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Boy likes me but i dont like him
13/f
This guy in my grade is in love with me. He keeps calling me baby and asked me out 3 times. I said no, i just wanted to be friends. But he keeps telling me how much he wants to kiss me and stuff. I kind of want to kiss him and hook up, but want to remaing friends. How can I hook up and not have him expecting a relationship?
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bad idea. ok look a) your 13. whens the last time a meaningful relationship was established at 13. It doesnt happen. b) obcessive isnt a good thing c) obviously cliny.
Its just not a smart thing to do. Tell him no, or ask him to ask some guy out for you.
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Have all of your friends around you, that way he doesn't see it as a date.
If that doesn't work, don't hang out with him as much, just hang out at school and stuff like that.
But you really can't. Reasons why
-once you kiss him he is going to like you more thatn you like him.
-he will get on your nerves.
-if you kiss him he is going to think that she is his girlfriend.
-You might not be as good as friends because he is going to get on your nerves by bugging you because he is going to think that you like hima a lot because you kissed him.
that is all i have to say
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play hard to get ;)
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Simple answer? You cant. Well, wait no, you CAN, its possible. But, you shouldnt. You shouldnt mess with someones heart. It might seem reasonable and fine in YOUR mind but how will he feel? Thats like putting a pizza in front of an obsese person and telling them to only eat ONE little bite when theyre hungry and want to eat the whole thing. You need to pick one or the other - friends or relationship. It sounds like youve made up your mind on friendship and all you want is a hook up buddy. But, life doesnt really work that way. If he really likes you, I dont think he just wants to hook up with you. And I think he will be hurt because it kind of seems like your using him.
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You have probaly heard this a million times, but it is the truth. You have your whole life to worry about guys. Your only 13!! If he likes you a lot, what kind of friend would you be to break his heart like that, by telling him you dont want a relationship but you end up kissing him anyway. That would break his heart. Lets say a guy did that to you. How would you like that? I don't think you would like that just like he wouldn't like it if you did that to him. A lot of guys may like it just being "friends with benefits" but that will hurt you in the long run. Lets say he found someone else that he liked and wanted nothing to do with you anymore. Plus I dont mean to sound mean but you may end up with a reputation and be called a slut or whore at school, and I dont think you wnat that. Sounds like this guy really likes you and you shouldnt want to hurt him.
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you could tell him that your not interested in going out but you could be friends with benefits.
or you could like try throwing a party or have a friend throw a party and maybe just in the heat of the moment hook up with him. i dont know. there plenty of ways. i think things will just fall into place.
hope i helped.
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