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Obviously you're gonna need to be a fan or the show Naruto to answer then.

I'm not exactly sure how to describe this, but I'll try my best.
You know that one show opener that has the song with the lyrics "Fighting dreamer" in it?
Alright, well theres a picture in said show opener of Sasuke and Sakura fighting back to back and it almost looks like his hand is about to wrap around her waist.

Being a fan of the pairing, this has interested me for about two years.

Problem is, I cant find q picture of JUST that anywhere!
Could someone find one for me?

Ok my guy is a big Naruto fan, so if you can tell me what season I can ask him when he gets home. Then I will try to see if I can find a picture of it. Ok here is my e-mail
kahea2018@yahoo.com

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okay, i know that no one's face is perfectly symmetrical, but mine is so different on my left side than my right. my eye like droops down naturally or something and my other eye looks normal, and my eyebrows are different, too. no one has ever told me anything about it and i don't pay attention enough to notice in the mirror but when i see pictures of myself it's so noticeable. it makes me really self-conscious, is anyone else like this? or am i just worrying too much?

haha you don't have to rate this but Paris Hilton's face is lopsided and she's famous :)and people love looking at her. :P So love your self and yes you are too worried, chill baby chill :)

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Freedom of speech is very important and should not be limited, assuming it doesn't offend or hurt others.

How is this relevant/acceptable to today? For example, people in countries without freedom of speech like America have to go through ridiculous things when they do try to speak up or change things. Any specific examples (American, preferably), or anything along those lines..?

I have to write an essay for a scholarship contest about that concept, but I can't think of anything especially moving/that will get me noticed..

Thanks.

Well, I can't offer you any specifics, but there are a lot of people who have been "punished" for their freedom of speech...People who maybe after they say something have their careers sabatoged...people who get put on trial for something they didn't do right before an election so that they can't run because of somehting they may have said that people didn't like. People who are in exile because of standing up for human rights. I would see if you could find some of these stories and talk about how even though there is freedom of speech there are some horrible loopholes. You can talk about how people went through these persecutions and keept speaking out until maybe many years later they were finally allowed certain rights, like the civil rights movement, and how now wether you agree with his politics or not, those same people that were persecuted have given black men the ability to become president, Hillary clinton...if women hadn't have spoken up, a woman could have never been where Hillary is and was trying to get. Saying you agree or disagree with the war in Iraq and what that means in society today, will you get beat up if you are in the wrong crowd and you don't agree with the people you are surrounded by? These are some ideas that came in my head. There is a woman in...Man, I think it's...man it's somewhere in Africa, but she is being "held" in detention (house arrest) for some BS and no one agrees with it, but they are pretty much hoding her until the election is over so that she has no chance of winning...even though the people love her. It's kind of sad :/ I mean pretty much every black leader in this country that has had any type of power has been taken out, especially when they start to preach peace and unity, casue the system is really trying to keep people devided. Also freedom of speech in the school systems and on the radio is not the same as freedom of speech let's say outside in times square NY. That's something you could touch on. I'm sure there are a lot of other types of activits too but you'd have to look them up. :) Hope this helped.

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Well my question is nice and simple.....I have so many pimples on my face and I wanna know how do I get rid of them fast and easy?

I don't know about fast and easy...because it is an internal thing that needs to be solved...but i know shark cartilage works. you can get it at GNC or one of the Vitamin shops. I know it works cause my friend started using it and he had pimples all over his body and they all went away. It's a good healthy vitamin too.

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You know...Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II. Well, I live about 4500 miles away (or about 7200 KM), across the ocean, in The United States of America. I'm just an average U.S. citizen, and I’m only 18 years old. Granted I don't expect to carry on a full fledged conversation with the Queen of England. I would be happy with a handshake and a hello from her or something of those sorts. How on earth could I get to meet Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II? (Mind you, that I’m not exactly overflowing with cash so how could I reasonably meet her? It's my biggest dream to meet her!)

