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Would it wrong to take a nap with your boyfriend or girlfriend? on the sofa or something?
I dont know, for some reason, I dont think my mom would agree. I'm just wondering too, I'm curious, what most parents would think of this? (link)
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Personally, I don't find anything wrong with that, but you're right. some mothers wouldn't agree because they would go straight to thinking the wrong thing. Especially if they have little trust in their son/daughter or their boyfriend/girlfriend.
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Okay, so I'm a cheerleader. For practice one day, I let one of my friends whos in a grade lower than me, borrow one of my shirts. My favorite american eagle shirt. She wore it to cheerleading, then brought it home to wash it. She didn't bring it in until like a week later and she put it in her locker. Something spilled in her locker and got all over my shirt. So she had to bring it home and wash it again. Then today, she wore it to school! I was so mad. I've mentioned to her a few times that I'd like the shirt back, but I haven't gotten it.
Should I be mad at her? How else can I hint to her that I want it back?
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You do have a right to be mad at her. If you already explained to her that you want your shirt back and she still didn't give it back to you, then "hinting" to her that you want it back won't help.
You need to tell her straight-up that you would like the shirt back and it wasn't right of her to wear it to school when you specifically told her you want it back.
Just give her a call right now and tell her to bring it tomorrow.
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My best friend is moving away tomorrow! Tonight I was going to bake cookies or cake for them, which do you think is better? THANKS! (link)
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I think a cake would be better.
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OK there is this girl in my choir class that I cannot deal with. I thought she was gonna be in Concert next year and be out of my hair but she's in both classes! I can't deal with her for another year but I don't want to switch out. HELP!!!! (link)
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You didn't really explain what exactly the problem is you have with her. But just ignore her. If she gets on your nerves or whatever the problem may be, you have to learn to deal with it and ignore it, You can't let yourself be bothered by it. Maybe you can try getting to know her better if you don't know her that well.
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My freind is really mad at me cause i didn't tell her a secret. Now she wont talk to me. I need ways 2 get her back. Im afraid that we will stop bein friends (link)
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If you don't want to tell her your secret then don't. Just because you guys are friends doesn't mean that you can't keep your personal things to yourself. Tell her that, also tell her that if she didn't want to tell you a secret you wouldn't force her. If she's forcing you to tell her something then she's not being a real frind.
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My friends always tell me im pretty and that im the skinniest out of all of us whenever i say im fat or that im ugly or hate my hair and things like that and i dont know if they are doing this to make me feel better or not? what do you think? (link)
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They are probably telling you the truth. No one really knows what your friends really think except them. If they are your friends and you trust them then I think that they will be honest with you.
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what is desperate means? and is that bad? cause people say im desperate and i dont know what that means
im from japan. (link)
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Being desperate is not always positive thing. It means that you want a boyfriend/girlfriend so bad, that you are willing to do ANYTHING to get one.
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I'm worried about my friend, she's involved with a guy that makes a fool out of her every chance he gets. i try to tell her that she should just leave him alone but, she wont listen. should i just let her be and sit back while she's being made a fool of? (link)
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I know thst is the last thing you want to do but yes, just sit back and let her be.
You tried warning her and she wouldn't listen.
She will realize when time comes that you were right.
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uggh i dont even know where to begin. thanks for reading this and trying to help but seriously what youre about to read is alot!
ok so i was going out with this guy last year and i got back together with him this year a few months ago.. well i broke up with him because he wasnt acting like my boyfriend but i still wanted to be friends.
my ex best friend (lets call her bob).. ok i got into a fight with her and i really didnt do anything and she ended up turning everyone against me, we made up a long time after but i found out she was pretty much mad at me for no reason she pretty much picked a fight, well.. theres another girl who was my best friend last year (lets call her billy) and i found out that they made a plan to get me jealous of them being best friends and after they found out i broke up with my bf they were happy (they liked him) and pretty much everyone in my school likes him that knows him.. and we had a party the day i broke up with him and he was sad when i wasnt there but as soon as i got there he was acting all happy and hanging out with my two "ex best friends" and he knows i hate them. so at the party bob asked me if she can go out with him because she found out he wanted to go out with her (this was the same day i broke up with him). what pisses me off is that he is only doing this to get revenge with me and shes doing the same probaly just like she had the plan with billy..
theres more to this that i didnt mention but really i dont know what i should do!
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Why would you want to be friends with people who only want to get revenge on you when you did nothing wrong and only want to hurt you and cause you pain? You should move on and forget about them because you don't need poeple like that in your life.
I know this probably didn't help much but that's pretty much all you can do.
