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Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.
I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "
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ok i really need your advice columnists:
I have ben goin out with this amazing guys for almost 4 months.The problem is, my friend who is in like all of his classes, flirts with him all the time! Its not that im jealous, im just scared of looing him =[ I always tell my friend to back off, but it doesn't work, it fot to th point where i started crying on the phone on 3 way with my best friend and my boyfriend. What should i dooo?
I'm realy upset and confused =[
please help, FASTT!
thanks again =]
Let your boyfriend know how much you care about him and that it's really making you mad that she's flirting with him. Since you aren't getting through to her, then he needs to do something about it. Something really close to that just happened to me. Me and my boyfriend [of 6 months] were doing great, and I started talking to his best friend.. I started to like his friend and ended up telling both of them how I felt. Me and my b/f ended up breaking up.. but then I realized that I really do love my boyfriend more than his friend and now we're back together. So make sure that your boyfriend knows how much you care about him and how much you love him (without seeming crazy obbsessed) and just have fun with him. Because you have to prove to him that you're better than the other girl and you're what he really wants.
[♥]Callie[♥]
My best friend just got a new boyfriend last week. this guy is okay, but he can be such a jerk. he is really just using her for the physical stuff. lfor example he was saying "we should hook up tonight" and of course she did. i am scared for her and i don't think this guy really likes her. but she likes him so much i don't know what to do. i want to talk to her about it but i don't know what to say. please help me :/
most likely if you tell your friend how you feel she's not really gonna care. but once she realizes it, don't be all "i told you so" .. be there for her because she's gonna need someone to talk to. just tell her that he's a jerk and she deserves better than the way he treats her.
hope i helped !
[♥]Callie[♥]
i need teens to answer this only please!!
anyway so i have this perverted frien who likes to look at you know pictures and sites and stuff of women and he is only like 15. He is my really good friend but he is getting really perverted. I don't not want to be with him and i've already talked to him about his "habit" what should i do?
by "i dont not want to be with him" do you mean? maybe i just read it wrong or something... but anyways.. hes a guy and you cant really do much about it. i mean... boys will be boys! hell grow out of it sooner or later, but for now just ignore whatever he says.
-- KALIE
here is goes ...
i have a guy friend and he tells me what him and his gf do when theyr home alone ... and hes telling a lot of other people. well it wasnt that many people but it was people with "big mouths" and im also like good friends with his gf... i dont know if i should tell her what hes doing ... because its really none of my business and i dont want to see her reputation to get hurt. or should i talk to him and tell him to stop telling people ??? if i told one of them would the other get mad at me???ugh i feel like im being torn betwenn 2 friends!!!! HELP!
14/female
tell him to stop and also tell your friend that hes saying stuff and you didn't know if it was true/didnt know if she wanted people to know. she should thank you for caring about her rep instead of get mad at you!
XO KALIE
If a friend is doing idiotic things that are endangering her health, how far must you go to stop them before it becomes "nagging"? Urge them to change their ways once? Twice? Get other friends and gang up on them? In the opinions of the great Advicenators, when do such actions go past the point of being helpful and instead become merely annoying and likely to irritate the person you're trying to help?
tell someone with more power (couldnt think of the right word) over her, like her parents. if its really dangerous then you shouldnt stop doing it. it might seem annoying to your friend but it could save her life depending on what shes doing.
XO KALIE
Im gay and I dont know how to tell my family. I overheard that my dad will kill someone in the family if he found out they were gay. I feel horrible. I know that my whole family would hate me. I already messed everything up with half of my friends. If any of my friends find out im gay no one will want to be near me. They'll hate me. Half of my friends already hate me from something a while ago. I feel horrible. I told one of my friends and they told me that they will always be my friend. I love her so much. I dont want to lose my friends. How do I tell them?
theres no way to tell them that will make them happy. you cant be something that youre not. stop pretending and dont be scared to be yourself. your parents have to accept you and they will love you no matter what. and if your friends will just drop you like that then they arent worth having anyway, they arent good friends. judgemental. if you already told one friend then think of how you told her and talk to her about how to tell your other friends.
