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Ok so i got a boyfriend yesterday and 5 of my friends like him and before i said yes i talked to them the 4 were all fine but cut but they toild me to do whats right and they were so nice then my bestfriend ii asked her and i told her if you dont want me to il just so no but she was so happy and she was like YEH go for it but she told that she had gotten over him ok and she was like go for it yay then when i said yes she started crying now shes mad at me and i dont want to dump him what should i do =[=[ ??
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WOW thats a tuff one. well your friend told you that it would be ok. so its rude for her to be upset about it now. but she is also your bestfriend so don't let that relationship end. Talk to her about it. But don't break up with the guy. just see what happens and you wait your friend will except it :)
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U think she is a real friend, yah right. I liked someone my friend likes and she always flirts w/ him, IT IS SO ANNOYING!, But it is not your fault if he asked you first. Obveouisly he likes u better, you need to talk w/ your friend about what she feels and how you feel! Communication is the best skill in working out an agrument, (sorry i went all counslerish on you.)
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ok well first thigs first. if she is a true friend she would be happy for you not trying to bring you down.And how about to lightin things up you tell her that your sorry and that you thought she didnt mind, because she said she didnt. And you wouldnt of gone out with him if you knew the real truth =) also, tell her you can help find a cute/fun guy that is perfect for her that she could go out with!! hope we that helps - C&L=)
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ask her why she has been acting so weird. cause that IS weird. if she gives you good reasons maby you should brake up with him cause she's your best friend and as all the others said boys come and go and friends are forever. tell your bf why you can't date him anymore and i bet he'll understand.
but if your friend can't give you any good reasons which is pretty unlikely , trie and talk 2 her about the whole situation
oh , and if you DO wanna stay together with your bf tell your friend that you'll still be there for her even if you have a bf.
maby she didn't start crying cause he said yes , maby it was cause she thinks he is more important now?! i dunno i'm just trying 2 find some options.
so ask her about that and remember
N.E.V.E.R. loose your best friend over a guy!!
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talk to her first. ask her why she told you to go for it when she still felt so strongly about him. maybe she'll coem around. if she still has a problem with it, i would break up with him and explain the situation to the boy so he understands why it's ending so fast. remember, in the long run, her friendship will probably last longer than your relationship with this boy. good luck :)
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i only have one thing to say.
chicks before dicks.
guys can come and go but do you really want t olose a bestie over a stupid boy.
if you really like him that much,
tell him WHY you cant go out with him anymore.
say soemthing like "my best friend really has a problem with us going out and i dont want to lose
her. im really sorry." im sure he'll understand.
but if he gets mad, then maybe he doesnt deserve you, you know?
hope i helped.
xoxo (:
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Well, if you like him, and she gave you the heads up, stay with him. Because, she already told you to, and you like him, so you can't help who you fall for. Just tell her that you thought she was okay with it, since she seemed happy for you, and that you're sorry, but you really like him and you really don't want to break-up with him, and hopefully, she`ll understand.
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