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I want to tell my friend something..It's a problem I've been having and it's kind of serious. I've never told this friend anything this serious before though. How do I know if she'll accept me and keep it a secret? (link)
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Well ask yourself this, do you trust her enough to tell her your secret? Is she a true friend to you? When/if you did tell her personal stuff, did she keep that a secret? If she is a real friend, she won't tell any one your secret and she will accept you for who you are. Just follow your instincts on this one.
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hey i'm a guy and have a girlfriend, i love her and everything. i was wondering...i havn't asked her yet, but would it be a bad thing if i sent valentines day cards to my friends that are girls? some of them i'm really good friends with and i wouldn't want to do it if it offended my girlfriend or let her think the wrong idea. should i just ask her about it, or am i over-analyzing things? i am getting my girlfriend a gift, but would it be wrong to send a few cards to my friends as well? what do you think, thanks in advance. (link)
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Hey, I think that is a good idea and very sweet of you too do that.
I also think that you should talk to your girlfriend about it so she isn't the last one to find out and so she doesn't take it the wrong way.
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OKay Im 13 female.. and my best friend is .. 12 male .. im serious he iS MY BEST FRIEND!
Well i accused my best friend of someting and ive been totally killing him and he just looks at me an f rowns.. and i cussed him out.. then i found out he didnt tell my secret.. someone else did.. and he told me wen i accused him HE WUD NEVER TELL anything about his BEST FRIEND and he said he loved me.. what do i do to apollogize.. and he tried to kiss me on the cheek and hug me.. and i turned around ! WUT DO I DO!!?!/
I WILL RATE 5!! (link)
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Aww that is soo cute!
Just talk to him. Tell him you didn't mean to say all those things you were just upset that your secret got out.
Since he is your best friend I'm SURE he will understand and forgive you.
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Hi, I'm a 13 year old female. My friend Amber and I have been friends for about a year. Yeah, I know not long but were are or were best friends. It all started when she made me extremly mad over not telling me she was going out with my Ex boyfriend. I have no feelings for him what-so-ever. But I felt that since I told her everything and we had agreed that we would tell anything to each other that she should have told me.
So I wrote her a letter telling her I was upset and that she should have at least told me when she first started dating him. She always takes things the wrong way, like for example when I wrote her the letter; she thought that I was not her friend and that I didn't want to be around her. When I clearly stated in the letter that I didn't want our friendship to end.
She always takes things that way and she made me feel guilty over it. But I when I wrote the letter I wasn't like, "You stupid hoe! You should have told me!!". Not like that. So my question is. Did I have a right to do what I did? (link)
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Writing a letter to her was perfectly fine.
And you did nothing wrong.
If your friend took it the wrong way then I suggest you sit her down and explain that you still would like to be friends with her but it was wrong of her not to tell you from the begining that she was dating your ex boyfriend.
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OoK I'm gunna see this guy next tuseday and I really like this guy. So anyways i worte him a really nice letter and i really expressed my feelings about him and iam gunna give him my yearbook picture when i give him this i think hes not gunna like it or something. But is it a bad thing to do like write a note to someone that you really like?? Iam scared giving it to him i don't know how he will react.
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Lauren (link)
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Writing a note to some one expressing how you feel is not a bad idea at all.
Don't be afraid to give it to him.
If you have second thoughts about this and you end up not giving it to him you may loose your chance.
Goodluck & let me know how it goes!
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hey y'all i'm having a party next weekend and i need some good slow songs. i need some good makeout songs too.
thanks. 5s for all (link)
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Dance Songs:
Amerie - Touch
Britney Spears - Outrageous
Garbage - Why Do You Love Me
Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman
La Bouche - Be My Lover
Ace Of Base - Beautiful Life
R. Kelly - Burn It Up
Slow Songs :
Amanda Perez - I Pray
Ashlee Simpson - That's Why I Love You
Aslyn - That's When I Love You
Bon Jovi - Always
Deestylistic - I Still Love You
Deestylistic - Last Cry
Dierks Bentley - Come A Little Closer
Delta Goodrum - Lost Without You
Enrique Iglesias - Hero
Jessica Simpson - I Wanna Love You Forever
Leanne Rimes - How Do I Live
Maria - I Give, You Take
Nivea - Complicated
Sarah Connor - Just One Last Dance
Usher - You Got It Bad
Vanessa Carlton - Pretty Baby
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me and this guy have gone out 4 times today he dumped me and wants to knoiw if we should still be friends i was wondering the same thing. should we still be friends?
**Sleepiesheep** (link)
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I think that the two of you should still be friends.
