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Ok so I've known this guy (we'll call him Jay) for about 3-4 months now and I reallllyy like him!! And one of his friends told me the other night that he liked me too and was wondering if I was feeling the same. And Jay asks for hugs from me alot and he really sqeezes me hard and he won't let go for a long time, you know? but I don't know if he's for real or if he's just doing this..and the other thing is his girlfriend from 3 years ago is around him alot..and he dosen't really talk to her but shes REALLy pretty..and he still might like her. maybe not. And today I was really mean to him because I didnt' know how to react to him liking me you know? no hugs, yelled and him, and yea i really regret it now. but i need help on what to do!! i rate 5's!! (link)
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Ok you really need to tell him how you feel IN PERSON... because i had this boy who liked me according to my friend but he didnt make a move or anything before i told him in person. then a day after he asked me out... so you need to tell him like stuff like
"so how is things between you and your ex?"
and he will say oh we are through or just friends
then you tell him
" oh because i been liking you and didnt know what to do because she is always around you and someone told me that you guys were still together"
(that someone told me ...part would be a lie but still its a good line to find out without being awkward)
and you have to explain why you were being mean to him
and if you still need help let me know and i will answer ASAP
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this might be confusing for some of u....its even confusing for me....i have a boyfriend at least i think i do but im not sure....he lives in texas and im in maine his friends all tell me hes seeing this girl named ashley but when i say something to him he denies it he just says his friends are jealous and they dont want him happy and of course i believe him everytime....well one of his friends changed his password on msn and decided to read his emails and his friend told me everything his emails said....i told my boyfriend about it and he just said it was nothing then his friend told him i told her to change his password and look at his emails even tho i didnt well ever since then its been different between us everytime i ask him if we're still together he says he doesnt know so my question for you guys is when a guy says they dont know does that still mean u guys r still together??? i mean he hasnt broken up with me so does it mean we're still together??? PLEASE HELP!!
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LOST AND CONFUSED (link)
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Well it seems like that he might be seeing another girl...and i have this 2 friends guy and a girl ...they are both of my friend and they used to go out and was a cute couple but now they are living far away from each other, they just dont call each other and they seem they are broken up...
so you might want to consider that, i mean long distant work for some people and it doesnt for most people. so if you want to end it with him ,which will be for the best, then you should call him and talk to him about how it wont work out.
and if you have more question then ask away
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Hello*
Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.
Brenda*** (link)
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Oh no not at all this is dumb in any way...
well first, you will be thinking of him a lot i mean real lot...
and you have that weird feeling whenever he smiles at you or look at you but the feeling isnt in any bad way... its called frission...
and you think he is perfect even though nobody is
and you think that he is just sooo handsome and good looking no matter what other people say
and you want to be with him and you Never get tired of hearing his voice.
your heart does one of those flippy thing (frission) when he calls you or wave hand or any gesture or anything at all to you.
and you can relate almost anything to him like
you see a blue shirt... and you might think...aww his fave color is blue or when you see someone eating an chocolate, you might think, aww his eyes are chocolity brown like that
you know what i am saying? like relate object to his feature or just himself...
and this is most important one of all
if YOU think you are in LOVE you are probably RIGHT... Trust your heart and go for it~~
hope i answered your question and if there is more question you want to ask then ask away...
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18/M About 6 months ago i was burned bigtime by a girl that i liked. In retrospect i went overboard with planing out every miniscule detail. Now a new girl has found her way into my life. She likes the same things as me and shares the same musical interest, BUT the problem is that i am also good friends with her parents and im not sure if they would let her date yet. What would be a good way to get the parents approval. (The parents own a local coffee shop that I frequent) (link)
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Ok i am only 14 and everything but my parents and my Aunt's parents are like that you know strict. so here is what you can do to get on good side..
1. refer to them as Sir, Mam.
for example, No mam, Yes Sir
2. always call them with Mr..., Mrs...
3. Talk about your future plan, so they know that you actually care about your future and you will have decent job or something, and throw in some good grade talk (like you got A or something but try not to sound like know it all)
4. Compliment about that girl's mom about her cooking (if she cooked it of course)
5. compliment about the house, like if they are chiristianity and there is like chiristianity decoration.
