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friends vs boy friend
This happened about a month ago, but it still bothers me. I was going out with this guy, we'll call him George. I didn't really like him that much, so I broke up with him after a month and a half. He acted like he was so heart broken, he even sent me a text saying "I'm trying to hard not to cry, I love you so much, I'm going to miss you." But later that day he asked out someone who I thought was my best-friend. I didn't find out about it until the next day when he starte rubbing it in my face saying "please don't be mad at me or her" and all this other shit. She tried to hide it from me because she didn't want any drama. I contronted her about it and this big argument erupted ending with her and I not being friends anymore.
To this day he still is staring at me as I pass him in the hall way and freaks out when he see's me outside of school.
She broke up with him 3 weeks later, and I honestly think she was just going out with him to get closer to her ex-boyfriend that just so happens to be his best friend.
It bothers me that someone I thought was my best friend just stabbed me in the back like that, not caring at all.
What should I do to make this stop bothering me?
Sorry if this is kinda confusing..
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You have every right to be annoyed with your friend and annoyed at this guy. I'm annoyed for you. But being mad for long at your friend isn't going to do a lot. Do you miss her and would you still be friends if this had never happened or was this just the straw that broke the camel's back? If you miss her, talk to her about it in a calm way. She may have thought that you wouldn't have cared that she said yes and was maybe too consumed with her own feelings for her ex to consider the situation. Yelling and being mad after a certain amount of time is going to do more harm to you, (headaches, lack of sleep, bad mood) than it will anyone else. Try and let go of it and think about the big picture of your entire life and all that you want to do and all the things you'll experience. That may help. Also, try talking to her. That may clear up any bad feelings.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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HONESTLYY.
you should forget both of them
first of all. the guy seems more like a girl than a man anyways. i mean."I'm trying to hard not to cry, I love you so much, I'm going to miss you.".. come on now. GIRLS dont even do that. thats a level of femanemity im not willing to talk about. lol and about the girl. yeah i know it sucks to lose a friend like that but maybe you didnt lose her ya know. i mean IF she really did like him maybe she just didnt want you getting mad at her. andd if she did just use him to get closer to her ex than i mean you cant blaim her. i think you should forget the guy and atleast talk to the girl calm and rashionally. =))
rememberr. chickss be4 dicks.
sorry thats the GAYEST saying in the world but i mean.. work with me here.
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something like that isnt just going to vanish, its still gonna be a problem. if you dont want to be friends with her anymore then dont. if you want your friendship back then start talking to her again about how stupid you guys were for going out with him, and how stupid it was to lose a friendship over him!
XO KALIE
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No I totally understand what ou are saying. And about your friend...that is the thing girls do...i mean look at us! We are so mean to eachother. Just dont let it bother you okay? That is the best way to handle things. Especially with a guy you dont like anymore! So dont worry about it but I know it sucks when someone really likes you and tells you that he is like in love with you then stabs you in the back. Its not as much of ur friends fault as it is him...just let it slide by okay?
Love you!
exx and ohh
>>--Whitney-->
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