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Age difference
Okay im 14/f(i just turned 14 MAy 6)And ive been talking to this guy (He just turned 16 like last weekend) Well i think our relationship is moving to the point of b/f g/f .... but like i need to find out a way to tell my mom about the ages without her flipping because my mom is very strict and i mean strict.. i mean ive never really had a boyfriend befor so i have no clue what to say and i cant not tell her because one of my sisters will tell her and i will be in deep crap... so how do i tell her about this guy without her flipping out... like exsactly what do i say???
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All i can really say is to be honest. dont lie about anything, bc that will just make things worst. and you know moms, they find out EVERYTHINGG. lol well good luck to you.
-steff*
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Wow i am going through like the same thing right now. I cant find a way to talk to my mom either. And my sister already told her and she freaked out but i want to talk to her about it and make everything o.k.If you get any good advice maybe you could let me know? thanks.
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all i can say is just be up frot an spit it out because honestly no matter what different ways they tell you to say it she stillm goin to flip out no matter what and that's just real tlak so just tell her get over with it.
Hope everything work out
Jazzy**
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Well, start out by telling her your friends with this boy. See how she reacts. Then start to see him more often and tell your mom. So she can see your hanging with him a lot and she won't totally freak out when you tell her. Also, you could like invite him to come over and hang out outside (not your room tho she's prolly FLIP OUT!) lol
Well Hope I help Good luck
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hmm, why dont you have your mom and this guy meet, and afterwards tell her his age, and that you are concidering going into a deeper relationship with him, and that you will be careful
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i have a strict mother too and im pregnant.
what i would say is.....mom i dont want to hide anything from you and i just want to be honest with you. i have someone i am considering to be my boyfriend. i am careful and im smart and i wont do anything stupid. what do you thin about my situation?? i want to talk to you about it. please.
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Dont tell her the age right away. Have her meet the guy and if she likes him then tell her the age. IF she likes the boy then she more likely to approve than if you just told her about this strange boy that you have been talking to. Tell her about his personality. And two years apart isnt really bad. I am dating someone who is 3 years younger than me. And we have a great relationship. My mom was so strict about me dating younger guys so i let her meet the guy and she liked him i tol dher i dating him and she approved. so i told her he was younger by 3 years she said ok but be careful b/c she tristed the guy b/c she met him.
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Ok... first, this boyfriend in question, is he a generally good guy? you know, repectful, kind, the basics. What I think you should do is make sure that he is on the same page as you are, to prevent your mom from getting really angry. If he is, invite him to meet your mom and let her see for herself that he is a good guy!! You have to figure out what to say, but i'm sure you will come up with something! But above all, you HAVE to be honest about it!! Because if you AREN'T and your mom finds out the truth, then you'll be in some big trouble! And if you ARE then maybe she will be more open. I hope everything goes well!
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Tell her you are friends. Nothing wrong with that right? You don't have to say that you are waiting to be going out. Try to be honest and open about it, because if you aren't then they might think you are hiding things from them (bad things). So just tell her that you are friends. Say that he is in __ grade, his name is __, he does ___ things after school, and is 16 years old. Be open and honest, because chances are if they see you are then they probably won't be as strict...instead of them not knowing anything; so instead of waiting for them to pry into things, just tell them. Remember, all you have to say is that you are friends. Later on, if she's ok with it, ask her what she thinks aobut a relationship between you too. Of course, try to get him over for dinner or something; if she sees what he is like she might not be as strict - your mom only wants what is best for you. Hope that helped and good luck.
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