6. Talk about what was on the News. for dad.
7. and DONT EVER EVER LIE!(i know you can make a little white lie if you are in panic but it may backfire trust me)
and if you need more to impress them, then ask me anytime
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im 15, blonde, athletic, skinny and about 5'11 and i don't think im ugly..but idk if guys are like intimidated by my height or what..i have alot of friends..but not that guy friends that i hang out with..so any suggestions on how to be more outgoing around guys w/ out being self concious about my height..or just any general advice would be great! (link)
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MEN! they complain too much, when girl's too tall they feel awkward, when girl's too short they feel awkward, when girl's to skinny they feel awkward, when girl's heavy they feel awkward...but i guess we cant live with them cant live without them
and truthfully, i wish i was you. because i want to be taller (not that im short) and skinnier and more atheletic. but you can change for a guy.
i mean they might only want to be your friend or anything, but if you change, they guys will like you for the wrong reason and here are some thnigs you can do to talk to them or something
1. talk about music. ask them what kinds of music do they listen to and stuff
2. school work, ask them if they know the answer to number 5 in your math assignment.
3. just be your self, and joke around.
and if you still have more question then just email me or ask me anytime
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Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?
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well it all depends on what your heart says i think. because if you listen to your heart and if your heart says you are ready, then you might take chance, but yes i know i am 14 and i think guys are Jerks and sometimes not worth a time. so yes in my opinion i want to wait until they have MATURED! and take some responisibilty and actually talk about something meaningful other then his sports or his whatever.
but its all dif in person
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A while back a girl toyed with my emotions for about three weeks. I realize now how stupid i was. But now I'm afraid that i will get cought up in the same thing with this new girl that i met HELP!!! 17/m (link)
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ohh i am so sorry that happened and i want to help you but i am not sure if you want to what 14 yrs old girl have to say about this ...but i will try it anyways...
First, you can not let them see you get hurt, because if they see that you are hurting then they have gotten what they wanted to do in the first place. So do NOT let them have the satisfaction.!!! they are not worth a cent!
second, I can not promise anything with how your relationship is going to end up, but you can not let a one bad relationship ruin your future relationship that might turn out great. so you have to take a risk, and there might be some more dullheads who will be mean, and break your heart, and you might break some girls hearts (not in a mean way but you know you breakin up with them because its not working out) but you will never find out if they are great for you until you take a chance.
third, If you do get in that same situation again, then just simply say Ok. then just walk away, dont let her see what she wanted to see, which brings back to my first point
and Most Importantly, if they can not see that you are a great person and playing with you, they are not worth it at all! and if you move on faster you will meet a girl who likes you for who you are faster~~~ =)
so i hope i helped and hope things works out good for you
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hey this is the girl that has been talking about her bf with the bracelet..please IM me at devysbabyxo when u can..thanks! (link)
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Ok cool if i see you i will IM you ASAP
and hope its going ok with you
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alright, i like this kid, and we've hung out and stuff, and i've liked him since i first met him, then when i started to get to know him more i liked him more and more as we went along, we stopped talking for a while [ we both had a lot going on ] and then the other night he IMed me and we went for a walk, i started liking him allll over again. i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not, because i don't want things to be really weird, & because if he doesnt like me back i dont want to deal with his friends [who are semi- my friends too ] knowing about it because it'll make them weird around me too.
sorry its so long, i tried to give a lot of info :\ (link)
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Well you can choose between 2 things.
1. tell him and you might get answer you want and you might not
2. never tell him and never know...he might've liked you but you will never know
so i will help you decide..but in the end its you who makes the choice...
i know its really difficult when there is friendship involved. but you have to let him know or he will never know how you feel. so here is best way to tell him. invite him over for a walk or something then tell, or just write him a letter. and if he says no, then dont let your bruised ego ruin your confidence and your friendship with him. and you both want to move on so just act normal and dont make a big deal, just say hi and wats up and move on, and i know you will hurt a lot if he dont like you, but there is one guy who wont be able to resist you and he is around somewhere.
and hope i helped and if there is more question ask away ~
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i wanna look better im fat i wieght 170 punds and im 13 i wan to loose weight i hoping 70 pounds before school is that even possible i want to make this boy jelouse because i asked him out when i was in school because i was fat and if i come back hell now what a conplette dummy he was to not go out with me but if i loose weight and people start asking me out its only for the way i look and i dont want that i want someont that likes me for just who i am and not the way i look but to make me feel good would be so much better so im ganna loose weight but im not astrong anfe i want to but i need money to do that and im broke so how can i loose weight in only a month with no money or am i ganna loose weight for only all the wrong reasons but if i am i wanna look like the rest of the girls pretty so how can i loose weight in i month with no money (link)
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oh i was same weight as you about 2 months ago, and i even though i only lost 10 pounds in 2 months, you can not lose 70 pounds, or you will have those like really saggy skin. well what i did was i worked out about 30 min per every other day. so i worked out on mondy wednesday and friday. and sometimes on sunday because i was bored.