XO KALIE
Im 15.I have 2 crushes. 2 huge crushes. Im really confused. I like this girl. I really like her. But I have feeling for this guy to. I dont know. I've dated the girl before. I was at one point best friends with the guy. I dont know which to choose. I dont know if im gay or if im straight. I dont even know. I know that the girl likes me. I know that the guy is gay. Im so confused. Dose anyone know should I choose the girl or the guy? I need advice.
you didnt really give too much information on the crushes. its okay to like both of them. youre either bi-sexual or really confused right now. think of who you would want to fool around with more or who you enjoy being with or who you think you can have a relationship with that will last!
XO KALIE
ohh and btw you didnt say so im guessing that your a guy!
wellllllllll..... i moved here last year, and everybody hated me, they didnt want a new kid, the girl who is now my best friend was the only one who gave me a chance, but the problem is, she is really popular and her friends hate me, and she has had to choose who to stay whith when she is with me because they just bug her about it, i feel reallly bad, What do i do
why wouldnt they like you? i mean it sound like they didnt give you a chance. talk to your best friend now and see why they dont like you.
XO KALIE
My friend is mad at me. The details don't really matter but my main problem is I think she's going to tell my social studies teacher that I didn't help with other project. That is not true but she can be a real bitch sometimes and it's not under her to do something like that. I helped her find most of the information and pick out different things for our project I just couldn't put it together. How can I keep her from telling my teacher that I didn't help? Oh I don't really care if she's mad at me because she's a bad friend anyway.
what shes doing is pretty immature and snichey! very childish! talk to your teacher before she does. tell your teacher "I did most of the work on the project and _____, being mad at me, might tell you other wise. im not lieing, ____ is. i dont want to get a bad grade on this project because of a stupid arguement and a lie."
XO KALIE
This happened about a month ago, but it still bothers me. I was going out with this guy, we'll call him George. I didn't really like him that much, so I broke up with him after a month and a half. He acted like he was so heart broken, he even sent me a text saying "I'm trying to hard not to cry, I love you so much, I'm going to miss you." But later that day he asked out someone who I thought was my best-friend. I didn't find out about it until the next day when he starte rubbing it in my face saying "please don't be mad at me or her" and all this other shit. She tried to hide it from me because she didn't want any drama. I contronted her about it and this big argument erupted ending with her and I not being friends anymore.
To this day he still is staring at me as I pass him in the hall way and freaks out when he see's me outside of school.
She broke up with him 3 weeks later, and I honestly think she was just going out with him to get closer to her ex-boyfriend that just so happens to be his best friend.
It bothers me that someone I thought was my best friend just stabbed me in the back like that, not caring at all.
What should I do to make this stop bothering me?
Sorry if this is kinda confusing..
something like that isnt just going to vanish, its still gonna be a problem. if you dont want to be friends with her anymore then dont. if you want your friendship back then start talking to her again about how stupid you guys were for going out with him, and how stupid it was to lose a friendship over him!
XO KALIE
One day, lets just say "Bob", he wrote me a note saying 'hey, and somehow we got into a sexual conversation. He was asking me ?'s such as, who did you make out with and did you ever give head? Later that week, we started talking online alot. We started liking each other. While all this happening, he had a long term girlfriend, although they broke up about 9 or 10 times. They broke up about 2 weeks ago, and have stayed broken up. I talked to a few people and they said that he might be trying to get a fast fuck. They said this because it was a little weird that he just now started talking to me. Before this we never spoke. Do you think that he is being truthful or is he trying to use me? (hes called me several times and has asked me to hang out)
well any advice would be helpful. thanks
it sounds like he might be useing you yeahh, but i wouldnt have noticed it unless someone pointed it out... so just talk to him if you want just dont get to caught up in him and make it serious. try and stay at the 'just friends' level.
