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flirting friend
ok i really need your advice columnists:
I have ben goin out with this amazing guys for almost 4 months.The problem is, my friend who is in like all of his classes, flirts with him all the time! Its not that im jealous, im just scared of looing him =[ I always tell my friend to back off, but it doesn't work, it fot to th point where i started crying on the phone on 3 way with my best friend and my boyfriend. What should i dooo?
I'm realy upset and confused =[
please help, FASTT!
thanks again =]
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you shouldnt worry about it at all if your boyfriend isnt.. if he isnt flirting back and he doesnt show intrest in him then dont mkae it something its not.. but if he is adn he does seem intersted.. go and flirt with some other random guy and see how he feels about it and if he doesnt do anything then you kno he isnt the one.. so why keep it going..
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i think you should stop it and by that i mean tell your friend u arent my best friend or my ANYTHING if your gonna keep flirting with him and hurting me and if she says your jealous be like im no jealous(name) i dont want to lose him and your just making it worse for me and making my chance of losing him more..so just stop..i hope i helped:)
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Alright i`m not gunna give you some bullshit answer. i`m telling you the truth, if you don`t like it then i`m sorry. you are jealous, yelling and making the problem bigger isn`t going to do anything. your boyfriend is going to start labling you jealous weather you like it or not. your probably going to lose your friend if u keep asking her to stop talking to him. HES ALOUD TO HAVE GIRL THAT ARE FRIENDS! no ones trying to steal him away from you. soo get over it move on and let them be friends. you can`t even prove that shes flirting with him. "don`t believe everything you hear" half of the shit you heard is false info. soo don`t take it to heart. you have a problem and its called jealousy and you can`t admit it. really its no fun creating drama for youself to be in. soo drop the act of jealousy and just spend more time with your guy. the more you get jealous the more your pushing him away.
sorry its the truth!!
hopefuly you didn`t take it the wrong way and it can help you.
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Let your boyfriend know how much you care about him and that it's really making you mad that she's flirting with him. Since you aren't getting through to her, then he needs to do something about it. Something really close to that just happened to me. Me and my boyfriend [of 6 months] were doing great, and I started talking to his best friend.. I started to like his friend and ended up telling both of them how I felt. Me and my b/f ended up breaking up.. but then I realized that I really do love my boyfriend more than his friend and now we're back together. So make sure that your boyfriend knows how much you care about him and how much you love him (without seeming crazy obbsessed) and just have fun with him. Because you have to prove to him that you're better than the other girl and you're what he really wants.
[♥]Callie[♥]
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ok you just need to make it clear to your friend that she is hurting you and you sick of what she is doing.The exact thing happened with my boyfriend almost all of my friends flirted with him and i got sick of it and so did he.so we 3 way called all of my friends that did that and we both told them off.but you have already triend that so i would just sit down with your friend and explain what she is doing to you and your boyfriend.And if your boyfriend really loves you he wont leave you for one of your friends.:)
hope things go good,any more questions just ask!!
moonsthunder
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