and if you work out while listening to music, the time goes faster...
and what i did was , lift 3 pounds dumbell on each hand and used mini-stepper.
so i suggest you should get that because that is very affective.
or treamills but mini stepper is better
or get a work out video...
but whatever you do, you just have to stick to it and control the food portion you eat.
so i hope you lose weight and mee too because i need to lose 23 pounds more ... ugh...
so if you need encouraging or more question about how to...then free to email me at
odgloeiv190@190.com
or AIM me at odgloeiv190
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thanks for your advice..im the same girl that is having problems with her bf and i got him a bracelet! but i just called him a little bit ago cause when we were talking on here my computer froze and when i got back on he was off! and i was crying and hes all like its gonna be ok sweetie, i love you sweetie, and ill call you later tonight..just dont give up on me, im not gonna move on, and all this other stuff! i just dont know what to think..it breaks my heart so much! please help me..could this mean n e thing? (link)
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oh that was very sweet of him and do you have AIM? because that would be easier to talk to you and faster...so if you do, IM me to
odgloeiv190
or if you cant then email me and i will answer it to you ... and would you mind giving me your email so it will be faster? because my computer is way slow and email is way faster
and i will help you best i can
and i think it can get better... the relationship i mean
so i will be there to help you so keep your head up girl!
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this will be very long..sorry! well me and my boyfriend have been going through a lot lately..and hes been wanting to me to prove to him how much i love him cause sometimes he wonders! so i went out of my way and paid my friends sister to take me to the mall so i could get him a bracelet he wanted carved with our names on it! so i spent like $74 on that and then i found the cutest card ever! well then since last night he has been acting kinda distant..like we couldnt really talk or anything! well then today he had to go help his grandpa so i thought no big deal ill talk to him when he gets home! well i looked at his buddypic thing and he took my name off and just put he had a girlfriend and added some other girl on there too which scared me! so i texted him and said something..no response! so then i called his house and he talked to me and said hed get online in a minute! well then he tells me hes going on vacation, he just got a job, and hes doing modeling so we wont really talk anymore so he thinks its best for now if we go on a break and i prove to him how much i love him! and he said after i send him his stuff he will read it all and think about it! and he said he cant talk on his cell cause his aunt wont let him and now he cant get on the computer either for like a week! it kills me so much cause ive never felt this way in my life..hes supposably bought me a promise ring and everything else! well i IMed that girl that was on his buddypic and seen what was up and i guess shes in love with him or something! and he was talking to her with me and i found out another girl says she loves him too and im so scared that he will move on although he keeps telling me he wont and those girls are too good of friends! i wanna believe him but its so hard! well i have his password for everything n he has mine too..well then he decides hes gonna change his AIM password and now i dont know what to think..im so scared something might be going on! i just dont know what to do! i have done nothing but cry since i found out! he told me after i send his stuff he will write me a letter back and i guess thats how we have to talk for now! i really dont know what to do cause im use to talking to him all day..it kills me so much! and i dunno what to do! do you have any cute ideas i could do with his card and bracelet that i can send through the mail? thanks so much! (link)
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Hey this must be Tough situation ...
but you have to listen to your heart...
so here are some action that might happen when your guy is cheating on you...
1. spends more time with his "buddies"
2. spends more time online but not with you
3. while on a date with you, his cell rings and he checks his caller ID then doesnt answer his cell
4. he accuses you of cheating out of guilt
and most importantly of all, he you think his not dedicated to you, then you are probbly right and from hearing your story he might be...
so you have to ask him to come over one day and sit down with him in quiet place, then tell him how you feel about all those things goin on. but truth fully ... and if he acts little jerkish about it, then he probably is, but if he really cares about you, he will tell calmly that he isnt and you have to tell him about what made you think that way, so he know what to fix...
and if you have more question, ask away and hope i helped =)
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Alright i have been dating this guy since July 3rd its the 26th today. first off i havnt seen him in 2 weeks and 1 days !!well i got grounded and i wasnt able to leave the house but yet my parents agreeed to allow him to come over. and every time i invtied him over its like no i cant i gotta go home and so and so answer everything and when i got ungrounded and he got grounded his mom said he could still come over and use the phone he hasnt called me once When i call him and he promise to call me back he doesnt. i really do love him i mean when i actully do get to see him we have so much fun together he holds me in his arms if im sad comforts me if i get hurt that kinda stuff and i dont no what to I RATE HIGH (link)
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Wow that is TOUGH situation. i mean everybody's not perfect right?
so you have to look on con and pro sides.
