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things arent the same
about 3 months ago me and my " best friend " qot into a HUGE fiqht .. she did me soo wrong .. after a while we decided to squish the beef and just be friends .. the thing is i dont just want to be friends .. i want to be best friends again but we barely talk and when we do its like hi .. wuhts up ? .. and bye .. ii really miss her but i dont know what she thinks. i want to be strong about it and forget about her cause of what she did but i cant .. its hard when everytime i see her online or talk to her i have flashbacks of when we were best friends and all the jokes and insiders we had together .. now she got other friends and its like i dont exist until she wants something or needs advice for something. i just dont know what to do .. forget about her and worry about my real friends or what ?!?!?!? i need heLp ASAP
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Hey hun,
I'm really sorry. That sounds exactly like me and my old best friend. I always think about when we were friends, and how we went everywhere together. Now we don't even talk anymore. If I were you I would just forget about her, and worry about your real friends. If she was a real friend, she would talk to you a whole lot more and actually wanna hang out with you. I'm so sorry that you guys hardly even talk anymore. I feel the same way as you do. I hope everything works out for you! Forget about her! You deserve better friends than that! I hope I helped hun! If not, I'm really sorry. If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Luv ya!
<3 KiMmY
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good friends will come and go, even best friends will come and go. i think if you've talked to her about it (about how you're not as close anymore), and you've tried to initiate to do stuff together and she still doesn't respond much, then i think you can't count her as a true friend. true friends are people you can rely on, and it doesn't sound like she's that kind of person.
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i know exactly how you feel im going through the same situation right now...she acts like im not even here...but we cant sit here and mope around..dont waste your time complaining about your problems get up and do something...the best thing for us to do is move on with our lifes as if they were never a part of them....
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okay so u told your friend alreadii how u feel well then try makin more plans w. this friend qoin out more like movies or mall or mayb just a weekend at eachothers houses .. remeber everyhting happens for a reason and its hard to mend a best friend relationship back together if u had a huge fight just try your best & you'll succeed
good-luck
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I've had some pretty bad stuff happen between me and this one girl....and she's not a good person so i ended our friendship (she used to be a sweetheart, but ppl change)! But I always have flashbacks like you do...and honestly if she wasn't sucha bad perosn I would be friends with her again. Friends fight all the time, but you're friends and you can make it through anything. I think you should go to her house and tell her how you feel. Most likely she feels the same!! But think...is she a good person...because that's what I had to think about with my friend...if she's a plain cold hearted bitch...then just get over her! I hope this wasn't confusing..if it was then you can im me at angleyezxo21xo if you want. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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