Anything is Possible. I never dreamed I would meet Kanye West or see Angelina Jolie or Taye Diggs or Niles from Fraiser...or any of them! I'm sure people are like dumbfounded when they get a chance to meet Oprah! But people meet her every day. Here is the deal. All you have to do is have a true feeling in your heart, ask the universe to meet her, See your self meeting here (not how you will meet her, just see your self in front of here maybe getting a wink or a hello or what ever you really want...even if it's a conversation) Then accept that it is truth and that you will meet here, then just simply let it go. I have met a lot of famous people in my life so far. :) Just kind of happens, you never know, you might get invited to something, she might be viewing art or you might be able to sing with a choir or something I don't know, what ever you do...the universe will find a way to make it happen. You just gotta trust it, I mean the Mayor of Detroit noticed me in a crowd of people when I was only like 10 haha How did he see my short ass i don't know, but he did and he winked and waved at me haha. You just gotta believe in your self. I'm sure elton john never emagined he would be dubbed a knight by here when he was young but hey it happened! People meet the queen every day and they are just like you, there is no difference. You just gotta accept that!
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Why do people insist on bashing Michael Jackson after he's died? The man lost his life long before he died! Why can't we just let the King of Pop rest in peace now?

I went to Yahoo! Answers to ask a question about Michael Jackson and people just went nuts over him being a child molester and pedophile and how he tried to kill his youngest child (Prince Michael II) called Blanket. They kept talking about how awful he was and I wasn't even asking a question about that!

Why do people insist on this now? It's only hurting the Michael Jackson fans who are trying to deal with this grief. I feel like I can't talk about him positively without someone coming in and saying how he was such a horrible person and deserved to die. I just don't understand why people seem to be trolling about Michael Jackson at this time--when he JUST died! Help me understand?

F**K those haters! Long Live Michael!
haha you don't have to rate me I just wanted to say that!

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is scrawny like someone whose really tall and thin?

They don't have to be tall, they just have to look like if you gave em a light push they would probably fall over hahahaha you know like skin and bones well usually but people use it loosly. Or it could just mean you are considerably smaller than they are, like a big football player guy may say it to his petit girlfriend :) even though she is a good weight for her height, to him she is "scrawny" :)

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Someone said that Michael Jackson had something called Peter Pan Syndrome and I'm just curious why he had that. I understand that it's why he had the children at his house a lot and why he seemed childish in a lot of ways. They even said that's why he had the private amusement park, The Neverland Ranch, created.

What causes this peter pan syndrome and why did Michael Jackson have it? I'm just curious.

People need a chance to be who they are at certain times in their life, like when you were like 12 or 15 if you are that age yet, you probably started wanting to go out with your friends and be independent. When you aren't allowed to do that you kind of rebel and do the Extreme. That is what happened to Michael to the extreme. He NEVER had a childhood, he didn't even have a Teenhood, He barley had an adulthood, so he was trying mentally to have it, look at children who have strick parents, they either go and go crazy sleeping with every guy, getting drunk all the time or doing heavy drugs or they kill themselves....well michale had to live through it...so Peter Pan Syndrome hahaha Peace Long Live Michael!

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Michael Jackson died today and he was only 50 years old. It really took me by surprise, but it wasn't as if I didn't expect it sometime fairly soon. There have been rumors flying around for some time now about his health problems. As a matter of fact, when Michael was on trial, one day he was late because of health problems. Obviously, the judge didn't feel that Michael's health was all that important because he threatened to have Michael Jackson jailed unless he made an appearance in the courtroom. Michael showed up in his pajamas. Does anyone else remember that?

People made it out to seem as if he was faking. Some people even made it seem like he was crazy and would do ANYTHING as he was suddenly "extremely unpredictable" and all. I guess he wasn't kidding or faking about having health problems, huh?

I'm going to miss Michael Jackson. He was a man who set out to hurt no one, but the world seemed hell-bent upon hurting him. Michael Jackson was seriously the King of Pop in so many ways. Maybe he's better off wherever he is since we trashed his good name without even giving him a chance to speak. I choose to believe that he is now seated up in Heaven, seeing God for the first time.

Does anyone feel like me about Michael Jackson or am I alone in this? When I was growing up Michael Jackson was such a big role model. Sure, he was a little weird but he seemed to care and love. I'm really hurt that Michael Jackson is dead :( almost like a large portion of my childhood has been abandoned.

