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wellllllllll..... i moved here last year, and everybody hated me, they didnt want a new kid, the girl who is now my best friend was the only one who gave me a chance, but the problem is, she is really popular and her friends hate me, and she has had to choose who to stay whith when she is with me because they just bug her about it, i feel reallly bad, What do i do
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well stick by her because if she wasnt going to be your friend she wouldnt have talked to you in the first place. she must not care that her friends dont like you. and if they dont except you who cares. as long as she likes you it doesnt matter. and if you feel like she may stop being your friend because of her other friends then try doing some of the things they like to do. but your best friend likes you because you are differnt have some thing to offer that they dont have and is a great person all around.and she stops being your friend because of them then she wasnt really your friend and ask her to stand up to them and tell them to leave you alone you are the same as them and should be treated equal. good luck
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It's really up to her, but if you feel like your friend is a really good friend, you'll want to talk to her about it. If she chooses to stay with her other friends, then she's not worth it.
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Her friends arent her true friends if they are making them choose between you or them,if they cared about your bestfriend they would not make her do that.Have they ever hung out with you?maye you should ask your bestfriend why they dont like and maybe all you guys can hang out.I started at a new highschool last year and made a couple of good friends but when i got a bf they told me they didnt like him and it was ether him or them so i broke up with him realizing true friends wouldnt do that even if she doesnt choose you ,youll be fine join a club!theres always alot of people in those and they would like the same thing you did, be more outgoing.I think no ones given you a chance and that making others choose who there friends are is very immature.
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friends can be tough .. if she's really your true friend, she'll pick you. although she shouldn't have to pick .. i would first try to find out why they 'hate' you and try to get them to like you. i know i know that sounds bad, but hey that's how you make friends. if for some stupid reason your friend chooses her old friends over you, don't be upset. you're better off without her - TRUST ME. that too sounds so cliche, but it's the truth. if she doesn't pick you, screw her .. you'll find someone better. and if she does pick you, make sure it's for the right reasons. maybe you should point out to your friend that she doesn't have to choose she can be friends with her old friends AND you. if her old friends ditch her cause she hangs out with you, then screw them too =) haha good luck babee!! ♥ :D
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You should first ask your best friend why they hate you? because thats stupid, Not giving somone a chance. Your friend shouldnt have to choose. She should be able to be friends with anyone she wants to. Without having to deal with crap. Those other kiddos sound really immature.If you ask your friend why the kids hate you, and then atleast try to work it out with them? it kinda makes no sence how somone could just hate somone for no reason..
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why wouldnt they like you? i mean it sound like they didnt give you a chance. talk to your best friend now and see why they dont like you.
XO KALIE
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