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I am swimmer, I play guitar and I LOVE animals!! I have four dogs. I used to have only one, but she was hit by a car in third grade and died because of internal bleeding , which was a long time ago, her name was Misty. She was a golden lab. Now I have a dog named Pepper, she is a dalmation mixed with a little bit of pitbull in her. We got Oliver next, we don't really know what he is, my sister picked him up at a horse show. (we have all mutts!) The next two we got were named Maggie, (Mine) and Lola (my sisters). I have only one crush!
Gender: Female
Member Since: January 6, 2007
Answers: 18
Last Update: March 16, 2007
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Ok so i got a boyfriend yesterday and 5 of my friends like him and before i said yes i talked to them the 4 were all fine but cut but they toild me to do whats right and they were so nice then my bestfriend ii asked her and i told her if you dont want me to il just so no but she was so happy and she was like YEH go for it but she told that she had gotten over him ok and she was like go for it yay then when i said yes she started crying now shes mad at me and i dont want to dump him what should i do =[=[ ?? (link)
U think she is a real friend, yah right. I liked someone my friend likes and she always flirts w/ him, IT IS SO ANNOYING!, But it is not your fault if he asked you first. Obveouisly he likes u better, you need to talk w/ your friend about what she feels and how you feel! Communication is the best skill in working out an agrument, (sorry i went all counslerish on you.)


how can i look prettttty.
i have blonde hair and blue eyes. (link)
makeup


I need names of bands like Red Jumpsuit Apparatus/Boys Like Girls/Panic! At The Disco/MCR!
Any suggestions? Please please PLEASE no screamo! If there's a couple lines of screaming I can stand it in a song, but not like heavy screamo. (link)
mindless self indulgence
hellogoodbye
green day
dashboard confessionals
head automatica
ludo
ok go
orson
say anything(i recommend the song wow i can get sexual too)
taking back sunday


ok i know im supposed to love her since she's my "bff" but latlely... ahhh! i just want her out of my life. she gets on my nerves!! i've been frustrated with her for a while now.. even hated her on and off, but since she's in my class, and we've been our own little group since sixth grade, and it would just be weird if i started haniging out with other people (it simply wouldnt work) im stuck with her! and ive accepted it. juist two more years of highschool and then i wont have to talk to her again. but now ive got ONE problem, she won't leave, always stays too lon, and talks like no tomorrow! My dad has a strict rule "no friends after 10 o clock" and at 9:15 i said "you better go no, because of my dads rule" and she said "ok" but then on her way to the door she started talking and just wouldnt stop" and i interrupted her and said "its 10" and she was like "oh yeah" but then started talking again! so i gigured if i just stay quiet, dont say a word, shell gave to stop talking and leave-- BUT SHE DIDNT! She just went from one topic to the other and WOULD NOT STOP. gooshhh. i mean she wasn't out the door until 12:37 (yes i looked at the clock!) and even then, her last words were 2call me sometime if you feel like talking" AHHHHHHH hlp me! (link)
tell her how you feel. and tell her the honest to goodness truth, YOU TALK TOO MUCH!!
but make sure you dont sound to harsh
and, try hanging out with other people
and sometimes if she starts talking say soemthing like "ya know you really have to go now your starting to blab" an make sure you sound like your laughing a bit so you dont sound totally serious even though you are.
to escape from her for atlest one day, tell her sunday is a family day and hang out eith some other friends or your family, just make sure you and your other friends are not going to the same place if you go out..
hope i helped
truely,
mistywasgreat


After a brutual breakup with my boyfriend
(one month ago)
I've noticed I haven't had hardly any of the
self-confidence I had before our realtionship.
Now a days, I find myself skipping meals,
complaining about my looks, and drowning myself
in wishes to be prettier. I'm actually
a decent looking person, I used to have
self-confidence. I hardly cared what people
said or thought about me, I was always crazy
and outgoing, doing something to make people
laugh.

Now, I spend hours infront of a mirror
complaining about my looks. I compare myself
to prettier people, I think twice before
I dare do anything funny, and I'm ALWAYS
of afraid of being embarressed!

How do I get my old self back? (link)
Try dating again.
getting more friends
and throwing away the past.
go to more parties
try to be outgoing
an don't think twice
it's all in your head
go to yoga classes if needed to clear your head
and really if no one says your ugly
then don't think it
from,
mistywasgreat



this guy at my school just asked me out today. i could tell he was very sincere, because he took both my hands and asked me. i told him no. then he just got all mad at me and said,"i was just playin. i didn't want to go out with you anyway." i didn't tell him this, but the reason i said no is because he has a girlfriend, and my bestfriend likes him. i'm the one who should be mad!!! and why would he even say something like that? i could tell from the look in his eyes that he wasn't playing. he should of known i wouldn't disrespect my best friend, or even his girlfriend like that!! (link)
just tell him that you wouldn't disrespect her friend and his girlfried and that he should dump his girlfried before she gets hurt even more by finding out that you have been CHEATING on her. She doesn't deserve a guy like hjim.
Hope you like my advice!!


