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Hey, my names Ariellll but I go by Rel. I don't look nor act my age & I know more than I should for my age, I lllloveee yo give advice, & think I do a pretty good job, wanna know if I really do, then ask me a question : ) ! First off -- I'm a very honest and straight forward person. I don't like drama and I'm pretty chill. When I'm older I would like to be a therapist. So, this site really allows me to practice ! :)
I tend to go by the fllllow and don't regret much. I'm in love with Lillll' Wayne. I could watch movies everyday of my life.
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ok I have a best friend who really likes this guy. She talks about him all the time. I think he likes her too because he flirts a lot with her. But he is kind of shy and I don't think he would ask her out. I really think she shuold ask him out but she says no and she doesn't think he will say yes. But I said give it a try because she is like obsessed with him. What should she do?
There's a number of things you, him, and her could do..
A: You could ask him if he likes your friend, if he does hint to him that she's likes him and to ask her out.
B: Again, find out if he likes her, if he does tell your friend you know he does for a fact, and tell her to go for it because most likey he will not say no.
C: They could both get up the courage to talk about it.
D: He might not like her, or not want a girlfriend. So, comfort your bestfriend and help her move on.
Hope I Helped & Good Luck !
ok, this is embarasing but here goes... A while ago i got caught by my neighbor peeking in her window when she had some friends over for a sleepover. i was on her back porch peeking in her window when 1 of her friends came out and said what are you doing??? i was like.. o my god... i was so embarased. so she told the other girls wat i was doing and they all talked and then 1 of them came to me and said they wouldnt tell on me if i did wat they said. she said that to be fair they should get to see me naked and that I should strip naked for them. otherwize they would tell my mom that i was a pervert and a peeping tom. anyway, i did it. i took off all my clothes and let them all see me. they looked and giggled and stuff for a long time and then they let me go home. The thing is that since then a couple of them have made be do it again for girls that werent even at the sleepover. they say i desrve it for peeking at them that night. Do you think I deserve it? Should I keep doing it for them? Please give me your advice!
Thanks,
Paul
No, you don't deserve this. You were peeking at them when, I'm just guessing, were clothed.
So, technically they're the perverted ones.
You could either stop doing that, or ask for something inreturn. But, I'd recommend stopping it, it does seem alittle strange, no offense. Because most people aren't like that..
Hope I Helped & Good Luck ! :)
MY friend is moving NJ to CA. He's already really upset. We haven't known each other very long. I'm a grade above him. We became really good friends and stuff. I want to give him something. Something creative. Any ideas?
Greatly appreciated.
Thanks.
Make a Scrapbook, with like pictures and lists of inside jokes in it. Also, you could write him a note and tell him not to read it until he gets to CA. You could either put it at the back of the scrapbook if you end up doing it or put it in a box with a little gift, either something funny or meaningful.
Hope I helped ?
And if you need anymore tips about these ideas, or anything just ask! :)
hey i like this guy and i told him and he said he was gay--you know one of those i dont want to hurt your feelings moves---but anywho my friend ariel just asked me if i would be mad at her if she and him ever dated and i wouldnt cause i had my shot with him and he didnt like me so if he likes her and she likes him then who am i to stand in the way. i mean i would be hurt but i would get over it hopefully. and i dont know what to do because now shes saying she dontlike him and i told her that tomorrow when i walk home i could ask him cause he walks home too and he is usually right in front of me and she aint awnsering me...what do i do??? im so confused :[
ha well my name's Ariell, that's pretty cool :)
I don't really get what you're asking here.
But, yes who are you to stand in the way of them two. First, find out if she likes him still, explain to her that you can't stand in the way of them, and if she likes him, ask your friends Ariel if she would like you to ask him how he feels about her, but if she doesn't want you to ask him, or doesn't like him, then don't.
if i left anything out, or didn't answer what you wanted, just ask again and re-phrase it. Thank you!
& Hope I helped !
