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she talks too damn much
ok i know im supposed to love her since she's my "bff" but latlely... ahhh! i just want her out of my life. she gets on my nerves!! i've been frustrated with her for a while now.. even hated her on and off, but since she's in my class, and we've been our own little group since sixth grade, and it would just be weird if i started haniging out with other people (it simply wouldnt work) im stuck with her! and ive accepted it. juist two more years of highschool and then i wont have to talk to her again. but now ive got ONE problem, she won't leave, always stays too lon, and talks like no tomorrow! My dad has a strict rule "no friends after 10 o clock" and at 9:15 i said "you better go no, because of my dads rule" and she said "ok" but then on her way to the door she started talking and just wouldnt stop" and i interrupted her and said "its 10" and she was like "oh yeah" but then started talking again! so i gigured if i just stay quiet, dont say a word, shell gave to stop talking and leave-- BUT SHE DIDNT! She just went from one topic to the other and WOULD NOT STOP. gooshhh. i mean she wasn't out the door until 12:37 (yes i looked at the clock!) and even then, her last words were 2call me sometime if you feel like talking" AHHHHHHH hlp me!
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tell her how you feel. and tell her the honest to goodness truth, YOU TALK TOO MUCH!!
but make sure you dont sound to harsh
and, try hanging out with other people
and sometimes if she starts talking say soemthing like "ya know you really have to go now your starting to blab" an make sure you sound like your laughing a bit so you dont sound totally serious even though you are.
to escape from her for atlest one day, tell her sunday is a family day and hang out eith some other friends or your family, just make sure you and your other friends are not going to the same place if you go out..
hope i helped
truely,
mistywasgreat
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Well, if she is your bff, then you should be able to talk to her about this, and she should listen to you and respect your feelings on the subject. Maybe you can work it out so you don't have to feel so badly towards her.
Next time she comes over and wants to keep talking, give your parents a heads up about it. Have one of them step in and say "sorry, but it's getting late and time for you to go." They can stand there until she leaves so she understands that they mean business about the house rules. Then at the same time, they can send you to your room or something until she leaves, giving her no chance to start back up with the yaking.
As for thinking you are stuck with her, you are sadly mistaken. You aren't bound by law to be her friend. If she is going to be disrespectful to you after you tell her about your feelings, then she isn't a very good friend to begin with.
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