If it was only four times you guys went out then basically you would loose a friendship over a little thing.
So stay friends.
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15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.
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That is not pathetic at all.
There is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend.
If you are waiting for the right guy to come there is nothing wrong with that.
Don't worry about what other people think.
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YAY :) only two more days left till x-mas break! haha it cant come soon enough! but anywaysss
i seriously wanna have the best break ever!! and i wanna meet alot of new guys but like i dont know how? i dont get invited to that many parties and my best friend goes to a diff school and she has some hotties she knows..but she isnt one to like introduce us. or like even hang out with them! ive been reading your previous answers and like yeah i even try to boost up her confidence! and im gonna be over at her house like everyday haha. but its gettin kinda boring..we sit on the computer the WHOLE time when im thinking jeez i wanna go out and do something! the problem is neither of us have our license.. 5 more months :) haha! but yeah any ideas on how we could hang out with the guys.
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Hey hun
You guys could go to the mall especially the food court there and meet some guys.
They have plenty there.
You guys could maybe hang out in a park and meet some guys there.
You guys could go out to eat.
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I had the worst day. I found out this morning that one of my friends died in her sleep at her parents. I hadnt talked to her in a long time so I felt a lot of guilt. I also had to phone another friend who had a falling out with her 6 months ago and she felt so guilty she spent the whole day crying.
The funeral is on wednesday morning and I can't go because I have to work. So I spent 40 dollars to have a bouquet of flowers delivered to the funeral.
I also stubbed my toe, slammed my finger in a door, and got my period today. I don't have a bf to comfort me and all my other friends are too upset over the death of our friend to talk to me. Is there something that I could do to make myself feel better about this situation? I thought that by getting the flowers I would feel better but I only feel worse. And how can I get undepressed? It's right before Xmas and I don't want to ruin the holidays for my family. (link)
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Heyy hun
Awww I'm so sorry to hear about your friend's death.
Because of your friend's death, you can't really feel not depressed.
You feel this way because you care alot about your friend.
Go take a bubble bath even though anything you do won't help much.
It takes time.
If you need anything or some one to talk to you can IM me on XXMiSZJUCiiXX anytime.
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i need some new stuff to listen to. i like fall out boy, dashboard confessional, kelly clarkson, gwen steffani, good charlotte, ect... plz give me some suggestions of this type of music. (link)
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3 Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You
112 - What if
Acceptance - Bleeding Heart
Alexz Johnson - Temporary Isanity
Aly & AJ - Rush
Ashlee Simpson - I Am Me
Aslyn - That's When I Love You
Astaire - L-L-Love
Belinda - Be Free
Beyonce Ft Slim Thug - Check Up On It
Black Eyed Peas - My Humps
Blue Cantrell feat Sean Paul - Breathe
Bon Jovi - Always
Bosson - One In A Million
Boys II Men - I Can Love You Like That
Britney Spears - Santa, Can You Hear Me, The Answer
Carlos Santana feat Michelle Branch - The Game of Love
Cassidy ft. R Kelly -Come to My Hotel
Cassie - Me & You
Chris Cagle - Miss Me Baby
Christina Vidal - Take Me Away, Thought That We Were Friends
Dante Thomas - Miss California
Dashboard Confessional - So Impossible
Debelah Morgan - Yesterday, Dance With Me
Hawthrone Heights - Niki FM, Transition
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Hellogoodbye - Shimmy Shimmy Quarter Turn
Hope Partlow - Sick Inside
Imogen Heap - Hide and Seek
Jamison Parker - Best Mistake
Jason Mraz - Geek In The Pink
JC Cannegieter- Over You
Jessica Simpson - Baby It's Cold Outside
Jewel - Winter Wonderland
Joee - I Don't Believe In You, Angel
Journey - Don't Stop Believing
Judy Torres - Faithfully
Kaila Yu - Sugar
Kasey Chambers - Am I Not Pretty Enough , Sugar
Kelly Clarkson - Before Your Love
Keyshia Cole - I Should Have Cheated, Superstar
Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman
Lalaine - Did You Hear About Us
Lindsay Lohan - Confessions Of A Broken Heart
Liz Phair- Extraordinary
LL Cool J - Hush
Lucy Pearl feat. Snoop Dogg & Q-Tip - You
NickleBack- Too Bad, Photograph
No Doubt - Ex Girlfriend, Running
Panic! At The Disco - I Write Sins Not Tragedies
Yellowcard - Lights and Sounds, Way Away
Zeromancer - Famous Last Words
If you need more drop one in my inbox ♥
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