Okay I have a lot of guys friends.. and Im a girl but that doesn't madder right?? A bunch of preps started calling me Kevin instead of Katie which is retarted! But.. okay I was hanging with Adam and we had to sit on the bleechers and i was like Move YOUR feet! because he spread his legs and err haha and Olivia(prep bitch!) was like oh why dont you just sit between his legs! So being me I did and Nathen, Josh and Adam started cracking up and MCKenzie(another prep) was like wow Adam if you like her that much.. and he took it as a complete joke and was like OOO yes I love **Kevin and huged me from the back and kept his arms around me and Mr.Davis(PE teacher) was like you need to keep your hands away from eachother! Wickedd loud and we started laughing. Well that was yesturday ..
I dont like how everyone thinks Im apart of the guys. I dont dress like guys its just guys are more loyal they dont tell people what I say and don't stab or try to hurt eachother.. I dress actaully pretty giry. Skirts --low cut shirts even though my Mom doesn't like it.. when you look at me you deffinelty can tell im a girl. Well its hurting my feelings because today it got worse..
This kid named Nick someones whos never liked me called me Butch. You could tell obvioulsy just by looking at me I was upset by that.. and Nick did it again only i think the third time Steven(another Emo awsome Steven I call him my little emo boy) was like NICK come here NOww!! And he yelled that down the hall and Nick came down and he was like Yeahh?? and Steven was like butch??? look at the way she dresses! and Nick was like yeahh good point she does dress kinda slutty! oh well Steven didn't like that and punched him in the head and im standing to the side and I was like Steven!! Its okayy dont get in trouble for me.. becuase they got in afight while Stevens yelling SHES NOT A SLUT YOUR JUST JELOSE BECAUSE YOU CANT EVEN TOUCH A GIRL!!! and Im like Stop omfgg stop im like crying in the hallway trying to get them apart and teachers start coming out and Mr.Jones actually stopped the fight and all 3 of us go to the office and were sitting in the Vice Prniciaples office and Nicks in the nurse because of a bloody nose.. and Im like Steven why did you do that??? And he was like Nick had no rigt to call you that. I was liek I know but Steven your probbaly gunna get ISS for this im not worth that.. hes parents are wicked strickt and will kill him! And he hugged me and was like trust me you are.. So i was like ooww I didnt know I maddered that much :D and I hugged his again when Mr.Saunders came in. Hes wicked cool and was oww young love we were like not Best Buds! and hes like Well Nicks going home.. we started laughing and Mr.Saunders was like I wanna hear you side of the story and Il talk to Nick tomarrow. So we explained he called me a slut, and butch and Kevin.. and Mr.Saunders was like it was a good reason, but didnt make it right. Which yeah we understand So Steven got ISS for 5 days.. Nicks probbaly gunna get it for six because of hurassment basicly i think.. and everyone was asking me questions because they heard me screaming and i was like what happen to Kevin? they were like oh and stoped talking to me and I explained things to Adam and stuff about what Steven said and he was like dude Katie if he even said Kevin infornt of me id kick his ass! so I donno why I feel like I need some girl friends.. I have Becky. And she hangs with the guys too and she was like to you think Steven likes you and i was like no its a brotherly love just like Adams and stuff. But like wjhat if I start liking one and they think im a sister or something???? Im a girl...
Ahh please help me why i feel this way and Why I dont wanna go to school tomarrow... I like that they feel they should defend me but I can take care of myself. Im not some defensless girl. Im there friend not a sister not a girlfriend.. what should I do???!
The people making fun of you are just jealous. Probably because they like the guy or are jealous that you have guy friends.
It seems to me like your guy friends care about you. I'm not sure if they like you, because only they know that. But there is a possiblity. Or they could just stick up for you because you're their friend and just like you said sister-ish.
It was really nice and sweet of Steve(n) to stick up for you like that. A lot of girls would love that.
Don't feel like you need to change your friends, i actually wish i had more guy friends. Myabe just make one oe two more girl friends.
Don't change the way you dress, it doesn't sound slutty. Guys and girls just lover calling other people that.
