WORLD!!! i dont want to lose them. im 14 and going into 9th grade. thanks for the help.
---> Mandy (link)
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Well it's probably too late to apoply to a magent program at your highschool so your only other option is to use an address of someone you know..like a friend of your family who lives in district. That's what a few of my friends do. I know exactly how you feel...they've changed the district on ym school like 3 times already..I seriosuly hope eveything works out! Good luck! ♥ caitie
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one of my bff has been getting on my nerves recently. she is a c-cup and im an a-cup. i could really care a less about boob size tho. but shes always bragging about how big her boobs are and how skinny she is. like if a girl gets hit in the chest area it hurts no matter what, but if in gym or something i get hit there she'll be like "what boobs." and she always brags about her "perfect" figure. personally i dont think she has the perfect figure or good looks but why does she brag so much? i told her a million times that lifes not about boobs and when me and her hang out the boys are all over me not her. (link)
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I totally understand how annoying that is because my friend used to say that whole "what boobs" thing to me too...when she had tiny boobs lol. Anyway...it sounds like your friend in insecure with herself..and talking about some of her good aspects makes her feel better...I'm sure she doesn't realize how much she brags. Just talk to her in private and say you'd appreciate it if she didnt brag all the time about her awesome figure or huge boobs...that way your telling her how you fell while also boosting her confidence. Good luck!
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Should i tell my bestfriend about my period? I'm not sure. We tell each pther every one of our secrets (link)
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If you feel comfortable talking about it then definitly..pretty much every girl goes and tells their friends when they get their period. Who else are you gonna talk to about it..because it can be wierd when you first get it. Im also sure your friend would want to know! Congrats!! good luck!
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I think my two best friends are bullying me! They act like my best friend when its just one of them indivally. but when they're both together with me they call me names and then say its a joke and take the piss otta me.
plz help
Madi
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I know exactly how you feel..sometimes when my 2 firneds are together they drive me crazy..and I used to take it but one day I got really mad and told them how I felt. If they're good friends they'll understand and stop doing it, but if they continue then you'll know that they aren't true friends. Just tell them how you feel and dont say it nicely...be liek I'm sick and tired of you guys treating me like crap and always ganging up on me....be straight forward. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Theres a new girl at my school; Lizzie.
She seemed really sweet and over the past 2 weeks we've become [ or so i thought ] great friends.
The first day she got here, she asked me like who are good people to hang around, who to trust/not trust, who the populars are, who would get you in trouble, and what our school is like.
I told her in my school you can't trust anyone. I told her about a girl on our Team that is so stuck up and self-concieted and thinks she popular [ and shes deff. not ]And I told her my opionion about other people too. Well Lizzie ran off and told all those people what I had said about them and how not to trust me. This made me mad cause she specificly asked about these people then stabbed me in the back by telling them my opionion about them.
I don't wanna confront her about it though; I'd feel so embarressed. What should I do? (link)
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Even though you don't want ot confront her, you should. Try writing her a note saying that you were just trying to help her adjust and going off telling people what was suppose to stay between you too..is not the way to make friends. Tell her you know it's gotta be hard switching to a new school but making enemies isn't going to make it easier. Be the mature one and she'll be put in her place. Who knows maybe she was just confused and didnt mean anything by it...and is still trying to make freinds...if she's not a total bitch to you..try being friendly. Good luck! ♥
caitie
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well, im going through a lot in my life with guys but only guy friends, i think i like my ex again but then i like one of my other friends.... but i dont wanna ruin any of our friendships so should i just move on with both of them? or pick one?? but which one??????!?!?!? (link)
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First. thx for asking me! Ok well, sometimes it works out when friends go out with eachother, so I'd like to tell you to choose one but I cant! Most of the time it doesn't work...and I wouldn't take the chance of ruining your friendship with your ex..after having it been awkward after you broke up in the 1st place...as for your friend...don't mess with your friendship unless he approaches you first. I think that's how you should deall with this type of situation...if you like your friend, don't be the one to say it, let him! Blah-blah blah...what I'm trying to say is just move on..i'm sure you'll find someone else in no time!! Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Well I have 2 best friends and we all use to goto middle school together until we got to high school cause all 3 of us goto different high schools. Well they made these plans leaving me out and I barly see them am I in the wrong to be mad cause I don't see them and on top of that they leave me out.should i be mad or am i wrong? I think one of them is mad because I told her that her ex and I have been talking alot lately and i think I like him. But i would never let a boy in between my frienships so am i wrong to be mad.
