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Hey there, Caden. I have a question.

That question is, if you claim on your site you know a lot about girls, how come I can't ask you about sex? And how come I can't ask about instruments, either?

Anyways, I also came here to ask you a question about labels.

Labels are quite possibly the most evil thing to infect the teen mind since late 70's porno. What the fuck, Caden? You are goth? I thought it was a 'poser' thing to claim you're a goth? Then again, I have no idea since I don't believe in labels.

Caden, may I ask you a question about labels? What are they good for?

Of course they're good for making fun of someone, picking someone out of the crowd and possibly belittling them, and of course becoming prejudiced against a certain 'label'

What the hell good is there in a label, Caden? I don't see any proof that they're good for anything besides stereotyping.

People going to these big name brand stores and spending countless amounts of money to be 'in'. They have these massive brands right across their shirts. "Hollister" on a shirt is not individuality, Caden, is it? No, it isn't. You are just some walking advertisement, may you be a billboard for your popularity. Don't support who you choose to support, wear that shirt and that name so you can look 'in style' and be accepted.

You see, Caden. There isn't one damn thing good about labels. They are stereotypes based on outer appearance.

I'm sure you have judged someone based on clothing, Caden, haven't you? You didn't actually get to know that person, you just decided 'hmm, I don't like that outfit, I won't talk to them' Am I damn right? If you say “no”, you're a liar.

Caden, labels lead to bigotry, and that is a road you don't want to travel. Sure, you can be 'in' if you follow labels, but screw being in if you have to be a copy. Being 'in' means lacking originality. You don't want to be a clone, do you Caden? You don't want to be a copy? Do you?

If it's the soul that goes to heaven, Caden, how come it is the outside in which you are judging?

I dont know anything about instruments and my lameass mother forbids me from answering sex questions.

well, i see your point, and i have been concidering leaving behind the labels stuff, and, i dont like to judge people, alot of my friends like hollister, and a&f, it doesnt bother me. The only reason i beleive labels can be good is because it helps you know who you get along better with.

Also, being a goth, doesnt mean not being allowed to wear a certain clothing brand, or not being able to listen to certaing kinds of music. Goth is more than just a lable, its something that grows in a person, originating from depression mostly. Its also a sub-culture. And individuality is a good thing with gothics.

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what time does verizons free minutes start and what time do they end?

9:01pm-5:50am

hope i helped

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Thanks a lot for the 'Favorite Columnists' add. You give really good advice too and I added you as a favorite on my column.

-mystical_breeze
XoXo

Your welcome, and thanks for adding me back.

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HEy caden i added u as a favorite!!!!!!Your really cool and u give great advice!

coolness. Who are you so i can add you back

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i was wonderig if anyone knows wher i can find my family tree online for free

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Im doing a spanish project and I need to know what kind of cultural foods do people in guatemala eat for breakfast?

try this

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yo Caden, do you know any interesting sites with games, cartoons, ect?

www.homestarrunner.com
www.joecartoon.com
Hope I helped♥

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Who are the top ten hottest people on this site? in your opinion

hhmm...

1.Mackenzie {Mackenzie}

2.Nicole {sweetxintoxication}

3.Teza {xo_hollister_babe}

4.Dustin {DustinACU]

3.Lisa {sizzlinmandolin}

4.Kristin {therocketsummer}

5.William {Ultratunaman}

6.? {protossc541}

7.Roxy {OMGitsRoxy

8. Oma {TheHeadHonchoPoncho57}

9.Drew {BEAUTiFULD0RK}

10. Michelle {Kr4z3y_Ch3lly}

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Why don't you answer questions anymore?

I have been caught up in two blogs, and I dont have too much time to be on advicenators. Plus, I feel I need a break from giving advice for a while, giving advice is not my life.

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How do you make links in your bio? You seem to have alot of them.

your text here < / A >

Take out all the spaces except for the one between a and href

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Hey Caden. You seem to be pretty popular here. Can you give me some advice on what I should do to make friends?

You should...
-be yourself.
-be nice to others.
-ask open ended questions.
-ask people about themselves and get to know
them better.
-dont lie or start rumors.
Hope I helped♥
--caden--

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i have a part in a play and i need to be poesessed (weird) anyy tips i rate 5s

I would give the areas around the eyes a dark look, like by makeup. I would make throaty noises when you talk.

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Im getting my hair dyed professionally and its going to cost me about $50. Assuming the hairdresser does a good job, how much should I tip? Thanks.

you should tip $7.50, but if the hairdresser is great, i would say $10.00, and if shes medeocre I would tip up to $5.00 max.

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Hi,
Well isn't pretending to be a police a crime and you can go to law pretending to be a police??
Well then if that's correct how come on Punk'd they have fake police all the time isn't that aganist the law??

The movie is just a movie, but it is a crime to pretend to be a cop

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Caden, don't let people put you down. :D ♥ Teza

I wont. for now on, I am rejecting people who send that stuff to me. thank you for helping. your gods gift to the earth. I am glad I started advicenators, bc if I hadn't, I wouldnt have met people like you who actualy makes people feel better about themselves. your my hero.

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Hey guys, do you know of any good DS games??? Im debating on wether or not i should get Metroid Prime Hunters, or Super Mario 64.
Any other good games would be great. Thanks

Super mario64 rocks. others are
--metios
--feel the magic
--warioware touched

Hope I helped♥
--caden--

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hey caden, youre awesome. what do you think is a good weight for is a 5'6 male? my bf is like 245 lbs and im wondering if its just too much? any experiences or advice? thanks, much love!

umm. it is quite husky, but size shouldnt matter.

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im xomegaroni & you are cool!!!! i read your column haha =) keep up the good work!!!

Thanks

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hey peoples! umm, i waz wondering if anyone had a idea of a fun project... somthing easy and somthing i wont get in trouble for cause its too messy, ya know? pleeez help! irate 5s!!!!!

You could
--Make a collage.
--Get mags and cut out things and glue{or tape} them down to make the ultimate hottie {figures, clothes, hair, legs, ect}
--start a webpage on myspace or on xanga {if you want to add a lot of features, i would reccomend that you talk to my friend Mackenzie, who has been on both of em for a couple of years}
--painings
--Making a comic book
--make a story, guide, or poem
Hope I helped.
--Caden--

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what are some exersizes that i can do at home that REALLY do work? and fast? i rate 5's

You could
--jog in place
--walk up and down a set of stairs multiple times
--sit ups
--push ups
Hope I helped♥
--Caden--

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