Hope I helped ; anything else, just ask ! :)
It’s all about my ol bff kut. I live pon and zi and he fought with my other friend on who was my penguin. Talked about my favorite songs. But ive never told him my favorite songs. But its all on my page ive been telling him to get. Then I stayed at my friend’s house for a week and her cousin Jon was gona too but he invited kut and I came out in all out gothic and he left and wouldn’t look or talk to me.hes now afraid of my best friends and I but still talks to me. Then theirs some parties. 1.Airsoft him showing off us running thought the rainstorm got on teams and he said only if I can be on their team. The team I was on. Big flirts then it went to hell he asked me out I said no…2.school concert we played games like red hands but ended up holding both hands lol. Then a lot of our friends sat at one end of the room sitting on top of each other and kut kept lookin over at me umm sitting and laying up on my guy friend and other people us all with 3 ipods singing haha there was 17 people. And then my friend told me I should get off him. Then teachers came over we all got introuble 3.carnival kut ignored me as I sat with some friends older guys…at midnight away from everyone on the kp playground. Then we all went on rides this was guys and girls. 4. pool parties kut stared at me as I noticed I was sitting up against my other guy friend then I moved. But then some of my friends and I got ina water fight 2 guys and 2 other girls. Then I told kut to join us and then kut got pissed at my friend for grabbin me um same guy I was flirtin with and sittin by.AND. me and kut over aim once I was Xtremely depressed and I said I don’t wana talk to you and that’s when I started the cutting. Then he never got on for over a week then he finally did and I was So SORRY he forgave me but wanted to know what was wrong I don’t know what I said my friend was helping me shes the only one who knows my episodes and how much I cut. And inbetween all this theirs him ignoring me and us flirting and hating and talking and not. He wont even talk over aim well 2 words to every 20 of mine? I don’t know what can I do what happened. One person I didn’t know and 2 of my friends said he was a jerk Im just so confused.what do I do? does he love me as a friend or best friend or ramantic? ..or does he hate me?i asked him if he loved me he said yes but 3rd. ive known him my whole life.
13/f
I'm sorry but your question made absolutely no sence, and I could not understand it.
If you re-type it correctly, I will GLADLY help you out.
Again Sorry, and thanks for the asking me in my inbox ! :)
My best friend fucked my brother when i asked her not to. Do i have a right to be mad at her? Or am i over reacting?
Yes, you have a right to be mad at her. You told her not to, and she still did. No, you're not overreacting.
Hello. I'm 14 years old and I have never gotten drunk or high. Most of the girls that I know all go out partying with boys, and I feel like such a loser because I don't do anything and they have all these guy friends and I have maybe like 3 really good guy friends who I hang out with. Is this normal? I mean how old were you people when you first got drunk? I know I'm so gay for writing this, but it really bothers me. I'm really afraid of being like 17 and staying in every weekend reading a book by myself because I have no friends. omg i know how gay this sounds i'm sorry!
When I first got drunk I was 13. Me and my friends started partying REALLY early, since we knew a lot of older people. At the age of 13, I was partying with people from the ages of 11-18. I've never gotten high, or tooken drugs and I probably never will.
There's nothing wrong with staying in on a saturday reading a book, but I think you should become more social. Don't go out every weekend, but have fun.
You can still go out and have fun and drink, but do it in moderation. It's not everything it's cracked up to be. It's a lot of fun while it lasts, but you have the after morning hangover. Also, you do a lot of stupid things while you are drunk.
Drinking at a young age causes your liver to become damaged at a much faster rate then if you were older. And getting high fries brain cells, and many other things.
So, therefore you don't need to get drunk or high to be " cool " or " have fun. "
Do what you want to do.
Hope I helped!
if i have unlimited texting
and i send pictures from my phone
to my email
does it cost still
or is it including in the unlimited?
It doesn't cost money. I think the people answering below me got it mixed up. You mean that you send pictures from your phone to your email, which you check on a actual computer, right? If so, then you're not connecting to the internet, and there's no extra charge.
Hope I helped?!
