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I am 14, Christian, uhm, I started playing the guitar days ago.

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(I used to be under the sn of Caden)


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advice

I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help.

You should dump your boyfriend ( it might be good to bring matt along, to defend you if your boyfriend gets abusive). Then you and matt should get to know each other, then if it feels right, ask him to get together with you.

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13/f

k well theres this guy that likes me. the thing is that i dont know if i like him or not. one day ill be like in love with him and the next ill be like ew gross. i dont know why im acting like this. what do i do?

You need to get to know him better first. It could be that you two should just be friends thought

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Do guys mind if girls ask them out? Usually, it is the guy who asks the girl so I'm just wondering if it is okay for "her" to ask "him".

Of course its ok to ask a guy out, it makes them feel special, unless they follow this macho thing.

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I have a boyfriend. But last night I had a dream where I was making out with this guy I used to like. Is that some kind of sign that I should be with him? Or does it mean that deep down I still like him? What does it mean?

It means nothing.
Lots of dreams do.
You may have thought of that guy and when you liked him, so that may have triggered the dream.

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Hi, I am a 16 year old girl. So, ok there was this guy that I dated for a month. Our last date was on a Sunday & I broke up with him that Thursday. On our date, he barley put his arm around me & didn’t even kiss me. Usually on our dates we do nothing but that. Then at school that week he was acting kind of funny. He didn’t call me at all that week. On Thursday at school he didn’t even hug me before he left for practice. That night I called him & said that I think it would be better if we were just friends and he agreed. I still liked him when i broke it off I could tell that he really did think it was the right thing. We still both really did want to be friends. That weekend after i broke up with him was horrible. I still really liked him and all i could think about was him. I thought it would pass. After we broke up, he barley talked to me or didn’t even talk to me at all. I tried everything. I tried talking to him about it, calling him, emailing him, everything. He didn’t seem to want anything to do with me, so after about a month of trying to talk to him I gave up and decided that he would talk to me when he wanted to. Since school got out ive emailed him a few times telling him i want us to hang out and be firends like we used to be. Well about a couple of months after we broke up I saw that he still had a picture of me in his wallet. *the only thing he really has in his wallet are my picture & money* Then his friend told me that he still had my picture in a frame on his desk. I could understand why he still had my pictures if we were still friends, but we weren’t. Now, its 3 months later and i still really like him. I miss him soo much. I havent talked to him or seen him all summer. What should i do? about everything?

Well, even if it does seem like he thinks that you and him should just be friends, he could be a bit heartbroken by it, and it might seem akward talking to you after the break up. I know this sounds sad but you should just move on, and find another guy.

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My boyfriend tends to lie to me about stupid things..like money. If he has 100 bucks he tells me he only has 50 and such. And I have caught him in his lies so many times. He told me that he woul d stop because he didn't know that i cared that he lied about stupid stuff like that.But in my opinion if he lies to me about small things than he's lied to me about more important things.What should I do to get it through his head that I don't appreciate him lying to me all the time.

tell him you know he lies to you, and that you definatly don't appreciate it, and that you can't trust him if he lies all the time, if he doesn't stop, i know this is hard to do, but I would dump him.

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I know that when you are younger. Guys tease girls if they like them. Is it still the same way in your upper teens.?

Well, if this person is mature, he most likely wouldn't do so. If he is harshly teasing you, he probably isn't interested either. but if it's a playful tease then he could be interested.

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have a friend a best friend named sean and i liked him then i thought i didnt but deep down i new i still did today i told him that i used to like him on and off for years including this year and he was like i would have gone out with you why are you tellin me now and do u still like me and i said it dont madder because you goout with jude and shes also one of my best friends and i dont know what to do pls help ps im more friends with sean than jude

Well, its natural to feel madly in love one minuit, then not in love the next, but the emotion is romance really. I would be remain friends with sean, and when sean and jude split up, thats when you can make your move.

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I'm 15 and female and my b/f is 20, but I'm fixing to turn 16. My mom likes my b/f but my dad doesn't. They are currently filing for custody of me even though i don't want to live with my dad. The thing is that I may have made a huge mistake. I engaged in sexual activities with my boyfriend with my consent because I love him. We have been dating for nearly two years. The thing is that my mom has just informed me that the only way the can take me away from her is if we have had sex. I don't know what to do. Please, I need advice badly.

Well, I would kep it a secret, i wouldnt tell anyone else either because it could reach to your parents.

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Okay im 14/f(i just turned 14 MAy 6)And ive been talking to this guy (He just turned 16 like last weekend) Well i think our relationship is moving to the point of b/f g/f .... but like i need to find out a way to tell my mom about the ages without her flipping because my mom is very strict and i mean strict.. i mean ive never really had a boyfriend befor so i have no clue what to say and i cant not tell her because one of my sisters will tell her and i will be in deep crap... so how do i tell her about this guy without her flipping out... like exsactly what do i say???

hmm, why dont you have your mom and this guy meet, and afterwards tell her his age, and that you are concidering going into a deeper relationship with him, and that you will be careful

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13/m
For the second time, i develoed a crush on my best friend, who is almost4 years older than me, should I tell her? I am hesitating because its a bit redundant and hopeless, and the last time i was in love with her, and was rejected, i was sent in a depression to the point i wasn't like myself, and our friendship was a bit f a mess {from my point of veiw} Is it still a good thing to confess?

Well, because its honest, it is a good thing to do, but, first, think to yourself if your really in love? or is more of a pride to have such a good friend feeling? Then if it is a crush, i might hint it to her, to see her reaction, and if its not the best reaction, do not tell her or hint her anymore.

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how can i get a guy who used to go out with a popular girl and who is just friends with me go out with me?
i am 15, a girl, from america, and speak english.

you should get to know him better, flirt with him, be a good friend to him, and after a while, when you two become really close, you can ask him if he would like to go out, and then later you could tell him how you feel. Also, an important tip, be yourself!

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Fourteen;Female

Okay there are these two boys they're best friends. Or atleast thats what Matt thinks but Jeff really hates Matt. Anyway I like Jeff all last summer he was sweet and alll this stuff and he liked me but nothing could happen becasue my best friend Maria liked him. So them I liked Matt who is SUPER HOTT funny cute nice but only sometimes. Other times he pissy and concided. Now its the end of the year. And my friend Sarah likes Jeff alot, but I think im starting to like him. Jeff always says he lves me and stuff and we always talk about Matt and how big of a dick he is and im so confused. So I want to know, if you were me what would you do?

Well, just follow your heart, for the guy to choose, and who else likes the guy shouldnt matter. If you realy like jeff, and you feel he is the one to date, then go for it, regardless of of anyone else liking him. But does he have a girlfriend? if not, its not like he belongs to someone.

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Me and this guy name Marcus likes each other a lot and like we talk all the time and were really close but we live like 1 hour and a half away from each other and he said he thinks we will never date because of the distance and I dont know what to say or do now.. and like i'm really upset and i told him i was but he said theres nothing he can do.. what do i do?

Well, you definatly should move on, and find someone else to date instead of him. It is still probably a good idea to remain friends with your distant pal, for friendship.

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