okay,i love my boyfriend to death and would do anything for him.but he drinks,dips,and smokes and i hate it.what i hate the most is that he tries to lie about it to me and it pisses me off. he wont do anything when im around him so im not worried about him pressuring me into doing it.but im worried about him getting caught,hurt,or in any kind of trouble.so my question is what can i say to make him stop?
Tell him how it makes you feel and that it worries you. Remind him that he could get caught and in alot of trouble, especially for drinking. If he truly loves you, he will stop and if he can't make that sacrifice then clearly he isn't the one for you.
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I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me!
I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19 too! Anyway, try to convince your family that he is done with his criminal life and life of drugs (if he is). If he is still getting into trouble, there is no way they'll let you be with him. If I were you, I would sit them down and have a serious talk and let them know how much you love this guy. Sneaking around isn't such a good idea. If you get caught, you will probably be in big trouble. But, you can always say you are going over a friends house and go with him or invite him over your friends house. Good luck!
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ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.
Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.
Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute
Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.
Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.
Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.
Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.
Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????
Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.
Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.
Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.
ok this is where i get confused.
Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.
Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?
Thanks signed
really confused
I think he just means that's good that you like him. If I were you, I would just ask him what he meant by that. I mean, he never did ask you out, so I don't think you guys are dating.
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do u think that i should kiss my bf or wait until he kisses me? I am very lost but what should i do?
PLEASE HELP
If you are comfortable then yeah kiss him. Hint to your boyfriend that you want to kiss. I am sure he is probably just nervous.
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heres my situation..i been wit my bf for like ever and now all of a sudden his ex has been startin shit wit me..posting blogs on myspace about me callin me a stalker and all and writin stuff everywhere online about me and textin my bf and stuff all the time tryin to get bak wit him and he tells her to stop all the time and then after that she comes and starts crap wit me..i jus duno what to do and she told me now that he was wit her on saturday and the only thing is my bf wasnt wit me til saturday nite so im not sure..he told me he saw her on saturday but only to pay bak sum money he borrowed from her and thats how she knows i wasnt wit him and shes jus sayin that to start crap wit me but i am jus so unsure who to believe anymore..she runs to my bf and tells him im startin wit her and then he comes to me tellin me what she said and all and then i defend myself of course and he believes me kinda i guess and then she starts again..i jus duno if i should believe her or him..i kno it sounds badd but i think no matter what he does to me i cant let him go..hes amazing and i jus wish he would tell me the truth..unless he already has..im so unsure nemore..i duno if he cheated or not..so unsure..what do u think?..if u wanna kno more jus tell me and ill tell you nething you wanna kno..i just need advice though..this is tearing me up and its not like i dont trust him because i do but still when she says stuff to me it makes me think..i been hurt real badd before by sum1 and im not tryin to go through it again..
Well if I heard the excuse "I had to pay my ex girlfriend money I borrowed from her" I would think he was lying. Why didn't he pay her back when they broke up? Why is he all of a sudden "paying her back" when she starts calling. I wouldn't believe it. But, you know your boyfriend more than I do. Just tell him that it bothers you that he's talking to her and she's trying to break you guys up. If he loves you, he would stop talking to her. Now for her, just ignore her.
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tonight, my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch king kong with him. we`ve been together for about 2 months now, and we`ve done everything up to making out. the last time we did, he bit my tongue and it bled. but, that was his first time making out, so i just shook it off. but tonight, i think we will again. so my main problem is, what are some good ways to make out for beginners?
Well let me tell you this, since he invited you over to watch King Kong, you guys will have PLENTY of time to make out considering the movie is 3 hours long and boring as hell. But anyway, just start out with normal kisses on the lips then open mouth kisses with no tongue then start using your tongue a little bit. He bit you probably because he was nervous. Try to make him feel comfortable. Then once you get your tongue in just start playing around with his.
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so i party alot and so does my boyfriend and recently i walked off with my friends boyfriend and my boyfriend freaked out like saying he wasnted to kill her boyfreind so i broke up with my boyfriend ))who i really liked(( in front of everybody like cusing at him and the works and so i left ((this was a 3 am ) and he called a million times that night and the next day and he still thinks we going out but i clearly stated ITS OVER but i dont thin he gets that> how should i tell him i want to be friends nothing more and also its hard because we are going to six flags on saturday with his family ugh what should i do?
Well, you guys were both drunk so clearly your actions are unsure of and so are your conversations. He may think that you just broke up with him because you were drunk. But then again, he does have a reason to be mad that you just walked off with your friends boyfriend. But under no circumstance, did he have a right to start saying those things. It could've been because he was drunk. I would talk to him about that and tell him that he can't be that obsessive. He was probably trying to call you to make things right because you guys were both drunk. If you really don't want to be with him, tell him that he is too obsessive and possessive for you and that you would feel most comfortable just being his friend. He probably won't talk to you for a long time, because let's face it, most break ups suck. But, just try to be nice about it.