15/f
omggg. ok me and my one friend pranked phone called, her friend, and shes kinda my friend too, and it was only twice. and all we said was hey its these two boys, who she used to like. and so she got like all mad and went and told this big bitch everyone hates. and i was like sheeesh. who cares. we've never done it to you before, it was just twice. like yeah ok, i can see if we did it like 20 times. but shheesh, twice?
what should i do? i mean obviously im not gonna call her anymore, but like they keep annoying us about how we prank phone called her. what should we say?
oh and by the way, the big bitch she got to yell at us, has like no life, and all she does is yell at people, because no one lieks her. so yea
I would just forget about it. You said you don't talk to this girl anyways, and the girl that's yelling at you has no life and no friends. So it shouldn't be a big deal. She's dramatic and totally overreacting. It was just prank calling. So if someone yells at you again, either ignore it or tell them to get a life since everyone in the world prank calls people and she just needs to get over it.
my friend and i were at a party. she has a boyfriend of over a year now, but she seems to flirt with every guy she sees. there was this one guy at the party who has liked her for awhile so people kind of made them hug. nothing wrong with hugging. but then she started to act differently around him and to me, everything she did is almost like cheating on her boyfriend. later on, her cousin invited her and i to sleepover at his house with his friends (my mom said no, so her mom didnt let her either). the thing is, she REALLY wanted to sleepover. i think she wanted to be with that guy all night. so, do you think i should just ignore it and let her do what she wants, or should i tell her boyfriend?
Well technically, she's not actually cheating. But, if what she's doing really makes you feel that you need to tell her boyfriend about it, then do. But, first I would talk to her about it. Be like, " why wouldn't you tell anyone at the party you have a boyfriend, I understand that you want to have your fun, but you have been going out with this boy for over a year, and do you honestly want to treat him like this. Are you just doing this for attention? What's the deal? "
Either she likes this other boy, or she just wants the attention. So do what you'd like to do. Hope I helped, and good luck!
I asked my best friend who I trust everything with if she thinks I'm a slut. In the past she's said no but I asked her to please be honest with me yesterday and answer me the truth. So she said yes, she also said it was very very hard for her to say. I told another friend what was said and he said that if she was a real freiend she would understand and not think i was a slut. He also said if not, there is one good thing to come out of it; I found out that she wasnt a true friend.
So what do I believe? That she did the right thing telling me truthfully that she thinks I am a slut? Or she did the wrong thing in thinking that of her best friend?
She's always been there for me but now I'm confused.
I feel like I can't tell her anything now without feeling like I'm driving her away. She said it doesnt make her like me any less though and that it's my decision.
Can anyone help me?
You belive your friend. You asked her to tell you truthfully, and she did! Don't get mad at her or think she isn't your best friend because she had enough back bone to actually tell you the truth. I always thought that best friends told you the truth, no matter if it's what you wanted to hear or not. She even said it doesn't make her like you any less. So stay best friends with her, because you don't want to loose that. Oh and fake friends are the ones who tell you everything you want to hear... Just a thought
Hope I helped ?
my best friend max told me a huge secret about himself a long time ago and i swore not to tell anyone. i messed up big time by telling steven because steven has a big mouth sometimes. a few days ago i was talking to max and i told him that i really dont like steven because hes annoying me a lot. then max told steven that i think hes "gross". he was just kidding of course but what if steven gets mad and decides to tell max the secret i told him a long time ago as like payback or something. that would guarantee max hating me forever. what do i do? help!!
Tell Max that you told only one person, and that you are deeply sorry. But you have to make sure you tell Max about it before Steven does. But you should have thought about the consequenses before you told Steven. Best friends don't tell other people a huge secret. Sorry, and good luck. Hope everything works out well.
EDIT!:
You could talk to Steven about it, make sure he doesn't tell him about it. But if you think at all that Steven might even be considering telling Max, then just tell Max the truth. Do whatever you feel is right.
hey, what are some really good graduation gifts? i am invited to three graduation parties one day after another and two of the girls know each other, so i can't get all three of them the same gift. i don't have any pictures with any of them cause my camera broke like, five yeras ago. friendship bracelets seem silly because i know one day i'll end up taking it off and never putting it back on cause i'll forget about it / it will get old. any other ideas? thanks!
