how do you stop loving someone?
Is that supposed to be a trick question? If it is, you are veryyy deep :]
Ha.
Anyway, you CANT. Ive tried it. I think we all have. When you love someone and they break your heart and you try to tell yourself "I dont need them, Ill forget about them!" But really, you cant and you dont forget about that.
Letting go and falling out of love takes time. It could take 5 days or 5 years. Or it could possibly never happen. :[ But move on with your life, surround yourself with people that love you and have fun.
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this question is for girls...
i was wondering what girls look for in guys. like how do you like a guy? because i really like this girl and i want her to like me back. help please!
I THOUGHT YOU BOYS WOULD NEVER ASK! Haha sorry :]
Anyway.
*Nice.
*Funny. (important one!)
Attractive.
Caring.
Honest.
Sweet.
Loving.
Romantic.
Loyal.
Spontaneous.
Gentle.
Understanding.
Generous.
Intelligent.
Confident.
Loyal.
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does anyone have any good tips on how to flirt with a guy but not making it to to obvious?
thaankkss a llott
Just be playful & cute. Dont be ditzy OR act like a slut. Just be yourself! Seriously, thats the way he'll like you. :]
Heres some flirting techniques/way to show him your interested:
- Touch! Physical touching is the biggest turn-on ever (WHEN DONE TASTEFULLY.) Im not telling you to like, GRAB him. Im telling you to playfully hit him without hurting him, of course - just joking around. Ask him what time it is and touch his wrist if hes wearing a watch. It sounds corny, but if its done subtly he wont care why youre touching him. Give him hugs if he seems like that kind of person. Touch his arm/hand/chest when you think its right.
- Be interesting. Always be on your feet. Find out what he likes. Does he play hockey on the school team? Ask how the season is. Act/try to actually be interested in whatever HE'S interested in. He will think this is a very quality and that you actually care about him.
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does an orgasm burn calories? haha
YEAH! And orgasms help curb your appetite for junk food! :] Sweet.
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13/f
This guy in my grade is in love with me. He keeps calling me baby and asked me out 3 times. I said no, i just wanted to be friends. But he keeps telling me how much he wants to kiss me and stuff. I kind of want to kiss him and hook up, but want to remaing friends. How can I hook up and not have him expecting a relationship?
Simple answer? You cant. Well, wait no, you CAN, its possible. But, you shouldnt. You shouldnt mess with someones heart. It might seem reasonable and fine in YOUR mind but how will he feel? Thats like putting a pizza in front of an obsese person and telling them to only eat ONE little bite when theyre hungry and want to eat the whole thing. You need to pick one or the other - friends or relationship. It sounds like youve made up your mind on friendship and all you want is a hook up buddy. But, life doesnt really work that way. If he really likes you, I dont think he just wants to hook up with you. And I think he will be hurt because it kind of seems like your using him.
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ok so i was over at my best guy friends house over the weekend and we were hanging out in the basement with our little siblings. They wanted to play hide and go seek in the dark, and while we were waiting for everyone to get ready and figuring out the rules and what ever my guy friend and i started flirting, like i was touching his arm and hair and he was playfully teasing me. and then while we were playing he grabbed my hand and held it for a long time, now after that weekend he and i have been kind of like not as close but when we are together he give me these looks like that i cant describe and i dont know what to do. and i am really sorry that this is so long. Thanks!
Hey. Aw thats so cute! Im jealouss :]
This happened to me too. Sometimes when you have a moment like that, when you get really close to a guy, they get kind of scared which is why you guys arent as close since then. You have to let him know its OK to feel like that. It sounds like you guys have a potential to have a good relationship, so Id let him know you want to hang out more. Just say, "Last weekend was really fun..I want to do it again, just more than friends." Or something like that. Dont rush into things..take it slow.
If hes giving you looks and taking your hand, he likes you. You should try making a move! Its your turn now. :]
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alright, i know this may sound stupid, but how exactly do you flirt with a guy, especially, if he's a good friend? any tips would also be good
Just be playful & cute. Dont be ditzy OR act like a slut. Just be yourself! Seriously, thats the way he'll like you. :]
Heres some flirting techniques/way to show him your interested:
- Touch! Physical touching is the biggest turn-on ever (WHEN DONE TASTEFULLY.) Im not telling you to like, GRAB him. Im telling you to playfully hit him without hurting him, of course - just joking around. Ask him what time it is and touch his wrist if hes wearing a watch. It sounds corny, but if its done subtly he wont care why youre touching him. Give him hugs if he seems like that kind of person. Touch his arm/hand/chest when you think its right.