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What is the age that guys usually bring their girlfriends to their house to like, meet their parents and have dinner and stuff?
I don't think there is a specified age, but whenever the girl and guy are most comfortable. Like I'm sure at the age 13, they are ready to meet the parents because the relationship isn't that serious. Maybe when the girl and guy are around the age 15 and 16 it might feel a little more comfortable to be around the parents. I guess it depends on the person and their social skills, but I didn't start meeting the parents and really going over my boyfriends house until I was 14, almost 15.
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Ive been with this guy for a few months over a year now. We have our ups and downs, but lately i dont feel a connection. We will probably get it back and im not too worried. I have problems getting over past boyfriends. I still have feelings for them long after we break up. I have managed to get over all of them but one. And my feelings are building. He was my first serious relationship. We broke up because i didnt feel i was ready for it. However now i am much more comfortable with sex and that and i think we could really make it work. (im 15, my boyfriend is 17, and my ex is 14) Last night i told my ex i missed him and we remminissed about are time together. He asked me out, saying i didnt seem too happy with my current boyfriend. Which i guess is true. I was thinking about telling my boyfriend i wanted to break up for a couple months or so. Just to get some space and if we got back together we would appreciate eachother more. I feel we take eachother for granted. I would make it clear that we could see other people because im not going to make him be single for that long and its up to him if he has another realtionship. I have already suggested this and he said it was up to me and we are talking properly tonight. I would then say yes to my ex so we could try and make things work and if i couldnt then i would probably finally be able to get over him and no it really wasnt meant to be. I need some input. Am i being mean? What do you guys think i should do? Thanks xxxx
Why don't you just tell your current boyfriend the truth. Tell him that you miss your ex and you would rather be single than be in a relationship and still be thinking about your ex. I wouldn't tell your boyfriend that you should break up for a few months, because what if you don't want to go back out with him. Also, he is going to think you were lying if you break up then go out with your ex.
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I have had my boyfriend for 2 years and I still don't know if he loves me or not. We have a baby together. Sometimes he does the sweetest little things that say i love you and then sometimes he can be really mean. He thinks it doesn't matter if he talks to other girls because they are just his friends and he is never going to have anyone take my place because he loves me. Sometimes I question whether or not he loves me? At times i can be a bit nagging, always accusing him of cheating and saying really cruel things. He tells me it my ATTITUDE that causes him to be the way he is with me. I know he could leave if he really wanted to but he stays. How can i get over thinking that he is with another woman? Do I love him too much? Is it normal for him not to want to go out with me? When we are together sometimes its the happiest time of my life. I worry because of his secretive ways. How do you know if it love or not?
If you stop naggin him, he won't feel like he is on a leash and he won't try to rebel against what you want. Just don't nag, don't say things you don't mean, don't always ask him if he loves you and all that other stuff because that shows you are insecure. Tell him that it hurts you when he flirts with other girls, even if they are just friends. You would know if it is love or not, there is no maybe.
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last night the kid i like asked me out, the only thing is, i dont want a boyfreind right now because there is only 7 days left of the school year until summer! and i go away alot in the summer and i just want to be free and hang and chill and stuff. so i wouldn't be able to see him a lot. so i told him no, but didn't handle it the best way. i like him still and i want him to like me, but i feel bad! what should i do? talk to him about it? still flirt with him?
Tell him the same stuff that you said on here. It would be too hard for you to have a boyfriend over the summer because you travel alot. Tell him that you still like him. I wouldn't start flirting with him until you talk to him about this. He might get mixed signals.
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ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou!
I would be mad. But then again, you guys don't really have a stable relationship. Maybe he doesn't take you seriously because you guys break up all the time. If you guys work on your relationship and stop fighting over everything, then I'm sure he'll stop doing that to other girls.
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hi - ok so i really like this guy. he lives like down the road from me, and we have gone out before. we dont go to the same school, so when we went out it was hard to see each other b/c we are both involved in sports. when we went out we both cheated on eachother, and since we never saw eachother - we just thought it was best to break up. btw, i was his first gf, first kiss, first like everything. this was all in february. now its june, and i want a new chance at him. he says that he likes me, but not enough for us to go out. he told me hes scared that if we go out, he will sqrew things up for us. bc i like him more than he likes me. i really want a second chance with him. do i deserve it? what can i do to convince him to be with me? should i move on? how? please help. i rate high
Well I wouldn't rush it. I mean, he isn't even sure if he likes you enough yet. I don't see why you wouldn't deserve it. You both made mistakes. Just keep talking and hanging out. It will take time but maybe you guys can work things out. Don't rush it though.