Usually, everyone I know gives money. Something between 10-20 dollars is good.
Although this is long, I dont know where to turn and would appreciate any responses. Thanks.
Hi everyone. I'm 13/f and my best friend is 14/m.
Well, he moved here last year and his old school was kind of bad, but we clicked right away, I helped him fit in, so to speak (even though I'm not the most popular), and now he's the most popular guy in our school, by most people's "standards."
I didn't think he'd done anything bad at his old school, and I still don't.
But, as I've been becoming "closer" to him I've been finding out things like, he seems to have a girlfriend just to "do things" (not bad, that I know of - just like kissing) with her. When I first found out he kissed his girlfriend I cried- I know it sounds pathetic, but he seems to go out with girls who have NO redeeming qualities, and now he's going out with a "sl**" (I hate to say that, but most people think so.)
But she's not the worst. One other girl in our school is really bad, does drugs (well, it's a rumor) and is the sl***iest. She's probably done really bad things with guys.
Well, I feel horrible about this - and I'm still guilty - but, I found out someone's email password from my grade, and happened to see an email that said "____(the girl) got down on her knees for ______ (my bff), just like i did with _____ (some other kid) and started sucking away. But no one's mad at her and they're mad at me."
I bawled for a half-hour, because I couldn't believe that he would do this with someone/let her do it! I just still can't believe it, and I don't know if it was someone else but it is a pretty uncommon name (my bff's) - and I can't ask/tell anyone, because then theyll ask how I knew and I can't tell them I was on someone else's email! (I feel horrible - never again.)
My best friend seemed so nice when I met him. He seemed like such a good boy, he does well in school and has an amazing family but I don't think they know he's like this! I didn't even know! although it's becoming more apparent recently.
I just don't know where to turn. I can't believe he would do that. It's so shallow and DISGUSTING for an 8th grader! (I know lots of people do now - but I really thought he was waaaaay above that. that's gross, and he doesn't even hang out with her.)
I'm having a really hard time dealing with this. I can't even look at him anymore. I don't want to even associate with him! But he's still my best friend, so I can't just leave him like that - esp. when I don't know details.
I just can't believe it. I'm in such a state of shock. You might not know how I feel, but thanks for any advice you give.
I'm really grateful because I don't know who else to ask about this - thank you sooo much for your responses.
-Disappointed
You're acting like such a drama queen, and TOTALLY overreacting. He's a boy, he's going to get a blow job or kiss girls. This is not considered a bad or wrong thing. Also, its none of your business that he's done that and you SHOULDN'T be crying over it. This doesn't make him a bad person, and it has nothing to do with his family or grades. Get over it! While reading this I felt a need to punch you in your face because of how naive and drama queen-ish you are. Don't ask him about it, its not your place to. You're making this a way way way bigger deal then it ought to be.
i sit next to this boy in my science class. Over the year we started to get really close. We talk all the time and we bascilly know everything there is to know about each other. We fight like brother and sister and our personalities really click i guess. During the year he had a girlfriend, whom he just recently broke up with. Everyone says that we should go out. I met his parents and even his parents think we should. We just make eachother happy. I just found out that he broke up with his girlfriend for me. Now his ex is basiclly out to get me.He hasnt asked me out cause he is waiting untill he can do it in person and we are alone, and im think thats when we are in Washington D.C next week. I cant think of this boy as anything more then a friend. I feel really bad cause he's really funny and nice and i do like him alot, but not like that. And to top it all off, i like his bestfriend. I dont want to hurt the boy i sit next to, but how do i tell him i like his bestfriend? =[ But what i dont understand is that i have so much more in common with the boy i sit next to in science then i do with his friend, and im just so confusedd. and i dont know what to do.
Try it out with him, the boy you sit next to. You two have so much in common so it would be a nice relationship. Sometimes love starts out as a friendship, not saying you are going to love eachother or anything. But don't tell him you like his best friend, its one thing you need to learn about guys. If the girl they like likes their best friend, he will never talk to you or his best friend again. Hope I helped !
0hKay ;; So.
My Name Is Rachel && I Am Ultraaa Cool !