I loved Michael Jackson and so did my entire family and my grandparents. hahaha He will be missed greatly. Don't worry about the haters. There will always be people who hate and people who dont understand. Fact is that fame does stuff to people, you think it's hard dealing with peer pressure at high school, imagine dealing with peer pressure from the entire world! That is what he delt with since he was a kid and that life is the only one he has really ever known. I loved him and his music and I am happy for all the good he did around the world. The love he spread and the message of love. Art comes with excentricity (i hope that's spelled right) that is a part of being an artist, some people just don't get that cause they arent artists and they sure arent gifted! Pray for him to have his peace and you know he heard all of us singing his songs and being happy for what he gave us last night!~

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i'm a 19/f and i'm korean. i'm 5'6", but i love wearing heels, i try to find ones that are only 2 1/2in tall, but i always end up getting ones that are around 3-4 in. i know this is random, but i was just wondering (since koreans/asians in general) are sort of conservative) if 3-4 in heels on a girl is too high/looks bad? thanks all for the advice, i'd love both asian girl and boy opinions, thank you :)

Well I am not Asian. But I do have a lot of Asian friends, mostly guys (Korean, Japanese, Chinese, Filipino, American and Native, etc.) and I have not heard anything but "you look sexy" in my heels and what ever else I was wearing. Truth is that each person is an individual. That's like saying do black me like big butts, yeah some do but most of them will date a woman because she is beautiful and they like her personality. Even if her butt is small. So if you feel confident and sexy in the heels, then that is what you should wear. Even if you meet your dream guy and he says he doesn't want you to wear heels and you really like them ...then you know what hes not your dream guy cause you gotta be free to do what is right for you. As long as you look respectful and sexy then that is all that matters (now if you go out looking like a hoochie I can't blame the guy hahaha) Wear what you feel sexy in and the right guy for you will be there to love you for who you are. :)

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It is 68 outside and 78 in here. Yet I have all the windows open and a fan going (I have no ceiling fans though). I don't understand why it is 10 degrees different outside.

I'm in a 2 bedroom apartment, what can I do to draw cold air in? Thanks.

Maybe you could change to paint color in your room. I don't know what the rules are there but I'm pretty sure that lighter colors keep it cooler. You could put the fan in front of the freezer and let that go for a bit. If it's cooler outside, you should be able to put the fan in front of the window (if you haven't done so) and it should blow in the cooler air. I think wearing something light keeps you a little cooler than being naked (if you do that) like a light cotton wrap or something like that (i don't know if you are a girl or not ) Keeping the fan going at night cause the air is a lot cooler. Maybe get some light weight and light colored curtains to block some of the sun but still allowing air to blow in. That's all I got :)

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I wrote a 455 paged book. What exactly are the steps I would take to get it published?

I am in the process of writing mine right now and I have spoken to some people so I will give you the best info that I can based on what I know so far. I know that it is wise to have someone pre-edit it. It is also a good idea to have a few people read it, different types of people, people who care about you and people who wont sugar coat cause they care so much. Also you want to make sure that you have it formated properly, you may want to look up some manuscript formating tips (they have some at the books stores and on line) I know it has to be 12ft times new roman double spaced, stuff like that. MAKE SURE YOU MAIL A COPY TO YOUR SELF that you aren't going to open, that way it is copywritten BEFORE YOU GO LETTING PEOPLE READ IT or sending them copies (if you have already let people read it just go on from now) Then you can get this book of publishers from amazon.com or borders or barnes and nobles called Guide To Book Publishers, Editors and Literary Agents (I'm pretty sure this is the one but I will let you know for sure if i get to the book store before you) It is a big book full of like all the publishers and what they are looking for and their addresses, and just pretty much start sending it to the people that fit your audience. :) If you can find someone locally that has had a book published you can go to them and they will be able to give you first hand help that would be great. Ask the universe for that. :)

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my skin is ruining my life! i'm really like.. i don't know what the word for it is.. but i overthink everything. something about mind control? well, my skin never used to be this bad, until i started stressing about it so much. i'm constantly worrying about it and doing everything i can to make it better, but i get more and more breakouts everyday. i drink a lot of water, eat healthy, use good face washes, only wash it about twice a day, use lotion and good moisturizes, so don't tell me anything is wrong with my routine. it's all in my head. i just don't know how to just let it be. ugh :/ :/ :/ sometimes i just stay home when i get invited somewhere, because my skin is so bad. bleh!