13/f

This guy in my grade is in love with me. He keeps calling me baby and asked me out 3 times. I said no, i just wanted to be friends. But he keeps telling me how much he wants to kiss me and stuff. I kind of want to kiss him and hook up, but want to remaing friends. How can I hook up and not have him expecting a relationship? (link)
Have all of your friends around you, that way he doesn't see it as a date.
If that doesn't work, don't hang out with him as much, just hang out at school and stuff like that.
But you really can't. Reasons why
-once you kiss him he is going to like you more thatn you like him.
-he will get on your nerves.
-if you kiss him he is going to think that she is his girlfriend.
-You might not be as good as friends because he is going to get on your nerves by bugging you because he is going to think that you like hima a lot because you kissed him.
that is all i have to say


Okay, I'm 16/f... I walked into a restaurant and they asked if I wanted the kids menu... for 11 & under! I am thin, have a young face, no shape, and the blonde curls don't help either! Any advice? (link)
try wearing makeup earrings an heels more to make you seem taller an less childish
don't were kid clothes like were V- shirts
an stuff like that but dont try to look to old or it make you look like a slut
hope i helped


i have this huge problem this boy jus broke up with my best friend lizy and today i sorta hung out wit hym but he grabbed my bff emme's ass i mean she is supper skinny and totally dosent have one lol but she ii let hym do that cuz i really really like hym o should ii oo idno please help me!!!!!!! PLEEASEE (link)
i dont understand your language but umm ask your friend lizzy if it would be okay to like hang out with him and stuff if your asking if its okay to hang out with him but really i dont know what ur saying


well i've noticed a few people around my school with these gorgeous deep blue/green/teal color eyes. once i ask them about it, they say it's certain contacts they use that have a tint in them. i think they're eyes are like absoluely beautiful and i was wondering would it be safe for me if i started using contacts to get the same affect. i have 20/20 eye sight and i don't want to mess it up! Right now, i have green eyes, but i really want them to stand out! I was wondering if it would be safe to wear contacts the whole day, everyday, but only for visual affects (nothing that helps eye sight). also, whats your opinion on this? do you think this looks cheap and fake? thank you for your advice! (link)
yeah it will be totally safe!!!
i have them with 20/20 eye vison just tell teh eye doctor you don't want them for sight just for the visual affect
an it will only look cheap if it doesnt match like your skin color like if you really tan an you get bright blue or soemthing that would look tacky
if ur tan you should get hazel green or something
if your pale piercing light gorgeous blue would look uh-mazing
hope i helped


hey guys..im going to a party 2morrow and this guy i kinda like is going too. I know hes going to want to sit beside me and put his arm around me. What do i do after he does that? Do i lean my head on his shoulder? Or what?!?! (13/f)
-Thanks alot (link)
yeh, lean your head against his sholder, what is the worst he can do other than pull away.


http://i110.photobucket.com/albums/n106/glessyx3/bangs.jpg


how do i cut bangs like that (link)
cut in like a slanted way


14/f

does anyone know where they hire 14 year olds to work ??? i really need money and i dont know where to go who will hire me !

(link)
Try running your own buisenss, in the summer run lemonade stands.
any other time just ask if anybody wants help in the yard. If this is not what you are looking for sorry for wasting your time.


16/f
Well there's this guy, one of my best friends and well I really like him alot. He doesn't know and I'm not planning on telling him for fear of losing our friendship so I don't need help about that. The thing is, the other day he texted me the wierdest message and then logged off. I havn't been able to ralk to him since so I don't know what it meant and I couldn't ask. The text he sent me was: 'I less than heart you'
Like what the heck does that mean? I asked a friend but she didn't know.
To clarify what I'm asking, I want to know what the message means and why he would send it to me if it's not something stupid.
Any help is appreciated. Thanks. (link)
I think he means that he kindof likes you but not like loves you??


i wanna lose weight. the thing is, i'm hardly hungry but i've got a horrible appetite for anything and everything fatty - chocolate, ice cream, fries, if it's bad for you, i crave it constantly. how do i tame my appetite? or at least not yield to it all the time? help! (link)
For breakfast you should have something like ceral, eggs and toast, or bagles, stuff like that.
For lunch you should have a sandwhich and a piece of fruit and a good drink.(same with breakfast)
For dinner make something healthy, NO FAST FOOD!!
You can still have desert, just don't have as much.
Whatever you do DO NOT FAST!! You could hurt yourself very badly!!


I just got my hair colored today at a salon. i was wondering what shampoo and conditioner are best for that..thanks. (link)
they have stuff like Sheer Blonde or Brilliant Brunett, and stuff like that, try that. It is just for your type of hair. You cna get it at Target or some place like that.


hey people, what is the legal age to move out of your parents house? (link)
eighteen


I've been knitting for awhile (although not consistently) with modest output--I've made two scarves and that's about it. I'm attempting to make a baby afghan by knitting squares and later sewing them together. Unfortunately, I'm having a few problems.

Any suggestions on how to keep my tension even? My squares are all coming out different sizes which, as knitters know, is not a good thing. I know that it'll take practice, but if anyone has any hints or tips (even about knitting in general, since I'm reasonably new to it) I would definitely love to hear them. I've ripped apart squares more times than I can count in just a few days. (link)
first you should get yourself your own knitting journal, write your project on a page. make sure you are using the same kind of yarn because some yarn is bigger or smaller than others. then you should check it every five rows or so. that way if you mess up you don't have to pull it out as much.




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