My best friend just got a new boyfriend last week. this guy is okay, but he can be such a jerk. he is really just using her for the physical stuff. lfor example he was saying "we should hook up tonight" and of course she did. i am scared for her and i don't think this guy <b>really</b> likes her. but she likes him so much i don't know what to do. i want to talk to her about it but i don't know what to say. please help me :/
duudee_advicer answered Monday November 13 2006, 7:59 pm: I was in the same sitch.
I won't go into details, but theres not a whole lot you can do.
Most likley she'll be adamant about this situation because its a new boy, and whenever you get a newboy you want to hold onto him right?
Well, trying to convince her he's bad news could very easily put your friendship at stake.
I recommened talking to her once or twice about it. Maybe saying "____ how do you think _____ really feels about you considering he asked you to hook up on day one?" or something along those lines.
Other then that, let her learn from her mistakes but always remain by her side.
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