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so theres a boy..ohhh lala :)
well i met this new guy lets say his name is tyler. well hes veryy outgoing and not shy at all. Well thing is i tend to get shy or just sound really stupid when i try to talk to them. He doesnt like shy girls he likes them outgoing, naughty type girls but still a lady ya know.. On the phone its like whatever to me i can carry on a conversation but once its face to face i tend to freeze or get shy. my question is how can i stop being so shy around boys? or any1 in general Thanks soo much!!
♥ katie
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Confidence! Thats the way to not be shy. When you have total confidence, you become very outgoing. The way to get confidence is not always easy of course, because it takes a lot of self esteem. But it helps to FEEL good. So, wear a cute outfit you feel good in that makes you feel flirty. And your hair & makeup noticable but not overdone. This will make you more confident. Also, talk to him like he's your friend. Dont over think it. Be natural. :]
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I'm going to make this wild guess and say you have friends...am I right? Haha. Anywhos, just see him as your friend. What would you talk to your friends about? Just talk about random things. One thing that never fails is to turn all the focus on him. Get to know him while having him get to know you. Have him talk about himself.
With Charles, we talk about nerdy stuff like books or politics. With Stephen I talk about religion, society, government. I tend to be a deep thinker along with my friends. If he's a deep thinker, talk about that.
If he isnt, talk about music, friends, crazy things he did or you did. School, etc. The possibilities are endless. Especially if you treat him as you would treat your firends...just don't start with the femal anatomy XD
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