--CON SIDE--
1. he never calls you
2. Making excuses
--PRO SIDE--
1. comfort
2. fun you are having when you are together
but think abou it, if guy really cares about you, he would call you. and i know some guys are not good in all calling and stuff, so you have to ask him about it. if his not willing to talk about it, maybe there is a "seceret" that his not wanting to let you know. tell him calmly, that you enjoy his company and all the little affection but calling is part of the relationship and returning call! (but seriously, some guys are dead on the phone =)
but remember this, if you ever think its something else on his mind, then you are probably right. so trust your HEART! listen to your HEART!
because some guys can be real good actor. if you know what i mean.
so trust your instinct and your heart and talk it over one day. and if he say he cant come over, say its real important. and if his still not willing to come over then you have to let him in the truth, say its about our (yours and his ) relationship.
that might wake him up a little
hope everything works out for you and i hope i helepd you
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Hey. I am going out with my best friend. Before we were going out, he was so sweet and loving and everything. Now that we are going out, he doesn't act like that anymore. First he was really bad, he basically ignored me. (It wasn't because he was embarrassed)Now he has gotten better but still hasn't gone back to normal. I know he is trying, but how long is too long? (Its been 5 months!) (link)
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Ok this might sounds mean and stuff but if he ignores you, then his not worth it because you are so much better than that and you DESERVE much better than that.
so try this. get with him in some quiet private place where you 2 can talk. tell him calmly that you really loved him as friend and as boyfriend but you liked the person that you knew before who was sweet and loving, not the person you see now who is ignorant and bad. and if he really cares then he change in next week and if he doesnt than you are moving on...
this might be hard for you but you have to move on if he keeps on like this, because you deserve better than that. and if you let go then you will meet a new guy who loves you and cares for you and never ever ever ignore you.
because most important thing in a relationship is COMMUNICATION.
and hope i helped and hope it works out =)~!
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OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do? (link)
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well it all depends on if how your relation with him is.
1. just know because you see at shcool
2. talked few times (a year)
3. he sit close to you so he talks you occasionaly
4. he talks to you frequently
5. you guys are acquaintence
6. you guys are good acquaintence
7. you guys are friend
8. you guys are good friend
anyways, if you are lower then 3 then you should at least try to get to know him and talk to him but if you are higher then 6 then you should try watch what happens for few day or even few weeks
becaus he might like that new girl his making out with(probably he DOES like her since he makes out with her, unless his a kiss and run type of guy which i doubt)
and when they seem like they are hitting off, then you have missed out but if your heart says you must tell him now then
you should tell him that you've liked him for long time but never had a courage to tell him and now you see him with a new girl that you thought this would be your last chance and you must tell him that you really like him.
but most importantly about the timing is, listen to your heart. and go with your instinct.
hope i helped =)
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Ok, there's this girl I like who doesn't like me, until I can get her to like me, I don't want to be with any other girls. Unfortunately, during Dungeons and Dragons at camp today (please, no nerd cracks), there was this girl who I think was trying to get me to like her. For example, my character died, and she was like "It's okay. You and I are the only not-mean people here." Also, I never see her talk to any other guys in the group, putting aside group discussions, like marching order and etc. Is she trying to pick me up? She goes to my school also, unfortunately that other girl also goes to my school. I really could care less about this new girl, but I really think she's trying to get me to like her. What do I do, and how do I tell her that there's someone else? What if I'm wrong about her? I'm really confused, and please, none of those smart alek answers, I rate ones for people who tell me "just bang her" or anything equally unhelpful or smart alekey.