thanks for anyone who answers! (link)
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No you're definitly not in the wrong! but don't get mad, just 3-way with your friends on the phone or...see them in person and tell them thta you feel as if they've been leaving you out..and you dont want you guys to grow apart. Don't act as if your mad, b/c if you do your friends might get defensive and it'll just make it worse. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Ok my cousin went out with this guy for about a year and i just found out that he hits her and all kinds of stuff but she never did anything about it...now their broke up and she's talking to another guy from the same school but her ex still hits on her and cusses her out at school while her new bf's not around...I want to speak up but she told me NO...should i or not?This is getting way out of hand and im the only one who knows!!Please help me out!! (link)
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Ok yes you should def. speak up..this can't go on! I think what you shoudl do is tell the school guidance counselor about it...tel her you promised you wouldn't tell so could you please say that an anonymous student saw him beating on her. That way he won't beat on you and you're cousin won't get mad at you! And even if your cousin finds out..she's gonna thatnk you in the long run! ♥ caitie
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about 3 months ago me and my " best friend " qot into a HUGE fiqht .. she did me soo wrong .. after a while we decided to squish the beef and just be friends .. the thing is i dont just want to be friends .. i want to be best friends again but we barely talk and when we do its like hi .. wuhts up ? .. and bye .. ii really miss her but i dont know what she thinks. i want to be strong about it and forget about her cause of what she did but i cant .. its hard when everytime i see her online or talk to her i have flashbacks of when we were best friends and all the jokes and insiders we had together .. now she got other friends and its like i dont exist until she wants something or needs advice for something. i just dont know what to do .. forget about her and worry about my real friends or what ?!?!?!? i need heLp ASAP (link)
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I've had some pretty bad stuff happen between me and this one girl....and she's not a good person so i ended our friendship (she used to be a sweetheart, but ppl change)! But I always have flashbacks like you do...and honestly if she wasn't sucha bad perosn I would be friends with her again. Friends fight all the time, but you're friends and you can make it through anything. I think you should go to her house and tell her how you feel. Most likely she feels the same!! But think...is she a good person...because that's what I had to think about with my friend...if she's a plain cold hearted bitch...then just get over her! I hope this wasn't confusing..if it was then you can im me at angleyezxo21xo if you want. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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I'm really close to this guy named Kevin. He's one of my best friends & I just met him about a month ago when I first moved to this state. He told me he was gay when we first met. It didn't bother me at all, seen as I have a lot of gay friends. But, this was our conversation tonight:
HIM: I love you a lot! :)
ME: Hah, you can't you're gay.
HIM: No, I'm bisexual. I just prefer guys more.
ME: Lol, well youre 75% gay.
HIM: Yeah, but the other 25% is you.
Okay, Well, basically my question is, do you think he really likes me? Like from that 25% thing? Just wondering.. Thanks a bunch. (link)
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Yes he probably does like you...my friend went out with a bi-guy...so if you decide to go out with him, here's a warning..it's gonna feel awkward sometimes because he could like ANYONE in a room and that's gonna be on your mind. Just thought I'd give you some extra info! Hope this helped! ♥ caitie
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hey guys.. well pretty soon my friend is having a keg party(drinking) and inviting everyone because her moms going to be out of town that night.. and i want to go but im scared that the cops will come and we all will get busted.. shes done a lot before and never gotten caught by her mom or anything but since its this big of a party im not sure if i should go or not it would be a ton of fun but i dont want to get totally screwed.. so let me know what i should do, thanks... (link)
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Well if it were a smaller party like in the past, then I would tell you you should go and have fun, but at big parties with "illegal substances" cops usually show up! I wouldn't risk getting caught...just wait until your friend has a smaller party. Well I hope that helped and whatever you decide to do..good luck! ♥ caitie
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During 4th period yesterday, my friend, Ryan had my cell and I forgot to get it back from him at the end of class. So he had to keep it and his 5th and 6th periods are football. All the football guys know me so I guess they thought they could mess with my phone and it would be alright. Here's just a few things I found out they did:
1. changed my b/f's name to "cock sucker"
2. took pictures of themselves in the shower (surprisingly enough, I wasn't turned on)
3. sent dirty texts to people
4. changed my dad's name to "do not answer"
5. downloaded all these songs and games
6. i have a "never delete" folder for the texts i want and didn't want to delete and they of course, deleted them! (they claim this one was an accident)
7. and changed the language to German
I was furious with them when I saw my cell. Mostly at Ryan for letting them do it. So, I am not talking to any of them until I figure out if they're worth it or not. Specially Ryan. Now, he claims he is mad at me because I had no right to be mad at him because it wasn't his fault! How immature is that? I don't care that they used up my texts or downloaded stuff that cost money and I don't want them to pay me back or anything but what should I do?
