I really messed up something with my two friends. My friend Caleb is a junior. He recently started dating Katie, an eighth grader. I was at her house playing basketball with them and her little sister. At one point they just started kissing a lot. Later he told me they were going out. So today, my friend Charlie said something like "Are Katie and Bledsoe going out?". I was like "No, she's going out with Caleb isn't she?". I left after that. Apparently, Caleb was trying to keep their relationship secret. Whoops. Charlie told Caleb that I was making up stuff about him. Caleb kept denying that anything was going on. I honestly didn't know they were keeping it secret. They were making out in their driveway. They were making out in front of her little sister. How was I supposed to know? I just need to find a way to explain all of this to Caleb and Katie. They're both really good friends of mine. I haven't even talked to either of them since.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Friday October 14 2005, 1:38 pm: Ok..wow that really sucks! First, thanks for asking me! What I think you should do is first is explain to Caleb, because guys are more forgiving. Let him know that you didnt know it was a secret honestly, and you didn't mean to be the one to get it out in the open..it was realy a big mistake...and I don't want you to be mad at me anymore! basically just tell him that it was an accident and explain everything that happened. Next, go to Katie and tell her the same thing...going to her 2nd gives her more time to cool off, beacsue we all know how girls are lol! I also think it's messed up that they're mad at you when they clearly didn't tell you that it was a secret relationship..but I'm sure once they know everything..they'll understand. Good luck...and keep the questions coming! ♥ caitie [ x0blu3eyedbeautyx0's advice column | Ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 A Question ]
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