14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him
Like you I realized I couldn't have this guy. So well if I can't have him I still wanna be apart of his life and his in mine. So whats better than bf gf? Goodd friends. So basically just try and be good friends with him because a friend will be forever and always, and bf and gf..epically when your 14. err may not last all that long. So just try and become good friends with him and almost change your love feelings into friend feelings.
runawayxlove answered Monday January 8 2007, 9:16 pm: hey, well im glad you know that you cant make someone like you. thats the problem wiht most of these girls that ask questions on this site. well find another love. go out and meet other guys. hopefully youll hit it off with one of them and who knows what could come out of that. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
xomichelle891xo answered Monday January 8 2007, 9:13 pm: Hey hun. Ive been in this situation SO many times and I cant tell you a magic way to get over a guy that doesnt like you the same way. I know how you feel. Rejection hurts..bad. :[ But I CAN tell you it doesnt last forever. Let this keep you motivated to be the best girl you can be! Let him know what HE MISSED. Get out of your sweats and let it be an oppertunity to be better..for YOU and all the better guys you'll meet in the future. When this happen to me, I get myself pampered. I go shopping, get my nails done, my hair done, etc. I build up my own self confidence and forget about the guy that doesnt like me. Whatever. HES missing out! It just wasnt meant to be. Try to find a new hobby to keep you busy and happy. Surround yourself with fun and friends and you'll forget about him in time. [ xomichelle891xo's advice column | Ask xomichelle891xo A Question ]
Addicted2Life answered Monday January 8 2007, 8:38 pm: try to find a new guy or even a "project" ;) to get your mind off of your crush. who knows maybe once he sees that you are unattainable he might change his mind (don't get your hopes up though, there's only a small chance that he will) [ Addicted2Life's advice column | Ask Addicted2Life A Question ]
sognarxo answered Monday January 8 2007, 7:51 pm: Why dont you try getting your mind off of him. Like I told the last person. It might take a while, but it wont hurt to go out and have some fun. having fun will make time go by faster. also gets your mind off of them. Try not calling him as much. that also helps. remember there is always someone for you! i never thought there would be anyone for me, but i was wrong. You will be much happier once you move on! so start getting out of the house! [ sognarxo's advice column | Ask sognarxo A Question ]
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