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Wow what they did was very immature. But, they're your friedns..I guess, so just take a break for a little while and let yourself cool down. Because you shoulnd't waste your time being mad at people when you'll eventualyl be friends again...so why stress about it right? I've wasted my time being mad at people and in ther end I'm the only one that suffers because I stress about ti all the time...what they did was their idea of funny..so they weren't neccasarily doing it to hurt you. Just tell them that you don't want them messing with you phone and that they can make you laugh and all btu not by doing stuff like that. Well good luck and I hope you get your cell back to normal!! ♥ caitie
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I really messed up something with my two friends. My friend Caleb is a junior. He recently started dating Katie, an eighth grader. I was at her house playing basketball with them and her little sister. At one point they just started kissing a lot. Later he told me they were going out. So today, my friend Charlie said something like "Are Katie and Bledsoe going out?". I was like "No, she's going out with Caleb isn't she?". I left after that. Apparently, Caleb was trying to keep their relationship secret. Whoops. Charlie told Caleb that I was making up stuff about him. Caleb kept denying that anything was going on. I honestly didn't know they were keeping it secret. They were making out in their driveway. They were making out in front of her little sister. How was I supposed to know? I just need to find a way to explain all of this to Caleb and Katie. They're both really good friends of mine. I haven't even talked to either of them since.
If you need more information or something, IM me at ACWNS09@aol.com or ACWR09@aol.com. (link)
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Ok..wow that really sucks! First, thanks for asking me! What I think you should do is first is explain to Caleb, because guys are more forgiving. Let him know that you didnt know it was a secret honestly, and you didn't mean to be the one to get it out in the open..it was realy a big mistake...and I don't want you to be mad at me anymore! basically just tell him that it was an accident and explain everything that happened. Next, go to Katie and tell her the same thing...going to her 2nd gives her more time to cool off, beacsue we all know how girls are lol! I also think it's messed up that they're mad at you when they clearly didn't tell you that it was a secret relationship..but I'm sure once they know everything..they'll understand. Good luck...and keep the questions coming! ♥ caitie
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i have been dancing ballet for about 12 years. i love it. it always gives me something to do and it keeps me in shape. about a month ago i was in a horrific car accident. the car flipped over in a ditch and killed the driver. who was my best friend. i broke my back and now i am parilized from my waist down. i will never be able to walk again. i will never dance again. that is what hurts the most. no i dont feel sorry for myself because i know what happend to my friend casey. i miss her so much and i just feel like there was more that i could have done to keep her from loosing control of the car. and i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for 7 months. he comes to see me everyday and he occaisonally brings me flowers. i am 17 and he asked me to marry him. of course i told him yes. and we are getting married next year in august. i will not be able to have children .. and ladies you all know thats the worst feeling in the world. my fiance wants to adopt. and i am all for it. i just wouldnt be a regular mom that can hold her kids. that upsets me so much. i dont know what to do. (link)
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Oh, I'm so sorry...but congrats to your engagement! I think you should adopt...and just think how wonderful it is that you're giving a child hope that he/she might have never had! You can still hold your child...and I honestly think that your disability will not affect your child at all! You will also make your friend Casey very proud to see that what happened hasn't held you back! Good luck and I hope I helped! ♥ caitie
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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"? (link)
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In my opinion a friend is someone you like hanging out with, you feel comfortable with, you know some of eachother's secrets, but you sometimes get on eachother's nerves! A best friend is someone who you tell anything, whenever you hear the word friend they pop into your head first, someone you always feel like chillin with, you know you could never live without them, and whenever your mad or sad you call them to make you happy! You can fight and still be bestfriends but in mycase I've neve fought with my bff! hope i helped x0x ♥