- Be interesting. Always be on your feet. Find out what he likes. Does he play hockey on the school team? Ask how the season is. Act/try to actually be interested in whatever HE'S interested in. He will think this is a very quality and that you actually care about him.
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im going to make this a short as possible lol . alright so ive liked this kid for about a year and about a week ago we were at the same party i got totallly hammered and went back to his house, we had sex. i lost my virginity to him. he told some of his friends they told theres, untill my brother found out. my brother punched the kid in the face, and now he wont even look at me. i dont knowww what to doo, he told my friend he wasnt pissed but i can tell the whole situtation is still on his mind and bothering him. losing my vriginity was a big deal, drunk or not. i would talk to him but i already know that i wouldnt know the right things to say and i would totally freeze up. I NEED HELP.
thanks.
and if this helps you out:
im 16/f.
When you say, "he wont even look at me. i dont knowww what to doo, he told my friend he wasnt pissed but i can tell the whole situtation is still on his mind and bothering him." are you talking about your brother or the guy you had sex with?
PLEASE message me back, because Id love to help. I just dont want to totally mix up the story and give you the wrong advice :]
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Hey everyone :D,
I'm Hailey, and im 15 years old (freshman in highschool)
I need advice on my love life lol. I like a boy named jake that goes to my school.. but hes a Senior. Hes 17. I don't know what to do.. Do you think that a freshman dating a Senior is wrong? And if you think its okkay, do you have any advice on how to get to know him. He goes out to lunch and i dont have any classes with him, occasionally I see him in the hallway and i start up some kind of small talk untill we get to our classes, but it usually doesn;t branch off from there. Any siguestions? Thanks a million! i REALLY appreciate the help!! :D
hailey,3
Its OK. If youre ready for it. If youre going to try to actually have something with this guy, KNOW the risks. He's older. Seniors have more experience usually in things like SEX, drugs, drinking, etc. Which means he MIGHT pressure you to do things. Also, he's going to college probably next year. So, know that, too. Ask him for his screen name. Or suggest you hang out this weekend.
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umm yeah i feel dumb asking this but my boyfriend reallly wants me to have phone sex. ive never done it before....so help!
Are you asking what phone sex is? If you are, phone sex is talking to your boyfriend on the phone while you both are touching yourselves and explaining what youre doing. Ex: "Im rubbing your chest and working my way down." Something like that! Ha. :] And making noises. You know what I mean. Dont do if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
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A mean , rude, jerk.
He's mean to me, he calls me fat etc.
He hates me
But we used to be really really good friends
I still like him
No matter how mean he is
wtf
help?
14/f
I HIGHLY doubt you like him. Maybe you lust him, which means you are attracted to him. But like is you like them for everything - their personality, who they are. People change. Obviously, this kid has changed if you USED to be friends. I think that might be why you like him...you still think of him as the way he was when you were friends with him. But, you cant change him. He seems like a real jerk. Someone that hates you and calls you fat is NOT worth your time. Please get over him. Forget about looks. Say, if he wasnt attractive would I like him? If we hadnt have been friends would I like him? Chances are, no. You need to realize there are better people out there who you'll miss out on if you waste your time on jerks.
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ok this boy i like is going to sit with me on the bus tomorrow. i am so nervous, what do i do? what do i say? i dont want there to be any kind of awkward silences. HELPPP MEEE.
Think of questions to ask him. Keep the conversation flowing. And make sure you are interested in what he's saying or at least come off that way. :]
Examples:
Whats up?
How was your christmas vacation?
So what'd you do last weekend?
What kind of music are you into?
Who do you hang out with in our school?
What do you do for fun?
Do you play any sports?
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14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him
Hey hun. Ive been in this situation SO many times and I cant tell you a magic way to get over a guy that doesnt like you the same way. I know how you feel. Rejection hurts..bad. :[ But I CAN tell you it doesnt last forever. Let this keep you motivated to be the best girl you can be! Let him know what HE MISSED. Get out of your sweats and let it be an oppertunity to be better..for YOU and all the better guys you'll meet in the future. When this happen to me, I get myself pampered. I go shopping, get my nails done, my hair done, etc. I build up my own self confidence and forget about the guy that doesnt like me. Whatever. HES missing out! It just wasnt meant to be. Try to find a new hobby to keep you busy and happy. Surround yourself with fun and friends and you'll forget about him in time.
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Im a 15 year old female and I think Im bisexual. I like guys but I think I like girls. Like, I think about making out with them and stuff like that. I know a couple bi people but anyway. Should I experience stuff with a girl and see if I like it before I make up my mind about being bisexual? Im attractive to them, I think.
