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have a friend a best friend named sean and i liked him then i thought i didnt but deep down i new i still did today i told him that i used to like him on and off for years including this year and he was like i would have gone out with you why are you tellin me now and do u still like me and i said it dont madder because you goout with jude and shes also one of my best friends and i dont know what to do pls help ps im more friends with sean than jude
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Well this is a really hard situation and I hate to say it because I hate getting this advice but you really need to follow your heart.
I personally think that this guy Sean does like you because he told you striaght out he woulda gone out with you and he asked you if you would date him now (meaning if you had said yes he probably would have asked you).
What you need to realize is whats more important to you. Do you still really like Sean and could maybe deal with getting in a fight with Jude (which probably could happen if she does like him). If you want to date him then don't lie to him or yourself. Tell him you still like him (if you do) and then tell him that you don't want to ruin your friendship with Jude. Talk to her about it and tell her you've liked him for a really long time and she should understand if she's one of your best friends.
I hope I helped. Good luck and let me know if you need anymore help!
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You can't really do anything whilst he is still going out with someone else. Firstly because if you were to reverse the position and put yourself in Jude's place, you would be very upset at being betrayed, and rightly so. Secondly, if he should want to date you behind Jude's back, that doesn't say much about his character does it?
At your age, relationships don't usually last for long, as you are still finding out what you like in a partner and what you do not like. If, in time, Sean and Jude do split up, both of you will be in a position to decide what to do next.
Regardless of who you are more friends with, the best thing you can do at the moment is bide your time. If you are meant to be together, you will be, but building a relationship on the back of a
friend is no way to start, and it could taint your feelings for each other in the long run. For the time being, just be friends with the pair of them. He now knows how you feel and you know that he does like you, that will have to be enough for now.
Hope that helps and the best of luck.
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Well, its natural to feel madly in love one minuit, then not in love the next, but the emotion is romance really. I would be remain friends with sean, and when sean and jude split up, thats when you can make your move.
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