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tomorrow i made plans with two of my best friends ... tori and erin to go shopping... and erin put it on her away message... this girl that i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY (i think you get it) hate (and so do tori and erin)Nicole... saw it and shes like I THINK I'll MEET YOU GUYS AT THE MALL TOMORROW! I dont want to tell her no... what should I do... she will ruin our day ! and please dont say GIVE HER A CHANCE... because believe me... i have given her millions. (link)
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well try goin to a different mall...like i ahve two malls around me so do most people so just go to a different mall...or you could use the fact that the annoying invited herself as a reason to get mad at her and say "you know i dont liek it when people just invite themselves into my plans...so how bout you don't meet us" well i hoep it works out ♥
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ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not? (link)
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Ya you are friend..i know alot of people like cindy..ya'll are friends but not true friends..if you get what I'm saying..you get along with eachother but around other people Cindy acts likek you don't exist...I'll just tell you this dont confide in her and dont completely trust her! x0x hope i helped ♥ caitie ♥
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heyy - ive lived in the house i live in now ALL my life, & i like it- but lately all my mom talks about is moving to a bigger one. [I'd rather just extend, b/c some of my neighbors have been doing that and it looks GREAT!]I dont want to move b/c my BEST BEST friend lives a few houses down. We hangout ALL the time & we talk to eachother about everything, and we help eachother through hard times. We know what goes on in eachother's lives and we tell eachother everything. I worried that if i do move we'll drift apart [thats what happened to our other friend who moved, we used to be BESt friends but she moved & we NEVER ever talk anymore..] I really dont want to see our friendship fade b/c weve gotten SOO close through all these years[ weve been best friends since kindergarten] im soo worried and i really dont want to move , whenever my mom talks about moving, i have to told back my tears b/c i thnk about how it'll be so different going from being able to walk to eachothers houses to not being able to at all. We are REAlLY close & im so scared that one day my mom will tell me that she bought a house. I really need help b/c i have no idea what to do. Ive tried telling my mom, but she just talks about it more & more - and its driving me crazy. I love this house & i love being so close to my best friend b.c if theyres a problem we can always run to eachothers houses & we are going through the same problems with parents & friends and stuff so we can relate a lot. We laugh together, we cry together, and i really dont want to lose that. Shes my BEST friend & im so afraid of what might happen! PLEASe help me! i dont know what else to do! Its getting me really upset ... =(
[sry this is long, but i really need help lol ]
thanks soooo much for taking the time 2 read this -- it really means a lot =)
love always,
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hey thx for asking me this question w0w this is so wierd you know the answer thats askmex3 gave you well the best friend she was talking about is me...so as you see we're still very close! as long as you always talk on the phone and try to plan visits you should stay close! me and my friend have known eacohter 4 evr nd you and ur friend sound very close so chemistry should keep you close!! h0pe i helped good luck x0x *caitie* ♥
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hey umm lol me and my best friend has been friends since 5th grade..and now were going into 8th..we live very close where we can walk to each others houses..well my parents are very stritct when it comes to drinking and stuff..well i usally went to her house atleast5 times a week..well when i stayed a night one night we drank and got drunk..well any ways...her dad found out and called and told my dad..and no i cant go over there at all! and were BEST friends..i mean i stayed a night with her once this summer..just bc it was my b-day..and i cant go over there at all..ive tried telling them EVERYTHING that i wount do it again..what can i do to make them realize i wont drink again????
I RATE TOP (link)
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Ok what you need to do is find a way to earn back their trust...tell them "I'm really sorry i betrayed you, it's just that me and (your friend) got sucked into peer pressure and I realize that's no excuse and I understand i deserve to be punished but me and (your friend) are best friends..i miss her so much and this is just a lesson we both learned togethjer so whenever we're together we'll know to never repeat this mistake! What can I do to earn back your trust, because I hate that you guys don't trust me anymore!"....you don't have to say that word for word but you get the point...they cant stop you from seeing her forever im sure eventually they'll let up if this doesnt work! good luck hope i helped...x0x *caitie*
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