To add to the previous person, shark cartilage is really good if you are talking about acne. I don't know what the problem is but it sounds like acne. This will have you cleaned from the inside out and really clear it up. If you think stress is adding to it then do some stress relief exercises. Meditation, positive affirmations, visualize your self with clear skin, pray...things of this nature. If your thoughts and words and actions align, you will find a solution. Another good thing to do is tell your body how much you love it, how much you love your face, see your self beyond the physical, see past the blemishes. This will help greatly. And most of all give it some time.
peace

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Im 15 years old and would really like to start writing a book. I don't just want any kind of book but i want a best selling book. I know this is just a dream but i would love for my book to be made into a movie one day. I like fantasy novels, like Eragon, Harry Potter, and Twilight. Before i begin writing, i would like to know what will it take for me to have a best selling book?? Also i would like to know what do you think some good ideas would be for a book. I personally was thinking of maybe something about werewolfs. What do you think?

-thank you

I mean what the previous girls said is exactly it. Just write from the heart and figure out who you want to reach. Then you have to of course learn about writing, First of all just write, get your ideas down, use dreams, that's what i do. Take things you have seen that you thought to your self i could make that better or do better than that. Recreate it in your own way. Figure out what you like and what you don't like in other people's books and do your work based on that. Then when you have some stuff, go to the library and figure out how to really make it professional. From there you just have to find someone to publish you or be willing to be your agent. Being a best seller is just about reaching the audience and people like it, you just never know which book it's going to be, it might be your first it might be your 5th or 10th, you just gotta do it and see where it takes you. If you really want it made into a movie, get with writers and directors, talk about it, meet people, this is how things like this happen, someone reads it and is inspired or the writer goes out and promotes it. But there is no goal that is too big, we all start off as babies and we can all amount to anything beautiful and wonderful. Just believe in your self no matter what happens. Peace.

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http://www.mtv.com/videos/misc/149493/thank-you-denver.jhtml#id=1559349

Does anyone know what song is playing at around 3:51 in the this video while the guy is getting in the cab?

The lyrics go something like this (though I obviously missed a few words): though many trials have come before me like a war now I know why I'm here let your light shine on

I've googled it and had no luck, so I'll ask again, does anyone know it? Thank youuu

I really think it's Farewell June...Shine On, cause they say shine on in the song on the video you put the link for...I couldn't find it anywhere to hear it though...but here is a list of all the songs they played on that show that day:

Episode 1828 (May 16, 2007)
Johnathan Clay, After All
Soular, You Taste You Feel
Taxi Doll, Give You More
Hello Tokyo, Fall Apart
Alex Nackman, Proximity
Howling Diablos, Promiseland
Anne McCue, Shivers
The American Dollar, Raided By Waves
Hem, Well Meet Along the Way
Daniel Cage, Good Times
Amanda Rogers, Love In Our Eyes
Ashtray Hearts, English
Gabriel Mann, When We Are One
Farewell June, Shine On
Josh Zandman, Stay
Hundred Year Storm, 00:01


and here is the website i got that from:
http://www.getrealdenver.com/meet-the-cast/

hope you find it!
peace.

ok, here is a link for it on amazon.com
i guess someone else heard it on real world denver and like it

http://www.amazon.com/1939/dp/B000QQRWP4

and also here is their website:

http://farewelljune.com/

i guess maybe the album is called 1939 hahaha
ok peace

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I got a forward text message a few weeks back & it had a song tune attached to it

The lyrics go;;
"Could it be that we have been this way before. I kno you dont think that I [unknown word]. But hold your breath because tonight will be the night I will fall for you over again. Dont make me change my mind. I wont live to see another day. I swear its true.

If anyone could tell me the song title & who its by, that would be awesome
Thanks in advance [=

Well the artist is Secondhand Serenade and the song is...Fall for you... :)

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i came across this one site

http://www.marscandykills.com

is this true!?
if it is i am really shocked.

I mean I was informed cause I never actually saw a video about it. I would agree with the Razhie girl that you gotta be weary and do more research and not just go with the first thing you see... but you can take steps by getting things that have the little thing on the back that say not tested on animals and enviornmentally safe, and things like made from recycled material. I mean you may not be able to do everything at once, but you can have a nice start. I mean people are gonna do stuff in the world and it may be a challenge to nix all the "bad" people out of your life all at once, but you know every little bit helps.