-Confused.
Okay to the person below me - FUCK YOURSELF. Its 2007! Goddd. Are you kidding me? You should rate them a 1.
Anyway, its totally fine. I know people that are bisexual..its normal in this day and age. Go ahead and experiment. Thats the only way youre REALLY going to know. Right now, youre what they call "bi-curious." It means youre confused..you dont know what you are yet. Dont worry, 15 is young..no one really knows what they are yet. Were all going through the same thing. If you like guys and girls, youre bi.
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Do guys hate kissing girls who have on lip gloss?
cause thats what my one friend said, but i was just wondering..thanks!
Yeah. I asked my guy friend and he said it was gross when its the kind thats all sticky. He said the best is CHAPSTICK. If youre not preparing to kiss a guy for at least an hour, you can wear the sticky kind of lip gloss (its cute) but if you ARE planning on possibly kissing a guy, wear chapstick. Its will make your lips soft and supple, instead of gooey. Chapstick also makes your lips fuller and moisturized! Try a flavor kind. Guys love flavor. :]
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my boyfriend and i had sex and afterwords there was blood from me on his boxers and im no where near my period. what happened?
He tore your hymen. It happens the first couple of times you have sex and bleeding DOES occur. Its nothing to worry about.
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13/F
I went to camp in a different state and met a guy I really liked. He really liked me too but we didn't want to start dating because we live far away from each other(opposite ends of our state.)He gave me his number but wegot ina fight so I threw it out. Is there anyway I can find him online so I cant talk to him again. I have his first and last name.Thanks in advance.
http://www.whitepages.com/5116/person
Or you can always look him up on myspace/facebook.
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well i met this new guy lets say his name is tyler. well hes veryy outgoing and not shy at all. Well thing is i tend to get shy or just sound really stupid when i try to talk to them. He doesnt like shy girls he likes them outgoing, naughty type girls but still a lady ya know.. On the phone its like whatever to me i can carry on a conversation but once its face to face i tend to freeze or get shy. my question is how can i stop being so shy around boys? or any1 in general Thanks soo much!!
♥ katie
Confidence! Thats the way to not be shy. When you have total confidence, you become very outgoing. The way to get confidence is not always easy of course, because it takes a lot of self esteem. But it helps to FEEL good. So, wear a cute outfit you feel good in that makes you feel flirty. And your hair & makeup noticable but not overdone. This will make you more confident. Also, talk to him like he's your friend. Dont over think it. Be natural. :]
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14/f
Everyone tells me this kid likes me, but when it comes to seeing if people like me or not, I can never ever tell!
Here are some signs --
*He calls me twice a day.
*He talks about how he misses what we had.
*He always says we should hang out
*Hes called me pretty 3 times, in the past like.. maybe week tops?
*He asked if I'd ever makeout with him... lol?
*He always tries to help me with things.
*He drops like everything, just to talk to me on the phone type thing..
& alot of other stuff.. I just can't seem to think of it right now. =/ but, trust me theres alot more.. thats just super recent. & some of the other things, I don't know how to put it.
Anyways, what do you think? Does he just want to be my friend? or more...
By the way.. I won't rate you low, if you think he doesn't like me or something.. I want you to be completely honest.
OH..& sorry if we're not allowed to say we rate at all? I thought it was just as long as we don't say we rate high...
kthanks in advance.
Hey. If everything you said is accurate, he should basically run around with a shirt in front of your face saying, "I LIKE YOU." and screaming it down the streets. Ha :] Its pretty obvious he does. He wouldnt do all that (aka ask about the makeout thing, etc) if he didnt really like you. So, the answer is yes. Maybe you could make a move and ask him out.
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I am jealous when my boyfriend goes to hang out with females I can tolerate but dont like. I dont know why or how to tell him that I am jealous without him getting angry with me. I need some advice quick because he will be over to my house in a few minutes and then he is leaving to go hang out with his "friends", who are initally girls. ;x
Its normal to be jealous when you have a boyfriend that hangs out with other girls. But, you have to remember that just because hes hanging out with them doesnt necesserily mean he's cheating on you! A lot of guys have girls that are just friends to them - like girls have guy friends. If you show jealousy to him, though he might get annoyed - its one of the main things guys HATE. So, dont be that girl. Tell him you would love to meet his friends sometime. If he says no or seems to be hiding something, I would tell him its getting a little too weird for you. Tell him he is your boyfriend and you just dont want to get hurt. Tell him its FINE he hangs out with other girls and that youre totally cool with that! But that he needs to be less sneaky about it.
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