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Question Posted Saturday January 20 2007, 9:28 am

Guys, I have this friend, that's a guy, and me and him have possibly talked about dating, but we never have. All of the girls that he dated in the past were nice, sweet, and perfect. I think the only reason he used to like me was because I was shy & nice around him, and he said I was "perfect." So, him: he's pretty bad. He's tried drugs, he's made out with a billion girls, he's drank alcohol not too long ago, he's tried smoking. My question: Do bad guys like good girls? I don't know how to act around him, should I be wild/funny/kind of bad... or should I be nice and sweet?

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Brandi_S answered Saturday January 20 2007, 1:54 pm:
I'm not a guy, but I do know you should always be yourself. Don't let some one mislabel you as being perfect, because no one is perfect. Don't go out with someone because they like that you act shy and nice- they need to like you for who you really are.

People experiment with things they shouldn't. That doesn't make them bad people. You say he has tried drugs and smoking- I presume you mean he tried them but decided against it (good for him!). Though alcohol is not good to be drinking a lot of, I wouldn't say that it makes him a bad person to drink. (Though he shouldn't if he is under age- alcohol and teens is not a good combo.)

As for wondering if bad guys like good girls, that is only a label you are putting on each other. If you like each other that's all that matters.

Besides, there is an old saying that I think rings true a lot: "Opposites attract."

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sweetsummers_ answered Saturday January 20 2007, 1:26 pm:
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