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okay on the show Paranormal State,
is all that true?
are ghosts really real??

Yes they are...don't have a lot of time to answer, but check out the New Age section at your book store, Borders or Barnes and Nobles. I know people who have seen them, especially after someone close to them passes away. Peace

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Hi. Im 14/f and this Friday im having a few people (like 10 or so) over for a small party celebrating me and my best friends one year of friendship. (I know it sounds really gay but its a good way to get everyone together on the March Break) The only way I can have this is if I pay for all the food and movies and such. I was wonderring what would be some cheap snack ideas that would also be filling enough, as well as what would be a good idea for dinner. I will have about 100$ in total after my next paycheck which is Thursday. Also we want movies that will really scare us, like ones that make you jump the whole way through. Any good scary movie would be great (not really the Saw movies because they are just gore, no real scary features).

I would greatly appreiciate if someone gave me advice for any of these questions or even other ideas like fun things we could do. Thanks alot

I personally think you should ask people to pitch in. You know like if you are going to come, bring something you would like to eat. We did this a lot in college, this way you don't have to worry about people complaining about what you have to eat, cause there will be at least one thing there that they like, and you know that you are going to at least have enough food for everyone there. If you check the sale paper, for like Kroger and Meijer and KMart, a lot of times they are having sales where you can get a 2 liter of soda for like 1. I just went there the other night (K Mart) and they are having a sale until Saturday where you can get coke 10 for $10 it is a great deal- of course you can just get one and it will only be $1. Also, If you have a Dollar Tree in your neighborhood EVERYTHING THERE IS $1. So you can find plastic plates and cups and snacks and soda and stuff and it is all $1 each. As for the movies, I think you should first try to ask around and see if you have any friends that are movie buffs that wouldn't mind lending you like 4 or 5 for the night. If you do your research you should be able to find at least 1 friend or friend of a friend that is a movie buff. Or you can see if anyone you know has Netflix that wouldn't mind letting you get some through them just for the party. You can always buy the soda in advance and put it in the cupboard and it will be fine until the day of the party as long as you don't open it. Also...Popcorn! You get soooo much in a pack and they are not that expensive. You can get that kind of stuff at the dollar store and it is good too. What I would do too is ask around to like family and stuff and see if they have some food they bought that they haven't eaten yet or maybe they started a diet and they can't eat it, and see if they will hook it for you. I.E. maybe they have like a few cans of coke that they don't want or maybe they have a few packs of popcorn they haven't used, or maybe they have a full box and they won't mind giving you like 1 or 2. Now you can get Sour Cream and chives from the fridge section instead of getting the "Sour Cream Dip" and that will save you like 2 or 3 dollars cause they charge you like 3 or 4 dollars for the Dip and they only charge you like 79 cents or maybe 1 or 1.50 for the sour cream with chives and that makes a GREAT dip! Now if you want me to tell you how to make a great bean dip:
Take some Kidney Beans (1 can)
Salsa/Marinara sauce (about 1 cup)
cook all that up on the stove and MIX IT WITH SHREADED CHEESE...OH MY GOD! but make sure that you don't put the shreaded cheese in until you turn the fire off and then mix it, the heat will melt it and this will make a really tasty cheese bean dip. The best thing to do is season it, but you know just do that to taste. Maybe a little salt and peper and if you want to get fancy then do it. Now that is going to make you a nice size dip like a good bowl full maybe 2 bowls if they are medium size, and it will only cost you about (shreaded cheese 8 oz on sale at 2 for $4 =$2 and the beans maybe like $2/3 and the Salsa/marinara on sale 2 or 3$ and regular price $3 or 4...so like 7-10ish). Ok now I know this will help hahaha Peace.

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my legs, hands, and face have a very uneven skin tone and are very splotchy (especially my legs) it looks horrible when i wear shorts or capris, i want to have a good tan and even skin tone by summer, so what can i do to even it out? i already put moisterizing cream on my legs almost every day. Anything else?
(specific brands please not just the name of it like "Dove" because theres like a billion things)
Thanks:)

if you can get some all natural Shea Butter, like right out of the nut...this will be great for your skin. It will even you out, I have seen it work for many people. But you have to put it on every day maybe even twice a day. You can get it at an African Store or an all natural store should sell it too. Peace

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