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should i tell her?
13/m
For the second time, i develoed a crush on my best friend, who is almost4 years older than me, should I tell her? I am hesitating because its a bit redundant and hopeless, and the last time i was in love with her, and was rejected, i was sent in a depression to the point i wasn't like myself, and our friendship was a bit f a mess {from my point of veiw} Is it still a good thing to confess?
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If she rejected you the first time, I doubt that she'd give you another chance. She's 4 years older than you, and you met her online. Online relationships don't work, and thats my opinion. I think you should just drop the crush and move on. I don't think that you really like her that much, but you just want someone to love. I don't think that its a good thing to confess because if you tell her that you had liked her a SECOND time, your entire friendship can be over since it got in a mess the first time.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
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i wouldnt tell her because she is 17 years old, she'll be an adult soon and to be honest, if i was 17, i wouldnt look twice at a 13 year old boy and i very highly doubt that she will too.
You've already had her reject you before, probably due to the age difference and it threatend your friendship, i think if you tell her it will mess up your friendship again or even put a stop to it, so just enjoy having her as your bestfriend otherwise you could lose her.
Crushes are normal when you are growing up so dont worry about it, i know it;'s hard because you love her so much but it's best to be her bestfriend than tell her and not have her in your life at all x
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if i were you i would think first about your friend relationship. The same thing happened to my friend and she asked the guy out but he rejected and their close friendship had ended. Think about your relationshipd with her. If it looks like she likes you more then a friend then go for it but if its not a relationship worth ruining then i would just talk to her more and get to be really close friends..Who knows it could change into somthing more....i hope i helped.. and if you need anything else oyu can always ask!
sincerly,
katie
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Well, because its honest, it is a good thing to do, but, first, think to yourself if your really in love? or is more of a pride to have such a good friend feeling? Then if it is a crush, i might hint it to her, to see her reaction, and if its not the best reaction, do not tell her or hint her anymore.
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