I'm Like ,,, WAY Popular.
Like ,,, Seriously . OhKay ;;
But See ;; I've Got This Friend ,,,
That Is Also Pretty Popular ...
But She's Not As Popular As Me !!!
But Anyway;; She Told My Crush That I Liked Him;;
Although I Told Her Not To !!!
She Said That She Thought He Liked Me Too ...
She Said That He Asked Her If I Liked Him ...
AND SHE SAID YES !!!
I Hate Her !!! ;;;
I Told Her That I Hated Her ,,,
Infront Of Everyone !!!
[[[Yes I Am Cool Like That]]]
And She Teared Up And Didn't Say Anything ,,,
Then Everyone Like ;;;
GLARED At MEEEE !!!
When I Was The One That Was Betrayed !!!
I Heard That He Was Going To Ask Me Out (YAY)
When He Found Out That I Liked Him!!!
=]]]]]]
But , What Should I Do To Her?
Because ;;; What She Did Is Not Right ;;;
I Want To Get Her Back!
UGH!
THANKS !!! :]
;;;;
LOVE, LEENA !!!
First off -- you seem like an arrogant bitch. What she did wasn't right, but she helped you out, she did you a favor. She did something you were to scared to do yourself! Why would you want to get your best friend back? People tell people secrets everyday about someone, maybe yourself, and you wouldn't know it. Get used to someone telling a guy you like them, its normal, and happens to everyone. and what you did to her was totally uncalled for, you drama queen.
p.s -- cool & popular people don't type like that.
these boys in my grade are really jerky and really hurt my feelings. It makes me very upset! I don't know what to do anytime they get the chance to insult me they DO. I ask them nicley to stop and theyu say no. I've told adult sand they talked to them but then it gets bad again. So NOTHING at this point is working. ANy advice? thanks=]
Well, if this were me I would joke with them back. Joke about their penis size (depending on your age), just act like it doesn't bother you, and warn them you have means things to say about them too. Or if they get really mean kick them in the balls, and be like opps looks like I can joke about you having no balls now, or like wow I didn't feel anything, you must be small. I know this sounds funny but that will deffinatly shut then up. Hope I helped.
were 13~now my bff just told me she had sex when she was 10!!!!he's still her bf~they still have sex~i told them both tht their crazy well in different words~she will get sent to an orphanage if her parents find out~they said befor tht they would if she ever did befor she moved out~so she says not to tell anyone~i still never had sex but im not going to IM ONLY 13
I don't really know what your question is. If you feel that what she did is wrong then you just can't help it, you can stick to your opinion but she's allowed to have her own too. Although I do think 10 is extemely young to be having sex and so is 13 its her body and she has to deal with the consequiences. Just for your friends sake don't tell anyone. Stick to what you believe and don't keep telling her she's dumb or crazy (if you are) because then she's going to get mad at you for getting involved and say its none of your business.
When I got off the bus today, my best said, "God, my mom got on my nerves last night." And I asked her what she did and she's like, "She was saying how I don't need to hang around the popular people and be in cliques and talk about people and stuff." And I said, "So she just randomly said that? Haha, why'd she say it?" Right after I said that, my mom drove up so I had to go. I called her about 45 minutes ago and I said, "So, what were you saying at the bus stop?" And she's like, "Uhh, I can't talk about it. They're here." And I said, "Um, what? WHO'S here? Ughhh, what were you talking about after school?" And she's like, "I gotta go. Bye." We said bye and she hung up after that. A few minutes later she texted me and said, "My mom was right next to me!!" And I sent something back and I said, "Oh, sorry. :[ I didn't know." I don't understand why she won't tell me anything, though. We normally tell each other EVERYTHING. If she's not telling me...do you think it's about me or something? Ahhhh! I don't know. Her mom told her to stop hangout with whoever it was that she was talking about it. What do I do?!?!
It may not be about you but I know if it was me in that situation I wouldn't want to talk about it infront of my mom. Maybe your friend thought her mom would get mad if she knew she told anyone about their talk. It's probably not about you, im sure she will tell you sooner or later.