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is it okay that my boyfriend is 3 years older than me? I'm 13 and he's 16 is that bad?
No, I'm 15 and my boyfriends 19. Just be sure he doesn't try to minipulate you into doing anything you don't want to. As long as you are happy, then I don't see a problem!
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i need help!Well, i used to like a boy...Today he told me that he likes me a lot etc..I should be happy but i am not!He told me that i am very pretty and that i have a great personality, that he likes me very much, that he wants me...We were walking together hand-hand etc...I should want to be with him.He will tell me to be with him but now i understood that he likes me i don't want him anymore..Should i be with him or not?How can i know if it is something that will pass and i will start liking him again or if it is something that i will believe in tow days too???Please answer i rate 5s....
It seems like you just wanted to see if you could get him to like you and once you got him you aren't interested because you don't have to compete and fight to get him to like you. Of course don't go out with him if you don't like him. Just tell him that you don't have those feelings for him anymore.
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Since my ex and I broke up less than a year ago, all of my closest friends remained on speaking terms with him. Only one of my close friends (and roommate!) remains on speaking terms with us both.
I have been baffled as to why they havent called me in almost a year, why they are pretending I no longer exist. I fear its because they are "weirded out" by my new relationship with a guy friend of us all. But, hey, its not like I have ever liked all the skanks they dated-I didnt let it affect our friendships.
Additionally, I recently found out my ex is marrying some foreign woman and this has been a wierd time for me. I do not desire a relationship with him but I definitely feel weird and sad about it in a way-and that ties into my lost friendships, which I lost to him. Sometimes I couldnt give a damn and other times, I am wracked with sadness.
I feel really abandoned and I've made new friendships and made a new life but why does he get to have MINE? I respectfully parted ways with him never thinking I'd lose life as I knew it. I'm just feeling very resentful and sad sometimes and I'm unsure how to cope. Do I confront, or has too much time passed? Part of me just wants to stand in front of them and go, "Hey, I didnt die! Its OK to be friends with us both, esp. considering I've been friends with you guys for years upon years before him!" And the other part absolutely does not want their friendship because when the chips were down, they headed for the hills.
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If I were you, I would call or meet them all and talk to them about all of this. They shouldn't of abandoned you like this. It might also be a good idea to try to have a good relationship with your ex. Of course it's going to be hard, but you might feel better.
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Okay, so theres this boy.
And hes really awesome. And I like him as more than a friend. We are going to the dinner dance together but I was talking to him yesterday and he told me I was his friend, yet whenever my friend talks to him about me he blushes-alot! Hes really nice and is always talking to me- we talked on the fone for 3 hours yesterday! Do you think he likes me too?
I think he likes you but is just to shy to tell you! If you guys keep hanging out and talking, I'm sure he will tell you how he feels about you!
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Well how to make a long story short? OK first.. Yesterday was my boyfriend’s birthday, all his friends including me and my best friend went out for drinks to celebrate with him. When my best friend (it’s a girl) left for a different club, I went after her, because she was a bit tipsy and I didn’t want her to be on her own.
Then when my boyfriend arrived, he came up to me and just told me that I picked my friend over him and that it is over (he stated it MUCH worse). Yeah I know it was his Birthday, but he was busy with his friends. Should I just let it go? I mean how insecure can someone be if they are jealous of you friend???
I don't think he dumped you just because of that. Maybe he has been building up anger towards you and that was just a time when he could vent it out. Was he even sober when he said those things to you? He could've been talking out of his ass if he was drunk and might not have meant it. If you want to still be with him just try to apologize and tell him that you just wanted to make sure your friend was safe. It was his birthday, but leaving your friend drunk by herself could have been very bad. You could mention how he was with his friends the whole time and wasn't even paying attention to you. If he doesn't understand, in my opinion, he isn't worth it. That's definitely not something you should get dumped over.
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you have been a really great boyfriend and a relle sweet guy. im relle thankful ur part of my life. but as for our relationship, i need to be completely honest with you. i dont think its going to work out between us and i dont really see our relationship going anywhere. im really sorry, i just feel like we've reached a plateau and this is it. but we've been good friends much longer than we've been boyfriend and girlfriend and i would really like us to still be friends and i know it will be akward at first but i value our friendship and i really dont want us to stop talking and i hope we can stillbe good friends like before we were going out even though thats hard but i care about you a lot and i cant imagine not having you as a friend
I think it's nice, sweet, and to the point.
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Every time I get my boyfriend to have a boner he covers it up, what does that mean? It doesn't bother me that he has one but what is he trying to like hide?
Maybe he is just embarrassed. Or, maybe it's small and he doesn't want you to see it. Ask him why next time he tries covering it up.
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