XO KALIE
Ugh, my huge winter dance is in a few weeks (about 3) and I asked this kid i dont know too well but i mean i talk to him everyday jus sayin Hi or somethin. well, I asked him at 10:57 and then he didnt answer. then at 11:23 i asked if he was there nd he didnt answer (this is all online) then an hour later i saw he went away and then came back. so i IMed him nd asked if he saw what i said. here was the convo when he came back
him: yeah but im leavin soon im readin some stuff on a few sites then goin upstairs what ya need ?
me: did you see what i asked you earlier?
him: yes
me: and .. lol
him: .... ill get bac to u
he's probably goin to make me wait a really long time and i really need to find a date fast because tickets go on sale until wednesday. then they are unavaliable. i dont want him to keep me waiting to the point that i wont find a date. what do i do? do i tell him i dont want to go with him any more( thats weird). do i wait it out? what do i do?!?
wait... he has to think, and for some guys that takes a really long time! lol! jp!
XO KALIE
I just got out of a relationship w/ a guy that I didn't talk to much before we started dating. He was a fun guy and I asked him to a dance and we got closer from there. Well, we broke up over a month ago, and he hasn't said anything to me at all really. He's smiled at me, but it's rare. I do want to keep a friendship with him even though he broke up with me. Should I talk to him first, or should I be patient and let it come...or tell him I miss talking to him? What would you do?
definatly try to get a friendship back together! but be patient about it. if you put yourself out there and try to talk constantly right away hell assume you want to get back together. especially if you say you miss talking to him. i mean yeahh eventually say that but not right away. be like we used to have so much fun together. or we used to talk soo much. or omigosh it seems like i havent talked to you in forever! tell him that you really want to start talking again and become friends. and it helps alot if you just have random convos online too!
XO KALIE
i have a friend who moved here last february & we have become really good friends. i mean really close...we can talk to each other about things that i don't think i could even tell most people. i just feel like i am missing something, because i don't know about her past. i know she has a dad, stepmom & stepsister (her stepmom has been married to her dad for only a little over a year but they are luckily very close). however, i have no idea what happened to her real mom. she has never mentioned her ever...i don't know if she's dead, if her parents are divorced, or what. it never use to bother me, but now that we are so close i just feel like i should know something. i know that she proabably has never mentioned her for a reason (she might be sad or angry perhaps?) but as her close friend i feel like i should be able to know somehting. do you think i should bring it up? if so how would you go about doing that (and if something bad happened with her mom i really don't want her to get upset or angry). do you think it is appropriate for me to say/ask anything at all? thanks!
when you are talking about 'moms' in general, bring it up. if something bad happened that shes sad about then be there for her and have a shoulder to cry on. make sure she knows that you are there for her and you are curious about her family. youre right that she probably has a reason for not telling you, but maybe she just didnt know the right time to tell you. its not something you randomly talk about. i dunno maybe her moms not dead or there was a tragic argument, maybe she just dislikes her mom and thats it... who knows?!
XO KALIE
Me and my bro are starting a skate squad and we desperatly need a name for it. I thought about the initials of each member but it dosnt spell anything. so we need a name that isnt corny, stupid, geeky, childish ect. i also need an individual name for myself, i want something that says girly, boyish, skater, anxe. But i cant tink of sumthin that fits that descirption.
so if you have ideas for the squad name or my individual name it would be great. i need advice.
thanks and HaPpY nEw YeAr!!
~sk8er chick
watch that one episode of THATS SO RAVEN where corey wants to be on the "x-squad". they have a whole bunch of names in that show.
XO KALIE
15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.
5 for anything.
i dont think thats pathetic. everyone has their time when they start dating and its different for everyone. plus boys at this age can be hard to find one who actually acts his age! lol!
XO KALIE