-Dakmor (link)
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Hey its ok and you are not geek because people may think i am totally not geek and stuff but i do like geek stuff so everyone as little touch O' geek in them =) and second of all i think she does like you but it can be that she's just nice
but most likely she likes you and i know when you like someone and some one that you dont like, you just want to tell them."get lost" (which in case is for most guys.)
and i am not telling you its wrong but you have to revise the situation here.
you will feel very bad if your crush say "hey i dont like you so get lost"
and think about it, she's in same situation as you. so dont tell her mean stuff just tell her
that you are not intereted in her or that you are not interested in girlfriend yet but that is most likely backfire and hurt her more when she sees you at school with you and your new girl (hey it may works out for you and your crush *wink wink*)
anyways ...if you think she likes you, it probably is. so if she's really trying to hit on you such as ask you out on date!
then calmly tell her, no being mean! because she can tell her friends about it and MAn us girls can gossip so you can be rated as mean guy among the girls, anyways then just tell her that you think she's nice and all but you want to be truthful and that you are not interested because you already like somebody so much. and be nice and casual about it so she wont feel bad and your night conscience wont haunt you down at night =)
so hope i helped and remember what i said.
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I really like this guy. I've never had a serious crush on anyone, but with this guy I do. We talk and flirt sometimes, but I think my friend is trying to hook up with him. She even knows I like him. I want to flirt with him on instant messenger, because we barely talk so there is awkward silences. I also want to flirt with him more in person. I don't know who he likes, but I really don't want him to like my friend. What should I do? (link)
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i know what you mean, i've been through same thing. unfortunetly for me, i lost him to my best friend. but it was all my fault. i told her that it was ok for her to like him and stuff and i let her tell him how she feels first.
well you should first, find out what he likes. (i mean i 've became real good friend with that guy in one day)
so when you IM him, ask him about him self. like what kinda of music do you listen to?
and before he can answer, tell him yours...
most guys like rock.
unless they are one of those ghetto rapper wannabes and red necks...no offense if he is.
but anyways...then if he sais he likes rock, ask him if he listens to red hot chilli peppers. most guys who likes rock listen to them
and ask how is his summer and tell him about your "interesting event" even if you have to lie about it. i mean little white lie wont hurt unless they seem so fake.
and you can flirt by, calling him like, "hey baby" but jokingly...and if you think he wont take it as a joke, then quickly write just kidding.
and that only works if you guys are a friend.
and i hope i helped and if you need more help then email me or something
CIAO FOR NOW~
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i seem to have bad taste in guys.. i always end up meeting guys that doesnt work out right but im seriously unpatient and i dont know what to do.. i dont know if its i get too jealous easily or i get attached but everytime i seem to like a guy too fast i get heartbroken.. how do i fix this? (link)
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You have to think before you act. that is the solution. i know you may have heard this and i know sometimes that we cant always do that
but hear me out...
1. if you just going after a guy after guy, you will be labled as Player. most guys finds that turn off. (because they dont want to get hurt like you dont.)
2. you will never find the person who is right for you.
3. the girls will avoid you too. therefore no more friends...(i know it from experience. this one girl at our school. she had her 15 minutes of fame. if you know what i mean)
so when you are looking for long term relationship, you have to think about your interest. and match yours with other guy.
and before you go all out, talk to them. become a friend first. and dont rush things. that is also a turn off. well more like scare them off.
and you have to try to be patient. i know its hard becuase i am not the most patient person around, but if you try it, it will become easy.
so i hoped i helepd you and hope everything works out =)
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i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do (link)
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Ok well some people DO change but most stay the same. think about how he was before.
did he ever lied to you? about anything...even tiniest thing.
did he ever make you feel uncomfortable?
and when you go see him, look him in the eye
and if it is those eyes, trust me i've really changed eye. then you should trust him but if he does it again, then strike him out.
and hope i helped
and hope it works out for both of you~
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okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?
ill give every one 5's who trys to help!
**help** (link)
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ok there are lots of ways to express your feelings
depending on your personality.
1. Direct Talk. which means you tell him straight out in person (but it would be good when you guys are like alone, well not at school just in case)
and that works good if you are a well talking person. like if you are really confident person.
2. Let letter do the talk. which means what it says. writing a letter to him. which most girls prefer, if they are kinda shy and if you can write good.
and if you are kinda unsure, then it will save a embarrasment , which i dont think it will happen
because it sounds like he likes you too.
i mean talking on the phone everyday, even couples dont talk that long so you have really good chance.
so have a faith in you and remember
guys hates it when girls ask other girl to do the talking for them , because they might think its just a trick.
so i hope i helped and hope it works out~ =)
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