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If you were me.
Fourteen;Female
Okay there are these two boys they're best friends. Or atleast thats what Matt thinks but Jeff really hates Matt. Anyway I like Jeff all last summer he was sweet and alll this stuff and he liked me but nothing could happen becasue my best friend Maria liked him. So them I liked Matt who is SUPER HOTT funny cute nice but only sometimes. Other times he pissy and concided. Now its the end of the year. And my friend Sarah likes Jeff alot, but I think im starting to like him. Jeff always says he lves me and stuff and we always talk about Matt and how big of a dick he is and im so confused. So I want to know, if you were me what would you do?
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no girl "owns" a guy watsoever. you should back o ff if the guy is in a relationship, but if some chick just likes him, who cares you're not a "bf stealer." talk to Sarah if you think it will bebetter for things....from what you tol d me, id go with Jeeff, but talk to him first. Matt sounds like a dirtbag and once you start goin with dirtbags, thats all your gonna want cause thats all youknow. gooddd luckkkk. your probably a freshman in high school right now...imagine... 4 more years of this drama...
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Well, just follow your heart, for the guy to choose, and who else likes the guy shouldnt matter. If you realy like jeff, and you feel he is the one to date, then go for it, regardless of of anyone else liking him. But does he have a girlfriend? if not, its not like he belongs to someone.
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Well, I have to say one thing to start us off here, your friends do not "own" a guy because they liked him first. I used to think that & I'd try not liking the guys I liked because my friend liked them. Your friends can't tell you who not to like, it's your choice.
Anyways, you have to choose which one you like more. Think about what you like about each of them, and then decide which one has the better character traits. Make sure you go with your heart & not with what your friends think. That is a big mistake that can lead you somewhere you'll end up unhappy.
I hope everything turns out okay for you.
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well first of all how close are you with this friend? and the rule goes chicks before dicks but sometimes we have to bend the rules=) lol but i think matt would be a no no he all ready sounds likea jerk and you should talk to jeff about this whole situation tell him you like him and want to be with him but your bestfriend likes him so you really can't do anything thing except for be friends and if i were you i would back off the guy because i would rather have friends then a boyfriend =) i hoped i helped, Brianna
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